If your AP’s spouse found out..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ii was the betrayed wife. When I found out, I quietly got my ducks in a row. Then I used my (then) husband's phone to post to his fb account. It was a lovely screenshot of he and AP mid-webcam chat. Sorry about the close up of your double chin and cold sore, AP. The post explained their amazing love story, complete with screenshots of texts. I tagged her in it. Turned DHs phone to silent and put a nice new PIN to unlock it. He obviously slept through AP frantically calling him, and couldn't unlock the phone anyway, so that post got to stew for a while for their hundreds of friends (and coworkers!).

APs husband eventually reached out to me for answers. We blew everything up. The star crossed lovers didn't even last 2 months after marriage separation.

Savage

See, I'm a wife and I'd think the PP is mentally ill. I'd actually feel sympathetic towards her H, but I hate trashy drama.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ii was the betrayed wife. When I found out, I quietly got my ducks in a row. Then I used my (then) husband's phone to post to his fb account. It was a lovely screenshot of he and AP mid-webcam chat. Sorry about the close up of your double chin and cold sore, AP. The post explained their amazing love story, complete with screenshots of texts. I tagged her in it. Turned DHs phone to silent and put a nice new PIN to unlock it. He obviously slept through AP frantically calling him, and couldn't unlock the phone anyway, so that post got to stew for a while for their hundreds of friends (and coworkers!).

APs husband eventually reached out to me for answers. We blew everything up. The star crossed lovers didn't even last 2 months after marriage separation.

Savage

See, I'm a wife and I'd think the PP is mentally ill. I'd actually feel sympathetic towards her H, but I hate trashy drama.

+1 but I am more of a WASP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ii was the betrayed wife. When I found out, I quietly got my ducks in a row. Then I used my (then) husband's phone to post to his fb account. It was a lovely screenshot of he and AP mid-webcam chat. Sorry about the close up of your double chin and cold sore, AP. The post explained their amazing love story, complete with screenshots of texts. I tagged her in it. Turned DHs phone to silent and put a nice new PIN to unlock it. He obviously slept through AP frantically calling him, and couldn't unlock the phone anyway, so that post got to stew for a while for their hundreds of friends (and coworkers!).

APs husband eventually reached out to me for answers. We blew everything up. The star crossed lovers didn't even last 2 months after marriage separation.

Savage

See, I'm a wife and I'd think the PP is mentally ill. I'd actually feel sympathetic towards her H, but I hate trashy drama.

I see the trashy drama as the married APs. So gross. Miss Cold Sore Double Chin. They are trash with their stupid webcam and sneaking around lying.

I would think nothing less of the wife. I’d think “way to stand up for yourself”.

And those two losers didn’t make it 2 months. Ha. Typical

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ii was the betrayed wife. When I found out, I quietly got my ducks in a row. Then I used my (then) husband's phone to post to his fb account. It was a lovely screenshot of he and AP mid-webcam chat. Sorry about the close up of your double chin and cold sore, AP. The post explained their amazing love story, complete with screenshots of texts. I tagged her in it. Turned DHs phone to silent and put a nice new PIN to unlock it. He obviously slept through AP frantically calling him, and couldn't unlock the phone anyway, so that post got to stew for a while for their hundreds of friends (and coworkers!).

APs husband eventually reached out to me for answers. We blew everything up. The star crossed lovers didn't even last 2 months after marriage separation.

Savage

See, I'm a wife and I'd think the PP is mentally ill. I'd actually feel sympathetic towards her H, but I hate trashy drama.

+1 but I am more of a WASP

Oh if you don’t think WASPs do this you don’t live in Greenwich.

Trash are the cheating whores, always.

[Anonymous]

Anytime I hear someone is cheating in their marriage: Jerry Springer.

I always think what uncouth losers behaving like lying children.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t do the social media exposure because I would be protecting my kids (if I didn’t have kids o could see it!), but an email or registered letter to their spouse- yes. I’d also have no qualms about confronting OW in person at her house.

