Teen possibly abducted from party in CA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

What are they supposed to do, keep her locked in the basement?

If you parent like you're supposed to do and build a solid and firm but loving relationship from the time they're little, you very likely won't have these kinds of problems.

You need some humility.

Some parents lose children because of horrendous timing/bad luck/human frailty.

You should not assume that they are to blame. That is a myth that other parents tell themselves, so they can believe it won't happen to them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

What are they supposed to do, keep her locked in the basement?

If you parent like you're supposed to do and build a solid and firm but loving relationship from the time they're little, you very likely won't have these kinds of problems.

You need some humility.

Some parents lose children because of horrendous timing/bad luck/human frailty.

You should not assume that they are to blame. That is a myth that other parents tell themselves, so they can believe it won't happen to them.

PP here. I never said terrible things can't happen. I know they do, to the best pf parents. I was referring to the idea of kids sneaking out and going to parties at midnight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:16 year old with tattoos, piercings, out at 12:30 am in the woods at a party with 300 other kids, driving new looking car and nobody knows where she went?

Where are the parents?

SO many parents are like that now. My H is one of them. The philosophy is “they’re going to do it anyway, I want them to feel comfortable telling me in case something happens”.

Well, something did happen and mom knowing about the party didn’t do sh!t to save her. Your kids don’t need a friend, they need a PARENT.

He’s not wrong. At least this mom knows where her daughter was and around what time she disappeared. She wouldn’t if the girl snuck out.

Actually, he is wrong. Studies show that parents that set limits (like not drinking alcohol in high school), and share those limits with their children, have kids who are less likely to drink/use drugs/get pregnant, etc.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

What are they supposed to do, keep her locked in the basement?

If you parent like you're supposed to do and build a solid and firm but loving relationship from the time they're little, you very likely won't have these kinds of problems.

Elizabeth Smart?

Didn't her parents employ a sketchy home repair person?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

What are they supposed to do, keep her locked in the basement?

If you parent like you're supposed to do and build a solid and firm but loving relationship from the time they're little, you very likely won't have these kinds of problems.

Try Judgemental A-Holes Anonymous

Try reading what was said and not being afraid to actually be a parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

sigh. No. When has this happened?. Actually happened? You're a quanon nut right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

What are they supposed to do, keep her locked in the basement?

If you parent like you're supposed to do and build a solid and firm but loving relationship from the time they're little, you very likely won't have these kinds of problems.

Nope. This issue really is who the kids are that they are with.

[Anonymous]

The party was 10 miles from her home. It was mostly kids from 2 local high schools. Kiely was 16, but she just finished high school--2 years early. She spent most of the night with a good girlfriend. So, that doesn't sound as if her parents were that lax in letting her go. I mean I personally probably wouldn't, but it's not as if they let her drive into a major city alone and go clubbing.

Downside--she had been drinking. Girlfriend she spent most of the night with says Kiely was too drunk to drive. She said lots of people were camping and she thought Kiely was going to do that. Mom said she texted saying she was going to leave. So, it sounds as if she did try to drive home drunk and got into an accident OR she accepted a ride from someone she thought was safe but wasn't. I'm kind of leaning to the second because her phone was switched off.

Divers were out but didn't find anything.

Car was 2013 Honda--doesn't sound like it was a carjacking.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/mom-friend-missing-teen-kiely-rodni-recall-conversations/story?id=88137954

I hope she's found safe and sound, but it isn't looking good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some of you who don't work in a public school system need to attend a sex trafficking seminar. It'll be an eye opener.

Tell us about the work you do at a public school. Some are so desperate they'll bring in anyone to substitute. One sub abused my sns kid. Complaints were filed

I know a crazy mom who presents herself as a teacher who has only been a volunteer substitute a few times. She also has told people she's an advocate for sns kids. She's actually insulting and ignorant about sns kids and is not someone the school wants as a substitute. You wouldn't know this if you talked to this narcissistic perpetual victim of a mom. She believes a lot of this q crap also.

[Anonymous]

Looks like her car has been located according to north Tahoe communities on Facebook

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex traffickers probably have her. She is either dead or sold to someone in a third world country.

She is a target for being young, blond, pretty. Parents did not figure that out?

What are they supposed to do, keep her locked in the basement?

If you parent like you're supposed to do and build a solid and firm but loving relationship from the time they're little, you very likely won't have these kinds of problems.

Nope. This issue really is who the kids are that they are with.

Again, read post to which you are responding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of you who don't work in a public school system need to attend a sex trafficking seminar. It'll be an eye opener.

Tell us about the work you do at a public school. Some are so desperate they'll bring in anyone to substitute. One sub abused my sns kid. Complaints were filed

I know a crazy mom who presents herself as a teacher who has only been a volunteer substitute a few times. She also has told people she's an advocate for sns kids. She's actually insulting and ignorant about sns kids and is not someone the school wants as a substitute. You wouldn't know this if you talked to this narcissistic perpetual victim of a mom. She believes a lot of this q crap also.

I can't speak for the personnel your school system hires. In the Atlanta area, sex trafficking is a big enough concern that inservices are provided for most employees of the larger school systems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of you who don't work in a public school system need to attend a sex trafficking seminar. It'll be an eye opener.

Tell us about the work you do at a public school. Some are so desperate they'll bring in anyone to substitute. One sub abused my sns kid. Complaints were filed

I know a crazy mom who presents herself as a teacher who has only been a volunteer substitute a few times. She also has told people she's an advocate for sns kids. She's actually insulting and ignorant about sns kids and is not someone the school wants as a substitute. You wouldn't know this if you talked to this narcissistic perpetual victim of a mom. She believes a lot of this q crap also.

I can't speak for the personnel your school system hires. In the Atlanta area, sex trafficking is a big enough concern that inservices are provided for most employees of the larger school systems.

Share with us info about kids who've been trafficked?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Still amplifying these types of things no matter how far flung and remote in possibility versus anything local...got it.

Will you stop policing the forums, please? It’s becoming insufferable. This is a national news story, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with this thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of you who don't work in a public school system need to attend a sex trafficking seminar. It'll be an eye opener.

Tell us about the work you do at a public school. Some are so desperate they'll bring in anyone to substitute. One sub abused my sns kid. Complaints were filed

I know a crazy mom who presents herself as a teacher who has only been a volunteer substitute a few times. She also has told people she's an advocate for sns kids. She's actually insulting and ignorant about sns kids and is not someone the school wants as a substitute. You wouldn't know this if you talked to this narcissistic perpetual victim of a mom. She believes a lot of this q crap also.

I can't speak for the personnel your school system hires. In the Atlanta area, sex trafficking is a big enough concern that inservices are provided for most employees of the larger school systems.

Yes it’s a problem with at-risk youths. Kids in the foster care system, kids being raised by an uninvolved parent or other guardian, kids whose families are deep in poverty and/or homeless, kids who are here illegally or involved with gangs or their parents are. Which, sadly, DOES describe a lot of youths in our country’s schools. The traffickers want to entice kids who aren’t likely to be noticed if they go missing for a long period of time. They don’t want to abduct a kid off the streets who will be noticed as missing right away.