Why he won't leave his wife for his mistress

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband is not a terrible person. He is, though, pretty abrupt and snide socially. This runs people in our community the wrong way, and people often make sideways comments about how the two of us could be married. Basically implying that I’m too good for him. That, though, isn’t the case. It’s more that he puts his worst foot forward and (I think due to insecurity and not being socially skilled) he insults and turns off people more than he realized. And I’m more of a socially attuned, including being good at smoothing social situations. In our marriage, he’s nicer than people might think, and I am harsher. Nit that he’s particularly nice or I’m harsh, we’re both just less extreme than we’d seem to outsiders. For other reasons, I do predict that we will get divorced eventually. When we do, it actually makes me sad to think that some people will be glad to see him suffer. I honestly believe some in our community would be happy to learn if I cheated on him.

I thought I wrote this! Plenty of DHs friends have commented that they can’t believe we are married, they’d never put us together in a million years, make comments that he should treat me better. Truth be told, I’m kinda a bitch towards him. He’s annoying, for sure, and I’m more fun. As a result, people tend to like me more. I’m certain folks wouldn’t care if I cheated on him. Tbh, I’ve had two of his friends point blank ask me if I’d ever leave him. I, too, think that we will end up divorced but friends, I hope. Our kids are the only reason I stay and the marriage is low conflict.

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Anonymous wrote:Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not.

Exactly. It's not just men who are in affairs for sex. I've had sex with over 15 married women (and I've known so many more) and none of them were looking to leave their husbands. Of the 10 or so whose lives I still know, only one has divorced and she isn't with any of her APs but a guy she met since her divorce.

Christ -talk about an HPV receptacle.

Long lasting and don’t even routinely screen for it STD/STI tests. Men can’t be tested for it.

As a microbiologist, Id like to warn you that antibiotic resistant Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.

That's always the theme here whenever someone mentions having sex outside of marragie. OMG, all those diseases! You are a riot.

My MIL works for an OBGYN and many women test positive for a disease from being cheated on.

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Yeah, sure she did. So it's only cheaters who have STDs? I'd much rather take my chances with a married woman who hasn't been with anyone but her husband in over a decade, than a single woman who is riding the Tinder carasol.

I'm not sure why you think these fifteen women have been with NO ONE but their husbands before they met you? Are you under the impression that you have special powers to make them so blind with lust that they will forget their oath of fidelity? Chances are, the married women you're sleeping with have a similarly relaxed attitude to sexual fidelity. They had lovers before you, and will have lovers after you, probably remaining married all that time. They haven't exactly been saving themselves for you.

HA!! I know many of these women riding the "Ashley Madison carousel" so you don't know just how many of they've been with AND YOU don't know that their husbands are faithful and not having sex with prostitutes, tinder carousel and or MEN.

God- ppl are so dumb.

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[Anonymous]

He may leave his wife for her. My ex-husband did. Then as soon as the ink started to dry on our divorce papers he went from being the devil to sugary sweet. I'm sure if I had allowed it he would've totally tried to continue to play both of us. These types can rarely ever be trusted. So he leaves his wife and then what? Is she going to continually look over her shoulder and wonder when she'll be cheated on too?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He may leave his wife for her. My ex-husband did. Then as soon as the ink started to dry on our divorce papers he went from being the devil to sugary sweet. I'm sure if I had allowed it he would've totally tried to continue to play both of us. These types can rarely ever be trusted. So he leaves his wife and then what? Is she going to continually look over her shoulder and wonder when she'll be cheated on too?

the she walks away with child support and whatever chunk of assets she can get.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He may leave his wife for her. My ex-husband did. Then as soon as the ink started to dry on our divorce papers he went from being the devil to sugary sweet. I'm sure if I had allowed it he would've totally tried to continue to play both of us. These types can rarely ever be trusted. So he leaves his wife and then what? Is she going to continually look over her shoulder and wonder when she'll be cheated on too?

So gross. What ex-wife would be interested in a cheating man like that? I guess he just doesn’t get it.

[Anonymous]

Because they don't want to split their assets or be known as the horrible people they are!