Teen possibly abducted from party in CA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The party was 10 miles from her home. It was mostly kids from 2 local high schools. Kiely was 16, but she just finished high school--2 years early. She spent most of the night with a good girlfriend. So, that doesn't sound as if her parents were that lax in letting her go. I mean I personally probably wouldn't, but it's not as if they let her drive into a major city alone and go clubbing.

Downside--she had been drinking. Girlfriend she spent most of the night with says Kiely was too drunk to drive. She said lots of people were camping and she thought Kiely was going to do that. Mom said she texted saying she was going to leave. So, it sounds as if she did try to drive home drunk and got into an accident OR she accepted a ride from someone she thought was safe but wasn't. I'm kind of leaning to the second because her phone was switched off.

Divers were out but didn't find anything.

Car was 2013 Honda--doesn't sound like it was a carjacking.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/mom-friend-missing-teen-kiely-rodni-recall-conversations/story?id=88137954

I hope she's found safe and sound, but it isn't looking good.

Do people not teach their kids the buddy system anymore?

My high school and college friend groups had an iron clad rule - we come together, we leave together. No matter what. This seems to be a common thread in many cases like this - where a young woman leaves a party/concert/bar alone.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

What are they supposed to do, keep her locked in the basement?

If you parent like you're supposed to do and build a solid and firm but loving relationship from the time they're little, you very likely won't have these kinds of problems.

You need some humility.

Some parents lose children because of horrendous timing/bad luck/human frailty.

You should not assume that they are to blame. That is a myth that other parents tell themselves, so they can believe it won't happen to them.

PP here. I never said terrible things can't happen. I know they do, to the best pf parents. I was referring to the idea of kids sneaking out and going to parties at midnight.

She didn’t sneak out. Her mom knew where she was.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

What are they supposed to do, keep her locked in the basement?

If you parent like you're supposed to do and build a solid and firm but loving relationship from the time they're little, you very likely won't have these kinds of problems.

Elizabeth Smart?

Didn't her parents employ a sketchy home repair person?

They still built a strong loving relationship.. they were charitable, yes.

Your theory has holes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Missing white blonde female?

The only reason we are hearing about it. She's a pretty, blonde woman. I hope she's found safe and alive.

The idea that we only hear about missing white people is about 20 years old. Stop holding on to the past. We hear about everyone nowadays.

Can you post a CNN story about Imani Stevens?

She was found

Can you post nation news to help find her?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Missing white blonde female?

The only reason we are hearing about it. She's a pretty, blonde woman. I hope she's found safe and alive.

The idea that we only hear about missing white people is about 20 years old. Stop holding on to the past. We hear about everyone nowadays.

Can you post a CNN story about Imani Stevens?

She was found

Can you post nation news to help find her?

NP. Your post is confusing, but I think you’re asking for an article from before she was found? Here’s one from Fox News: https://www.foxnews.com/us/missing-florida-girl-imani-stephens-11-believed-grave-immediate-danger

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

What are they supposed to do, keep her locked in the basement?

If you parent like you're supposed to do and build a solid and firm but loving relationship from the time they're little, you very likely won't have these kinds of problems.

Elizabeth Smart?

Didn't her parents employ a sketchy home repair person?

They still built a strong loving relationship.. they were charitable, yes.

Your theory has holes.

Then parent how you please.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The party was 10 miles from her home. It was mostly kids from 2 local high schools. Kiely was 16, but she just finished high school--2 years early. She spent most of the night with a good girlfriend. So, that doesn't sound as if her parents were that lax in letting her go. I mean I personally probably wouldn't, but it's not as if they let her drive into a major city alone and go clubbing.

Downside--she had been drinking. Girlfriend she spent most of the night with says Kiely was too drunk to drive. She said lots of people were camping and she thought Kiely was going to do that. Mom said she texted saying she was going to leave. So, it sounds as if she did try to drive home drunk and got into an accident OR she accepted a ride from someone she thought was safe but wasn't. I'm kind of leaning to the second because her phone was switched off.

Divers were out but didn't find anything.

Car was 2013 Honda--doesn't sound like it was a carjacking.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/mom-friend-missing-teen-kiely-rodni-recall-conversations/story?id=88137954

I hope she's found safe and sound, but it isn't looking good.

Oh, wow. That's really unique situation, to have graduated high school at 16. That would make it really tough to know what rules to set as a parent - rules appropriate for a 16yo, or rules appropriate for someone potentially moving out to go to college in a few weeks? I went to college with a couple kids like this, 16 year olds living in a college dorm. It's not easy. There's a strong drive to do everything their peers (meaning same grade level) do, but they don't always have the maturity or physical development for it. There's a huge difference between 16 and 18. If most of her friends and classmates were two years older... I can totally see getting in over her head at a big party.

I hope she's found alive and well.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Some of you who don't work in a public school system need to attend a sex trafficking seminar. It'll be an eye opener.

Tell us about the work you do at a public school. Some are so desperate they'll bring in anyone to substitute. One sub abused my sns kid. Complaints were filed

I know a crazy mom who presents herself as a teacher who has only been a volunteer substitute a few times. She also has told people she's an advocate for sns kids. She's actually insulting and ignorant about sns kids and is not someone the school wants as a substitute. You wouldn't know this if you talked to this narcissistic perpetual victim of a mom. She believes a lot of this q crap also.

