I told DH I want less sex..

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Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly.

I don’t feel used. We have an almost 1 year and almost 3 year old. We had little sex when our second came because we were both so tired. It was down to once a week at most. Our marriage is fine but we wanted to get back to the way we used to be. This involves making time for each other and frequent sex.

I always shake my head at these types of post. Post inflammatory things about my husband but then get all defensive and undo most of what was said when posters respond to the inflammatory things.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He sounds rapey. Sex should be about BOTH partners, not just for a man to get his rocks off. Presumably he has two working hands for the other days.

He doesn’t force me. He is fine if I say no. He just expresses how he would like it often.

You said he already threw a hissy fit over you wanting less. #rapey

[Anonymous]

Who cares. We don't need to sleep with either of you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly.

+1 it's rapey to have sex when you don't want it.

No its not. Not in a marriage

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Anonymous wrote:We had three children in almost exactly four years so my husband knew that everyday sex wasn't going to happen. It would have been a quickie at best. We found that twice a week was just fine (always on Sunday night!) and we'd really take our time and often try new things. He'd get pretty horny as I recovered from C-sections but a good BJ and HJ took care of that. Needing sex every day is ridiculous.

Most of the sex is quickies. His biggest thing was more blowjob because that was an almost never thing since we had kids.

Is he afraid to masterbate?

Then what’s he need her for?

Do you treat your wife as a sex doll? Not a real person?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly.

+1 it's rapey to have sex when you don't want it.

No it’s not. Not in a marriage

Marital rape is a thing babe.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We had three children in almost exactly four years so my husband knew that everyday sex wasn't going to happen. It would have been a quickie at best. We found that twice a week was just fine (always on Sunday night!) and we'd really take our time and often try new things. He'd get pretty horny as I recovered from C-sections but a good BJ and HJ took care of that. Needing sex every day is ridiculous.

Most of the sex is quickies. His biggest thing was more blowjob because that was an almost never thing since we had kids.

Is he afraid to masterbate?

Thats gross, especially in a marriage

[Anonymous]

Does he make sure that you O each time? 5 O’s a week sounds heavenly. We are only at twice a week and I have to “remind” DH that I would like to climax too.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We had three children in almost exactly four years so my husband knew that everyday sex wasn't going to happen. It would have been a quickie at best. We found that twice a week was just fine (always on Sunday night!) and we'd really take our time and often try new things. He'd get pretty horny as I recovered from C-sections but a good BJ and HJ took care of that. Needing sex every day is ridiculous.

Most of the sex is quickies. His biggest thing was more blowjob because that was an almost never thing since we had kids.

Is he afraid to masterbate?

Thats gross, especially in a marriage

Gross? How old are you? Isn’t recess over yet

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly.

+1 it's rapey to have sex when you don't want it.

No it’s not. Not in a marriage

Marital rape is a thing babe.

There’s no rape in op’s marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does he make sure that you O each time? 5 O’s a week sounds heavenly. We are only at twice a week and I have to “remind” DH that I would like to climax too.

Good lord the bar for men is so low. I’m sorry you have to remind your husband not to be a selfish AH in bed. Yikes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly.

+1 it's rapey to have sex when you don't want it.

No it’s not. Not in a marriage

Marital rape is a thing babe.

There’s no rape in op’s marriage.

Yet it still exists! Even if you try to deny it, rape does happen in marriage and no it’s not ok.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly.

+1 it's rapey to have sex when you don't want it.

No it’s not. Not in a marriage

Marital rape is a thing babe.

There’s no rape in op’s marriage.

Yet it still exists! Even if you try to deny it, rape does happen in marriage and no it’s not ok.

Rape is never ok. However there’s no rape in this situation

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly.

+1 it's rapey to have sex when you don't want it.

No it’s not. Not in a marriage

Marital rape is a thing babe.

There’s no rape in op’s marriage.

Yet it still exists! Even if you try to deny it, rape does happen in marriage and no it’s not ok.

It exists but what OP has described is not it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly.

+1 it's rapey to have sex when you don't want it.

No it’s not. Not in a marriage

Marital rape is a thing babe.

There’s no rape in op’s marriage.

Yet it still exists! Even if you try to deny it, rape does happen in marriage and no it’s not ok.

Rape is never ok. However there’s no rape in this situation

Ok? So why is a pp saying marital rape doesn’t exist? Go lecture them.