Dating in 50’s - people who have children vs people who dont

[Anonymous]

Generally those with kids only, but it would depend on why the guy didn’t have kids. Doesn’t like them? Hard pass. Ex-wife did not want them or infertility? Would maybe consider, but that is a huge life experience he does not have.

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Pp, interesting. I love kids and work with them, just never wanted my own. People don’t need much more of an explanation than that. I love my downtime

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

Did you have something to add to the actual topic or just trying to stir the pot a little. The topic is more about people with children vs childless. This isn't about what age range you want to date.

If have no experience with women in their 50's then you don't have anything of value to add.

I am adding the valuable, relevant perspective that it does not matter if she has kids or not because The Wall is so far behind her it isn't even in the rearview mirror any more.

As divorced man in my 50s, I, too, don’t consider women anywhere near my age. But I understand the other people wondering why this guy is posting at all on this topic.

Might I suggest he start a spinoff thread on men on 50s dating? Personally I can’t even imagine dating a woman in her 50s. I’m so immature and have so much energy that there is a huge energy and life expectation disparity with late 40s and 50s women. Of course I’d be open to it if I met one.

Just because a woman is in her 50’s means she’s dead! I’m a 53 year old female, have a lot of energy, huge sexual appetite, like to have fun, still go to my alma mater games and tailgate like I’m 20, and look great! You and the other dude who won’t consider dating someone in her 50’s are doing nothing but feeding your male ego. And those young women in their 20s & 30s dating you are using you for your money, nice dinners, etc. I was in my 20s and 30s once, dated a man in his 50s.....it was kind of a joke and my friends made fun of men like you. You think your cool.....trust me, you look pathetic. Enjoy their attention now, because when you hit 60 no one will want you!

Here’s the thing, we don’t care if they are using us for money or connections. I know I’m bringing my A game and know how to make them O big time. I won’t get explicit so nothing more on that. I’ll also just say younger women often have much less if any baggage. And lots of women in their 40s and 50s seem insane after a few dates. Sorry. Not sorry.

Sure grandpa

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

As you are invisible to women in their 20,s and 30’s. Keep wishing grandpa!

^^and 40s

OK, I'm sure some 54 year old men are attractive to young women. What interests me is: why is the kind of single 54 year old man who is busy dating young women on a parenting board at all?

Aka he went on a date with one woman in her 40s who implied she was late thirties one time.

Peter Cook, who has a $100 million net worth, is marrying the worlds ugliest woman in her twenties. If that’s what an actual wealthy person can get there is no one on this board that is in their 50s dating someone in their twenties.

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

Did you have something to add to the actual topic or just trying to stir the pot a little. The topic is more about people with children vs childless. This isn't about what age range you want to date.

If have no experience with women in their 50's then you don't have anything of value to add.

I am adding the valuable, relevant perspective that it does not matter if she has kids or not because The Wall is so far behind her it isn't even in the rearview mirror any more.

As divorced man in my 50s, I, too, don’t consider women anywhere near my age. But I understand the other people wondering why this guy is posting at all on this topic.

Might I suggest he start a spinoff thread on men on 50s dating? Personally I can’t even imagine dating a woman in her 50s. I’m so immature and have so much energy that there is a huge energy and life expectation disparity with late 40s and 50s women. Of course I’d be open to it if I met one.

Just because a woman is in her 50’s means she’s dead! I’m a 53 year old female, have a lot of energy, huge sexual appetite, like to have fun, still go to my alma mater games and tailgate like I’m 20, and look great! You and the other dude who won’t consider dating someone in her 50’s are doing nothing but feeding your male ego. And those young women in their 20s & 30s dating you are using you for your money, nice dinners, etc. I was in my 20s and 30s once, dated a man in his 50s.....it was kind of a joke and my friends made fun of men like you. You think your cool.....trust me, you look pathetic. Enjoy their attention now, because when you hit 60 no one will want you!

Here’s the thing, we don’t care if they are using us for money or connections. I know I’m bringing my A game and know how to make them O big time. I won’t get explicit so nothing more on that. I’ll also just say younger women often have much less if any baggage. And lots of women in their 40s and 50s seem insane after a few dates. Sorry. Not sorry.

“Dear penthouse...”

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 56 and I like to date women in their 50’s especially those who like to stay fit and active. They are usually empty nesters or don’t have children which gives them a good amount of free time. Regardless, a healthy libido is a must. I have no interest in dating someone with children at home as that phase of my life, which I enjoyed, is over. A childless 40-45 year old would certainly be an attractive option but how many of them are out there?

You are to OLD for 40-45 year old grandpa. The obliviousness amazes me! And I’m a guy!

[Anonymous]

Childless not by choice 49 yo here. I would prefer a man with children because I love kids and would have no problem being a doting stepmom, but wouldn’t turn away someone who didn’t have children

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Anonymous wrote:We are all tossed in the eldercare forum at 50 anyway. That's all women are supposed to do, tend to older seniors, certainly not "date."

If this is what is in the dating pool at 50 I would rather pass and go on holidays with my girlfriends.

Lol. Seriously. I have a detachable shower head, a drawer full of toys, and interesting friends. I’m good. Happy to be done with dick forever. Not worth the trouble.

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

Did you have something to add to the actual topic or just trying to stir the pot a little. The topic is more about people with children vs childless. This isn't about what age range you want to date.

