Why he won't leave his wife for his mistress

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is a really bad argument especially right now. The current President of the United States and the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom both married their mistresses.

If the Queen dies in the next year, the current King of Great Britain will be added to that list.

I have wondered whether Charles would have still left Diana if she had been accommodating of the arrangement.

Probably not. She would have stayed miserable and he would have been a dick, but they would have been married.

IMO it wouldn't be worth it but for some people it is? Did you know he used to take Diana with him to Camilla's house? He'd have Diana stay downstairs while he and Camilla went off upstairs to do whatever.

Let me repeat that. He left his WIFE downstairs while he f*cked his mistress upstairs in the mistress's house.

[Anonymous]

I was the girlfriend and primary relationship before he met his wife. We had no choice but to separate due to a little thing called war. It was heartbreaking for both of us. He married and had kids, and we stayed in touch. It was not about sex only. Years went by. We didn't have sex. Sometimes love is enduring and lasting.

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Anonymous wrote:Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not.

Exactly. It's not just men who are in affairs for sex. I've had sex with over 15 married women (and I've known so many more) and none of them were looking to leave their husbands. Of the 10 or so whose lives I still know, only one has divorced and she isn't with any of her APs but a guy she met since her divorce.

Christ -talk about an HPV receptacle.

Long lasting and don’t even routinely screen for it STD/STI tests. Men can’t be tested for it.

As a microbiologist, Id like to warn you that antibiotic resistant Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.

That's always the theme here whenever someone mentions having sex outside of marragie. OMG, all those diseases! You are a riot.

My MIL works for an OBGYN and many women test positive for a disease from being cheated on.

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Yeah, sure she did. So it's only cheaters who have STDs? I'd much rather take my chances with a married woman who hasn't been with anyone but her husband in over a decade, than a single woman who is riding the Tinder carasol.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not.

Exactly. It's not just men who are in affairs for sex. I've had sex with over 15 married women (and I've known so many more) and none of them were looking to leave their husbands. Of the 10 or so whose lives I still know, only one has divorced and she isn't with any of her APs but a guy she met since her divorce.

Christ -talk about an HPV receptacle.

Long lasting and don’t even routinely screen for it STD/STI tests. Men can’t be tested for it.

As a microbiologist, Id like to warn you that antibiotic resistant Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.

That's always the theme here whenever someone mentions having sex outside of marragie. OMG, all those diseases! You are a riot.

My MIL works for an OBGYN and many women test positive for a disease from being cheated on.

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Yeah, sure she did. So it's only cheaters who have STDs? I'd much rather take my chances with a married woman who hasn't been with anyone but her husband in over a decade, than a single woman who is riding the Tinder carasol.

I'm not sure why you think I would lie about that.

They were constantly referring women in their 50's out to counseling because they had an STD from their H cheating.

It's a weird thing to think is a lie.

So you think a couple that is faithful their whole marriage to each other end up with STDs?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not.

Exactly. It's not just men who are in affairs for sex. I've had sex with over 15 married women (and I've known so many more) and none of them were looking to leave their husbands. Of the 10 or so whose lives I still know, only one has divorced and she isn't with any of her APs but a guy she met since her divorce.

Christ -talk about an HPV receptacle.

Long lasting and don’t even routinely screen for it STD/STI tests. Men can’t be tested for it.

As a microbiologist, Id like to warn you that antibiotic resistant Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.

That's always the theme here whenever someone mentions having sex outside of marragie. OMG, all those diseases! You are a riot.

My MIL works for an OBGYN and many women test positive for a disease from being cheated on.

y
Yeah, sure she did. So it's only cheaters who have STDs? I'd much rather take my chances with a married woman who hasn't been with anyone but her husband in over a decade, than a single woman who is riding the Tinder carasol.

Spell check much?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not.

Exactly. It's not just men who are in affairs for sex. I've had sex with over 15 married women (and I've known so many more) and none of them were looking to leave their husbands. Of the 10 or so whose lives I still know, only one has divorced and she isn't with any of her APs but a guy she met since her divorce.

Christ -talk about an HPV receptacle.

Long lasting and don’t even routinely screen for it STD/STI tests. Men can’t be tested for it.

As a microbiologist, Id like to warn you that antibiotic resistant Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.

That's always the theme here whenever someone mentions having sex outside of marragie. OMG, all those diseases! You are a riot.