[Anonymous]

Every marriage that split apart when I was growing up involved infidelity. At least, the ones I knew about. The blow up became public knowledge, and in every case it was really awful stuff—best friends, secretaries, illegitimate children—kids were 10-12. If there were ones where they kept it quiet I did not know.

[Anonymous]

I am the "trashy drama" betrayed wife. I was absolutely beside myself with pain and anger.... I was definitely having a meltdown after discovering the affair. Do I regret it? No way. My reaction to a monstrous betrayal was dramatic, but not unwarranted.

I calmed down in the months following, with some antidepressants and anxiety meds plus therapy. My kids and I are thriving now, and my business has taken off since the divorce and doubled my income. Ex is still hopping from woman to woman, occasionally drunk texting me sappy nonsense, and admitted he is jealous of how I rebuilt my life. I trust men (any man) as far as I can throw him.

[Anonymous]

The best part of these threads is when cheaters start throwing around “class”. Omg. Somebody sneaking in and out of hotel rooms paid by the hour and blowing a married person in a car garage is pure class. So is lying to your spouse. Ha. Class acts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ii was the betrayed wife. When I found out, I quietly got my ducks in a row. Then I used my (then) husband's phone to post to his fb account. It was a lovely screenshot of he and AP mid-webcam chat. Sorry about the close up of your double chin and cold sore, AP. The post explained their amazing love story, complete with screenshots of texts. I tagged her in it. Turned DHs phone to silent and put a nice new PIN to unlock it. He obviously slept through AP frantically calling him, and couldn't unlock the phone anyway, so that post got to stew for a while for their hundreds of friends (and coworkers!).

APs husband eventually reached out to me for answers. We blew everything up. The star crossed lovers didn't even last 2 months after marriage separation.

Savage

See, I'm a wife and I'd think the PP is mentally ill. I'd actually feel sympathetic towards her H, but I hate trashy drama.

+1 but I am more of a WASP

Oh if you don’t think WASPs do this you don’t live in Greenwich.

Trash are the cheating whores, always.

Of course, bc if you hold the husbands accountable then your lifestyle would change. Easiest to blame the woman, always.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am the "trashy drama" betrayed wife. I was absolutely beside myself with pain and anger.... I was definitely having a meltdown after discovering the affair. Do I regret it? No way. My reaction to a monstrous betrayal was dramatic, but not unwarranted.

I calmed down in the months following, with some antidepressants and anxiety meds plus therapy. My kids and I are thriving now, and my business has taken off since the divorce and doubled my income. Ex is still hopping from woman to woman, occasionally drunk texting me sappy nonsense, and admitted he is jealous of how I rebuilt my life. I trust men (any man) as far as I can throw him.

Blind with rage when in severe shock trauma is completely normal. Hell people actually kill in this state of mind. Temporary insanity!!! I love what you did. If I wasn’t afraid of jail time, I would have physically assaulted both of them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ii was the betrayed wife. When I found out, I quietly got my ducks in a row. Then I used my (then) husband's phone to post to his fb account. It was a lovely screenshot of he and AP mid-webcam chat. Sorry about the close up of your double chin and cold sore, AP. The post explained their amazing love story, complete with screenshots of texts. I tagged her in it. Turned DHs phone to silent and put a nice new PIN to unlock it. He obviously slept through AP frantically calling him, and couldn't unlock the phone anyway, so that post got to stew for a while for their hundreds of friends (and coworkers!).

APs husband eventually reached out to me for answers. We blew everything up. The star crossed lovers didn't even last 2 months after marriage separation.

Savage

See, I'm a wife and I'd think the PP is mentally ill. I'd actually feel sympathetic towards her H, but I hate trashy drama.

+1 but I am more of a WASP

Oh if you don’t think WASPs do this you don’t live in Greenwich.

Trash are the cheating whores, always.