I can't speak for the personnel your school system hires. In the Atlanta area, sex trafficking is a big enough concern that inservices are provided for most employees of the larger school systems.

Share with us info about kids who've been trafficked?

This actually has happened in Montgomery Count MD also.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

And you think this is happening frequently?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of you who don't work in a public school system need to attend a sex trafficking seminar. It'll be an eye opener.

Tell us about the work you do at a public school. Some are so desperate they'll bring in anyone to substitute. One sub abused my sns kid. Complaints were filed

I know a crazy mom who presents herself as a teacher who has only been a volunteer substitute a few times. She also has told people she's an advocate for sns kids. She's actually insulting and ignorant about sns kids and is not someone the school wants as a substitute. You wouldn't know this if you talked to this narcissistic perpetual victim of a mom. She believes a lot of this q crap also.

I can't speak for the personnel your school system hires. In the Atlanta area, sex trafficking is a big enough concern that inservices are provided for most employees of the larger school systems.

Share with us info about kids who've been trafficked?

Around here, I have heard of Hispanic teens being trafficked or Asian women. Not blonde, kidnapped white teens. But none of this is relevant to that poor young girl who is missing!

This actually has happened in Montgomery Count MD also.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Missing white blonde female?

Right?!?!?!

Meanwhile, how many young black females are currently missing right here in DC?


-a Trump supporter

I’m so embarrassed for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The party was 10 miles from her home. It was mostly kids from 2 local high schools. Kiely was 16, but she just finished high school--2 years early. She spent most of the night with a good girlfriend. So, that doesn't sound as if her parents were that lax in letting her go. I mean I personally probably wouldn't, but it's not as if they let her drive into a major city alone and go clubbing.

Downside--she had been drinking. Girlfriend she spent most of the night with says Kiely was too drunk to drive. She said lots of people were camping and she thought Kiely was going to do that. Mom said she texted saying she was going to leave. So, it sounds as if she did try to drive home drunk and got into an accident OR she accepted a ride from someone she thought was safe but wasn't. I'm kind of leaning to the second because her phone was switched off.

Divers were out but didn't find anything.

Car was 2013 Honda--doesn't sound like it was a carjacking.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/mom-friend-missing-teen-kiely-rodni-recall-conversations/story?id=88137954

I hope she's found safe and sound, but it isn't looking good.

Do people not teach their kids the buddy system anymore?

My high school and college friend groups had an iron clad rule - we come together, we leave together. No matter what. This seems to be a common thread in many cases like this - where a young woman leaves a party/concert/bar alone.

+1 million

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The party was 10 miles from her home. It was mostly kids from 2 local high schools. Kiely was 16, but she just finished high school--2 years early. She spent most of the night with a good girlfriend. So, that doesn't sound as if her parents were that lax in letting her go. I mean I personally probably wouldn't, but it's not as if they let her drive into a major city alone and go clubbing.

Downside--she had been drinking. Girlfriend she spent most of the night with says Kiely was too drunk to drive. She said lots of people were camping and she thought Kiely was going to do that. Mom said she texted saying she was going to leave. So, it sounds as if she did try to drive home drunk and got into an accident OR she accepted a ride from someone she thought was safe but wasn't. I'm kind of leaning to the second because her phone was switched off.

Divers were out but didn't find anything.

Car was 2013 Honda--doesn't sound like it was a carjacking.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/mom-friend-missing-teen-kiely-rodni-recall-conversations/story?id=88137954

I hope she's found safe and sound, but it isn't looking good.

Do people not teach their kids the buddy system anymore?

My high school and college friend groups had an iron clad rule - we come together, we leave together. No matter what. This seems to be a common thread in many cases like this - where a young woman leaves a party/concert/bar alone.

+1 million

We’ll both her and her friend she came with were very drunk. So maybe they had a plan but that fell apart.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The party was 10 miles from her home. It was mostly kids from 2 local high schools. Kiely was 16, but she just finished high school--2 years early. She spent most of the night with a good girlfriend. So, that doesn't sound as if her parents were that lax in letting her go. I mean I personally probably wouldn't, but it's not as if they let her drive into a major city alone and go clubbing.

Downside--she had been drinking. Girlfriend she spent most of the night with says Kiely was too drunk to drive. She said lots of people were camping and she thought Kiely was going to do that. Mom said she texted saying she was going to leave. So, it sounds as if she did try to drive home drunk and got into an accident OR she accepted a ride from someone she thought was safe but wasn't. I'm kind of leaning to the second because her phone was switched off.

Divers were out but didn't find anything.

Car was 2013 Honda--doesn't sound like it was a carjacking.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/mom-friend-missing-teen-kiely-rodni-recall-conversations/story?id=88137954

I hope she's found safe and sound, but it isn't looking good.

Do people not teach their kids the buddy system anymore?

My high school and college friend groups had an iron clad rule - we come together, we leave together. No matter what. This seems to be a common thread in many cases like this - where a young woman leaves a party/concert/bar alone.

+1 million

We’ll both her and her friend she came with were very drunk. So maybe they had a plan but that fell apart.

There's a lesson for all to think about...

[Anonymous]

So sad. You always need to be with friends and the driver has to stay sober. Please tell your daughters this.