My MIL works for an OBGYN and many women test positive for a disease from being cheated on.

y
Yeah, sure she did. So it's only cheaters who have STDs? I'd much rather take my chances with a married woman who hasn't been with anyone but her husband in over a decade, than a single woman who is riding the Tinder carasol.

Spell check much?

Irrelevant. NP

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not.

Exactly. It's not just men who are in affairs for sex. I've had sex with over 15 married women (and I've known so many more) and none of them were looking to leave their husbands. Of the 10 or so whose lives I still know, only one has divorced and she isn't with any of her APs but a guy she met since her divorce.

Christ -talk about an HPV receptacle.

Long lasting and don’t even routinely screen for it STD/STI tests. Men can’t be tested for it.

As a microbiologist, Id like to warn you that antibiotic resistant Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.

That's always the theme here whenever someone mentions having sex outside of marragie. OMG, all those diseases! You are a riot.

My MIL works for an OBGYN and many women test positive for a disease from being cheated on.

y
Yeah, sure she did. So it's only cheaters who have STDs? I'd much rather take my chances with a married woman who hasn't been with anyone but her husband in over a decade, than a single woman who is riding the Tinder carasol.

I'm not sure why you think I would lie about that.

They were constantly referring women in their 50's out to counseling because they had an STD from their H cheating.

It's a weird thing to think is a lie.

So you think a couple that is faithful their whole marriage to each other end up with STDs?

I think it ~technically~ could happen. Imagine you kiss your great aunt Judy who has the beginnings of a cold sore. She doesn't even realize that she's shedding the virus! And you have a microtear in your lip or a zit or anything so the virus sneaks its way into your body. Then, once you are good and infected you go down on your spouse without knowing you are contagious. Ug. Now your spouse has genital herpes. Not nice.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not.

Exactly. It's not just men who are in affairs for sex. I've had sex with over 15 married women (and I've known so many more) and none of them were looking to leave their husbands. Of the 10 or so whose lives I still know, only one has divorced and she isn't with any of her APs but a guy she met since her divorce.

Christ -talk about an HPV receptacle.

Long lasting and don’t even routinely screen for it STD/STI tests. Men can’t be tested for it.

As a microbiologist, Id like to warn you that antibiotic resistant Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.

That's always the theme here whenever someone mentions having sex outside of marragie. OMG, all those diseases! You are a riot.

My MIL works for an OBGYN and many women test positive for a disease from being cheated on.

y
Yeah, sure she did. So it's only cheaters who have STDs? I'd much rather take my chances with a married woman who hasn't been with anyone but her husband in over a decade, than a single woman who is riding the Tinder carasol.

I'm not sure why you think I would lie about that.

They were constantly referring women in their 50's out to counseling because they had an STD from their H cheating.

It's a weird thing to think is a lie.

So you think a couple that is faithful their whole marriage to each other end up with STDs?

I think it ~technically~ could happen. Imagine you kiss your great aunt Judy who has the beginnings of a cold sore. She doesn't even realize that she's shedding the virus! And you have a microtear in your lip or a zit or anything so the virus sneaks its way into your body. Then, once you are good and infected you go down on your spouse without knowing you are contagious. Ug. Now your spouse has genital herpes. Not nice.

That scenario happened in my marriage. Not that spouse believes me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a really bad argument especially right now. The current President of the United States and the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom both married their mistresses.

If the Queen dies in the next year, the current King of Great Britain will be added to that list.

I have wondered whether Charles would have still left Diana if she had been accommodating of the arrangement.

No they would have stayed married. She was utterly stupid and very immature. She could have had a great life enjoying the position and kids. I would have been friends with his mistress. Thanking her profusely for taking that woodchuck off my hands, and out of my bedroom.

She went after married men (sleeping around), and finally that awful one that caused her death. Her choices were very bad and risky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was the girlfriend and primary relationship before he met his wife. We had no choice but to separate due to a little thing called war. It was heartbreaking for both of us. He married and had kids, and we stayed in touch. It was not about sex only. Years went by. We didn't have sex. Sometimes love is enduring and lasting.

Yep he chose his wife. That did last, and you are history no matter how you spin it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not.

Exactly. It's not just men who are in affairs for sex. I've had sex with over 15 married women (and I've known so many more) and none of them were looking to leave their husbands. Of the 10 or so whose lives I still know, only one has divorced and she isn't with any of her APs but a guy she met since her divorce.

Christ -talk about an HPV receptacle.

