How to start affair with married man who's sending me mixed signals

[Anonymous]

OP you suck.

[Anonymous]

You do sound made up OP or really stupid. I hope it's the former.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're his work wife. That's all.

And if this blows up in your face it will ruin your career, but likely not his.

So good luck with that.

Ditto. I have an office husband. Been together for 10 years- daily lunches and coffees and chatting, sharing office gossip- tbut it's all on the up and up. Both married and nothing sexual at all. If I turned around and told him that I fancied him and wanted to have an affair he'd think I was nuts. The romanticizing may only be in YOUR HEAD.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lol! I'm on a warpath against two people in my office having an affair. Lots of history, but their office affair impacted our work envoronmwnt negatively. I've now lit a perverbial match and I'm burning it all down. I just successful waged a campaign and got the guy fired last Wednesday. For the female, I'm going to her husband and going to blow it all up in her face and pull the covers off her little charade.

They crossed me and now they will be outed. The off was already vastly improved yesterday.

You sound like a psycho.

Depends, if their affair put HER job at risk (as opposed to just one more thing making it more difficult) she could be justified in at least getting the guy fired.

But if it's just one more workplace drama akin to a subcontractor not delivering on something then yes, I agree with you.

[Anonymous]

OP do him like Bill Cosby...slip something in his drink.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he really wanted to start an affair, he wouldn't be sending you mixed signals- he'd initiate.

I agree with this. That is what my AP did (initiated)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The path you are on could lead to suicide, alcoholism, drug abuse, depression for someone you love or he loves. Actions have consequences.

Think about this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP do him like Bill Cosby...slip something in his drink.

Rape is not a joke.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP do him like Bill Cosby...slip something in his drink.

Rape is not a joke.

But it's funny when it's a woman doing it.

[Anonymous]

You need self control, grasshopper.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP do him like Bill Cosby...slip something in his drink.

Rape is not a joke.

But it's funny when it's a woman doing it.

No it's really not. You have issues.

[Anonymous]

Ask him if he likes a tossed salad, not chopt , wink wink

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I want to know if he's attracted to me...

Here's an idea...ASK STUPID.
What makes you think somebody on here just happens to have a Magic-Mindreading-Behavioranalyzing-Decoder-Ring at their disposal that will help you figure out what the hell some guy thinks about you?
Geezus...open your friggin mouth and ask the guy and if he doesn't, OH WELL. At least you know.

[Anonymous]

Have a scrap of decency, OP, and stop even thinking like this. He is married and has kids.

Get a hobby. Find something else to do with your life. Try to be a less horrible person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have a scrap of decency, OP, and stop even thinking like this. He is married and has kids.

Get a hobby. Find something else to do with your life. Try to be a less horrible person.

OP, while I would not call you horrible, you are clearly confused. This does not end well, for anyone. Move on with your life and work on what is missing in your own marriage instead of helping him destroy his. If you can't get over this infatuation, consider switching jobs. Don't be THAT woman.