Our 35yr old divorced friend is dating a 25yr old

[Anonymous]

And he wants to bring her to couples events with us. We have a group of 3-4 couples and we do stuff once a month or so. We're all mid to late 30s and all still in our first marriages. He's the only divorced one and he's bringing around a girl who got out of college jn 2013!!! She doesn't fit the group at all. Career wise, popular culture wise etc. should we just tolerate her or start excluding him?

[Anonymous]

troll

[Anonymous]

so?

adjust.

[Anonymous]

lol. I thought this was going to be about cougars.

It's tough to say but if he really is a friend I would just tolerate it. I think every group has a person that doesn't exactly fit in. As long as there is not any actual animosity or anything with her.

Who knows though. She might have the same issues with you and ask to not have to go to your group events as well.

[Anonymous]

You're too stupid to be real. Troll fail

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:troll

Oh bugger off.

[Anonymous]

Seriously?? Most of my friends married men 7-8 years older than them when we were in our 20's. 10 years isn't a big age gap.

[Anonymous]

no problem is the dude is older

[Anonymous]

If this is actually true, the real issue is that you (clearly a woman) are insecure about this guy bringing a hot young bouncy thing around your husbands.

[Anonymous]

Watch the movie The Four Seasons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If this is actually true, the real issue is that you (clearly a woman) are insecure about this guy bringing a hot young bouncy thing around your husbands.

This is the most likely truth. She (and perhaps the other "old" ladies) are afraid that their husbands might get the idea that THEY TOO could land a smokin' 25 year old.

Or it's just a troll.

[Anonymous]

DH here: if I were divorced I would do exactly the same thing. Except I'm even older. Stop being so judgy.

[Anonymous]

Is it that hard for you to be polite and welcoming to someone who isn't exactly like you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:troll

Oh bugger off.

Then OP is a horrible friend and even worse person. Exclude a friend because he's divorced and his new GF is 10 years younger? How TF is that acceptable behavior?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If this is actually true, the real issue is that you (clearly a woman) are insecure about this guy bringing a hot young bouncy thing around your husbands.

Snork! +1

Yes, she isn't just like all of you...vive la difference! How old are you emotionally? This sounds like Middle School. I mean: sure, she's at a different place in life, but she's not incapable of making chit-chat.