Long lasting and don’t even routinely screen for it STD/STI tests. Men can’t be tested for it.

As a microbiologist, Id like to warn you that antibiotic resistant Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.

That's always the theme here whenever someone mentions having sex outside of marragie. OMG, all those diseases! You are a riot.

My MIL works for an OBGYN and many women test positive for a disease from being cheated on.

y
Yeah, sure she did. So it's only cheaters who have STDs? I'd much rather take my chances with a married woman who hasn't been with anyone but her husband in over a decade, than a single woman who is riding the Tinder carasol.

I'm not sure why you think these fifteen women have been with NO ONE but their husbands before they met you? Are you under the impression that you have special powers to make them so blind with lust that they will forget their oath of fidelity? Chances are, the married women you're sleeping with have a similarly relaxed attitude to sexual fidelity. They had lovers before you, and will have lovers after you, probably remaining married all that time. They haven't exactly been saving themselves for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a really bad argument especially right now. The current President of the United States and the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom both married their mistresses.

If the Queen dies in the next year, the current King of Great Britain will be added to that list.

I have wondered whether Charles would have still left Diana if she had been accommodating of the arrangement.

No they would have stayed married. She was utterly stupid and very immature. She could have had a great life enjoying the position and kids. I would have been friends with his mistress. Thanking her profusely for taking that woodchuck off my hands, and out of my bedroom.

She went after married men (sleeping around), and finally that awful one that caused her death. Her choices were very bad and risky.

She left him. He did not leave her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not.

Exactly. It's not just men who are in affairs for sex. I've had sex with over 15 married women (and I've known so many more) and none of them were looking to leave their husbands. Of the 10 or so whose lives I still know, only one has divorced and she isn't with any of her APs but a guy she met since her divorce.

Christ -talk about an HPV receptacle.

Long lasting and don’t even routinely screen for it STD/STI tests. Men can’t be tested for it.

As a microbiologist, Id like to warn you that antibiotic resistant Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.

That's always the theme here whenever someone mentions having sex outside of marragie. OMG, all those diseases! You are a riot.

My MIL works for an OBGYN and many women test positive for a disease from being cheated on.

y
Yeah, sure she did. So it's only cheaters who have STDs? I'd much rather take my chances with a married woman who hasn't been with anyone but her husband in over a decade, than a single woman who is riding the Tinder carasol.

I'm not sure why you think these fifteen women have been with NO ONE but their husbands before they met you? Are you under the impression that you have special powers to make them so blind with lust that they will forget their oath of fidelity? Chances are, the married women you're sleeping with have a similarly relaxed attitude to sexual fidelity. They had lovers before you, and will have lovers after you, probably remaining married all that time. They haven't exactly been saving themselves for you.

HA!! I know many of these women riding the "Ashley Madison carousel" so you don't know just how many of they've been with AND YOU don't know that their husbands are faithful and not having sex with prostitutes, tinder carousel and or MEN.

God- ppl are so dumb.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:+1. In most cases the man just wants sex, not a new life.

+2 Based on what I’ve observed as the shoulder cried on by both mistresses and wives. It’s not even necessarily that he wants sex because he’s not getting it at home from the wife. Sometimes the man just wants sex with a different woman. Hence, the OW who are devastated to learn 2-3 years into an affair that the man has a new baby with his wife.

This is where the wife learns she married a horrible guy, and wrong person. People who are stable and have good morals would never cheat on their spouse. Most guys don't cheat because of lack of sex. It's a defect in their character, and the DW missed it in the dating stage.

I had a friend who found out her DH was cheating. They were in their 50's with no plans to divorce or lose pensions and other assets. They are still married, but she was done with him after she found out about the affair. It was sad, he would go over to the AP's house before work and after. Once she located his car all she had to do was wait, very easy to catch a cheater. And she caught him within 3 months.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a really bad argument especially right now. The current President of the United States and the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom both married their mistresses.

If the Queen dies in the next year, the current King of Great Britain will be added to that list.

I have wondered whether Charles would have still left Diana if she had been accommodating of the arrangement.

No they would have stayed married. She was utterly stupid and very immature. She could have had a great life enjoying the position and kids. I would have been friends with his mistress. Thanking her profusely for taking that woodchuck off my hands, and out of my bedroom.

She went after married men (sleeping around), and finally that awful one that caused her death. Her choices were very bad and risky.

She left him. He did not leave her.

Yes she left Charles. And continued to make stupid mistakes. (my point)