Dating in 50’s - people who have children vs people who dont

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Anonymous wrote:Men or women in your 50’s: do you feel that you have more in common when dating someone , specially around life experience, with people who have kids vs. who don’t? And men- do you view a female in her 50’s differently who haven’t had children?

54M here.

I don't care if women in their 50s have kids or not, because I only date women in their 20s and 30s.

I don't think OP was asking the age cohort that you date, only if you yourself are in your 50's and if you have kids, do you also prefer to date people with kids, or vice versa.

She asked me how I view women in their 50s.

I don't view them at all. They are invisible to me.

Did you have something to add to the actual topic or just trying to stir the pot a little. The topic is more about people with children vs childless. This isn't about what age range you want to date.

If have no experience with women in their 50's then you don't have anything of value to add.

I am adding the valuable, relevant perspective that it does not matter if she has kids or not because The Wall is so far behind her it isn't even in the rearview mirror any more.

As divorced man in my 50s, I, too, don’t consider women anywhere near my age. But I understand the other people wondering why this guy is posting at all on this topic.

Might I suggest he start a spinoff thread on men on 50s dating? Personally I can’t even imagine dating a woman in her 50s. I’m so immature and have so much energy that there is a huge energy and life expectation disparity with late 40s and 50s women. Of course I’d be open to it if I met one.

Just because a woman is in her 50’s means she’s dead! I’m a 53 year old female, have a lot of energy, huge sexual appetite, like to have fun, still go to my alma mater games and tailgate like I’m 20, and look great! You and the other dude who won’t consider dating someone in her 50’s are doing nothing but feeding your male ego. And those young women in their 20s & 30s dating you are using you for your money, nice dinners, etc. I was in my 20s and 30s once, dated a man in his 50s.....it was kind of a joke and my friends made fun of men like you. You think your cool.....trust me, you look pathetic. Enjoy their attention now, because when you hit 60 no one will want you!

Here’s the thing, we don’t care if they are using us for money or connections. I know I’m bringing my A game and know how to make them O big time. I won’t get explicit so nothing more on that. I’ll also just say younger women often have much less if any baggage. And lots of women in their 40s and 50s seem insane after a few dates. Sorry. Not sorry.

OMG. I'm laughing so hard right now. You have such a high opinion of yourself, and you know what? Someday you are going to be 64, or 69 or 72 and still be needing to feed your oversized ego, except then you will be just as saggy and flabby as all humans are as their bodies age. You may look fabulous for your age, but you will still be an OLD MAN, who has no ability to function without the attentions of younger women who will roll their eyes at you. "Ooh look at that sexy fit 72 year old" said no young woman ever. You absolutely deserve everything that is coming your way! LOLOL

Why are you so intent on making him feel bad?