I don't agree but I'm European. It would not be the end of the world if my H would have a moment of weakness but this trashy hell would definitely traumatize me, even as an involuntary spectator. You Americans are so strident and love all this suffering p*rn. What did you gain anyway? Do you get off when people feel bad for you? I just don't get it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ii was the betrayed wife. When I found out, I quietly got my ducks in a row. Then I used my (then) husband's phone to post to his fb account. It was a lovely screenshot of he and AP mid-webcam chat. Sorry about the close up of your double chin and cold sore, AP. The post explained their amazing love story, complete with screenshots of texts. I tagged her in it. Turned DHs phone to silent and put a nice new PIN to unlock it. He obviously slept through AP frantically calling him, and couldn't unlock the phone anyway, so that post got to stew for a while for their hundreds of friends (and coworkers!).

APs husband eventually reached out to me for answers. We blew everything up. The star crossed lovers didn't even last 2 months after marriage separation.

Savage

See, I'm a wife and I'd think the PP is mentally ill. I'd actually feel sympathetic towards her H, but I hate trashy drama.

+1 but I am more of a WASP

Oh if you don’t think WASPs do this you don’t live in Greenwich.

Trash are the cheating whores, always.

Of course, bc if you hold the husbands accountable then your lifestyle would change. Easiest to blame the woman, always.

I use the term “whores” in neutral gender. I see both the men and women cheaters at fault and whores.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ii was the betrayed wife. When I found out, I quietly got my ducks in a row. Then I used my (then) husband's phone to post to his fb account. It was a lovely screenshot of he and AP mid-webcam chat. Sorry about the close up of your double chin and cold sore, AP. The post explained their amazing love story, complete with screenshots of texts. I tagged her in it. Turned DHs phone to silent and put a nice new PIN to unlock it. He obviously slept through AP frantically calling him, and couldn't unlock the phone anyway, so that post got to stew for a while for their hundreds of friends (and coworkers!).

APs husband eventually reached out to me for answers. We blew everything up. The star crossed lovers didn't even last 2 months after marriage separation.

Savage

See, I'm a wife and I'd think the PP is mentally ill. I'd actually feel sympathetic towards her H, but I hate trashy drama.

+1 but I am more of a WASP

Oh if you don’t think WASPs do this you don’t live in Greenwich.

Trash are the cheating whores, always.

Of course, bc if you hold the husbands accountable then your lifestyle would change. Easiest to blame the woman, always.

My lifestyle is better without my H because I have more $ and 1 less person spending it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ii was the betrayed wife. When I found out, I quietly got my ducks in a row. Then I used my (then) husband's phone to post to his fb account. It was a lovely screenshot of he and AP mid-webcam chat. Sorry about the close up of your double chin and cold sore, AP. The post explained their amazing love story, complete with screenshots of texts. I tagged her in it. Turned DHs phone to silent and put a nice new PIN to unlock it. He obviously slept through AP frantically calling him, and couldn't unlock the phone anyway, so that post got to stew for a while for their hundreds of friends (and coworkers!).

APs husband eventually reached out to me for answers. We blew everything up. The star crossed lovers didn't even last 2 months after marriage separation.

Savage

See, I'm a wife and I'd think the PP is mentally ill. I'd actually feel sympathetic towards her H, but I hate trashy drama.

+1 but I am more of a WASP

Oh if you don’t think WASPs do this you don’t live in Greenwich.

Trash are the cheating whores, always.

I don't agree but I'm European. It would not be the end of the world if my H would have a moment of weakness but this trashy hell would definitely traumatize me, even as an involuntary spectator. You Americans are so strident and love all this suffering p*rn. What did you gain anyway? Do you get off when people feel bad for you? I just don't get it.

I’m German. And Ummmm I guess you haven’t been to Italy or Spain if your think Europeans don’t chase someone around with a knife or get into a shouting match with a puta/puttana!!