If have no experience with women in their 50's then you don't have anything of value to add.

I am adding the valuable, relevant perspective that it does not matter if she has kids or not because The Wall is so far behind her it isn't even in the rearview mirror any more.

As divorced man in my 50s, I, too, don’t consider women anywhere near my age. But I understand the other people wondering why this guy is posting at all on this topic.

Might I suggest he start a spinoff thread on men on 50s dating? Personally I can’t even imagine dating a woman in her 50s. I’m so immature and have so much energy that there is a huge energy and life expectation disparity with late 40s and 50s women. Of course I’d be open to it if I met one.

Just because a woman is in her 50’s means she’s dead! I’m a 53 year old female, have a lot of energy, huge sexual appetite, like to have fun, still go to my alma mater games and tailgate like I’m 20, and look great! You and the other dude who won’t consider dating someone in her 50’s are doing nothing but feeding your male ego. And those young women in their 20s & 30s dating you are using you for your money, nice dinners, etc. I was in my 20s and 30s once, dated a man in his 50s.....it was kind of a joke and my friends made fun of men like you. You think your cool.....trust me, you look pathetic. Enjoy their attention now, because when you hit 60 no one will want you!

Here’s the thing, we don’t care if they are using us for money or connections. I know I’m bringing my A game and know how to make them O big time. I won’t get explicit so nothing more on that. I’ll also just say younger women often have much less if any baggage. And lots of women in their 40s and 50s seem insane after a few dates. Sorry. Not sorry.

“Dear penthouse...”

I’m sure you’re super great in the sack.

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

It’s one thing to say you date younger women, but to say that women in their 50s are invisible to you is just so remarkably immature. Sex appeal is the only thing that connects you to other human beings? I don’t imagine your relationships go the distance.

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

It’s one thing to say you date younger women, but to say that women in their 50s are invisible to you is just so remarkably immature. Sex appeal is the only thing that connects you to other human beings? I don’t imagine your relationships go the distance.

It's really in the protesting too much genre, don't you think? Posting repeatedly about how necessary it is that certain women understand that they are DEAD TO HIM , no, did you hear it, HE LITERALLY CANT EVEN SEE THEM, this is very important you understand THERE IS A WALL AND NA NA BOO BOO YOU ARE SO FAR PAST IT.

$1000 bucks says a woman about this age left him, and it tastes him up she might be happy. She's probably very happy because he wasn't able to punish her once she got away. BUT HE CAN MAKE SURE NONE OF THE OTHERS GET UPPITY.

And this is the critical point -- if they really were invisible to him, it he never thought about them at all, then he'd not be totaling about them, much less insulting them. He wouldn't be thinking about them at all.

There's something else going on, and it doesn't reflect well on him.

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

It’s one thing to say you date younger women, but to say that women in their 50s are invisible to you is just so remarkably immature. Sex appeal is the only thing that connects you to other human beings? I don’t imagine your relationships go the distance.

Obviously not going the distance..since he is still trying to chase women.

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

It’s one thing to say you date younger women, but to say that women in their 50s are invisible to you is just so remarkably immature. Sex appeal is the only thing that connects you to other human beings? I don’t imagine your relationships go the distance.

It's really in the protesting too much genre, don't you think? Posting repeatedly about how necessary it is that certain women understand that they are DEAD TO HIM , no, did you hear it, HE LITERALLY CANT EVEN SEE THEM, this is very important you understand THERE IS A WALL AND NA NA BOO BOO YOU ARE SO FAR PAST IT.

$1000 bucks says a woman about this age left him, and it tastes him up she might be happy. She's probably very happy because he wasn't able to punish her once she got away. BUT HE CAN MAKE SURE NONE OF THE OTHERS GET UPPITY.

And this is the critical point -- if they really were invisible to him, it he never thought about them at all, then he'd not be totaling about them, much less insulting them. He wouldn't be thinking about them at all.

There's something else going on, and it doesn't reflect well on him.

Agree. The continuous repeated posts to make his point..is psycho! Something is definitely off. Agree he probably got burned by someone his own age and she is living the good life! That might explain the vitriol in the posts.

[Anonymous]

If women of a certain age want to date men their own age or younger, but they can't because it never happens, do you think they would need to read a post to get it? Wouldn't it be obvious to them that they ... aren't dating?

Gaslighting and/or an attempt to work out his own anger in shower kind of emotional diarrhea all over the thread. Sad.

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

It’s one thing to say you date younger women, but to say that women in their 50s are invisible to you is just so remarkably immature. Sex appeal is the only thing that connects you to other human beings? I don’t imagine your relationships go the distance.

The specific question was about dating. In other words, what am I sexually attracted to? That is not a matter for "mature" conscious decision for a man any more than it is for a woman. I know very well that most women in their 20s and 30s are not attracted to me, and I don't waste my time rebuking them for being "remarkably immature". It's enough for me that there are some young women who are.

Sex appeal is not the only thing that connects me to other human beings, but it is the prerequisite for a sexual relationship. This is so obvious it shouldn't need discussion. Of course sex appeal is not the only thing that is needed for a relationship to exist, but it has to be there.

As for you, I have no doubt that there are many men who are invisible to you as sexual beings. And for very shallow, immature reasons - e.g., they are shorter than you, or fat, or they don't meet one of the countless criteria on your personal list.

Thank you for your interest in my relationships. You'll be happy to know they are very satisfactory!