He's in a relationship...so what's his intention when he flirts?

[Anonymous]

You claim you aren't wise to the ways of men, yet you use the term elevator eyes. Interesting. You know he is in a relationship. He is off limits.

[Anonymous]

If you don't know much about his relationship, how do you know he's still in one? Maybe the broke up. You're attracted to him, he's attracted to you. Go for it!

[Anonymous]

Are you a virgin? I suppose this is a good opportunity to lose your virginity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Someone I work with flirts with me but I know for a fact that he is in a relationship (not married).

- Gives a lot of compliments
- Saying he enjoys my company
- Saying things like "you always look nice," "I like your shoes" and "you have a nice smile"
- Invades my personal space (for example, pointing at a line of text on a clipboard that was sitting on my lap)
- Stood over me looking down at me before hugging me without warning
- Squeezing my shoulder in a supportive way
- Suggesting I go to the gym alone (when we were talking about exercise)
- Sitting close to me and leaning in
- Touching my hand
- Grabbing my hand and fiddling with one of my rings
- Telling me about his personal life
- Bragging about finances
- Gave me elevator eyes once

Is this inappropriate behavior for someone in a relationship? Does he want something more from me? Is this over the line or could it just be innocent flirting?

Probably inappropriate. I assume the person he is in a relationship with is.... Dr. Jill Biden?

Best post of the night! LMFAO!!!

[Anonymous]

He's a flirt who will always require attention and adoration from women, regardless of the woman he is dating/living with/married to ...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You claim you aren't wise to the ways of men, yet you use the term elevator eyes. Interesting. You know he is in a relationship. He is off limits.

OP likes the attention. She knows this dude is up to no good yet she doesn't do anything about and tries to play innocent. Just remember, if he cheats on his gf, he'll cheat on you too honey. You reap what you sow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's a flirt who will always require attention and adoration from women, regardless of the woman he is dating/living with/married to ...

Yep. Someone who needs validation from women b/c he can't validate himself. These types of men never get enough.

[Anonymous]

Inappropriate, creepy and he probably gets an ego boost from it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is his first name Joe?

Well this was predicable.

OP, has he grabbed you by the P? Is his name Don? Rhymes with Con?

[Anonymous]

Ask him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ask him.

This. What have you got to lose? But think about what you have to gain, first, before you "ask" him.

Ask him what, though?

[Anonymous]

Does he have kids?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just googled elevator eyes. Oy vey. Op, this is a guy who flirts with other women when he’s in a committed relationship. Is that the kind of guy you want in your life? You’re an ego stroke to him. He finds you attractive. He’s a guy - he finds lots of women attractive. He knows you like him, he’s working that because it makes him feel good. Maybe he’d take it farther than flirting, maybe he wouldn’t. Even if he did, you’d be nothing more than something on the side for him. Is that the kind of relationship you want?

Put your energy into finding someone single to date. Someone who won’t flirt with other people while they’re in a relationship with you.

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[Anonymous]

Credited answer.

What does that mean?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You claim you aren't wise to the ways of men, yet you use the term elevator eyes. Interesting..

I read it on the internet. Actually, it was because I looked up the body language of someone looking you up and down because I wasn't sure I had experienced that before in exactly that same (so obvious) way.