I told DH I want less sex..

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Your DH is being selfish.

I agree. I’m sore and exhausted. He is happy with 1-2 times a day. I’m happy with 3-4 times a week. He doesn’t want anything less than 5 times a week.

This is why in some cultures around the world, men are allowed to have multiple wives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP: "I want more sex from my husband"
DCUM: "He has Low T. Porn Addiction. ADHD."

OP: "My husband wants more sex from me."
DCUM: "He's a rapist. Also he needs to do more chores. Are you in your 30s, because you should have more children with that rapist while you are fertile."

You forgot "Is he gay?"

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly.

+1 it's rapey to have sex when you don't want it.

No it’s not. Not in a marriage

Marital rape is a thing babe.

There’s no rape in op’s marriage.

There isn’t. He has been very understanding and patient. We had little sex the last 3 years. Sometimes it was months in between because of pregnancy and breastfeeding.

Riddle me this OP? Why are you posting? You claim everything is fine in your marriage. Your DH is a kind and great lover. He's agreed to your terms. So why the hell are you here? A. you are a troll B. You are in major denial. Which is it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have not read this whole thread, but I did get to the part where the DH wants sex twice a day and this couple has two children under four, one of whom is a newborn. I stopped reading out of empathy for OP.

Here kids aren’t a newborn. Newborn is 0-12 weeks. She has a 1 year old and a 3 year old.

[Anonymous]

Daily is ridiculous. Tell him to go for a run or something.

[Anonymous]

If you’re sore, switch roles. Peg him… There are different positions that you can “help” him achieve a big O. I peg DH and he tells me it’s an all over O. His legs shake…
Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When a man wants something in the relationship:

DCUM: controlling! Rapist! Divorce!

When a woman wants something in the relationship:

DCUM you go girl! You get what you deserve! Divorce him if he doesn’t give you what you want!

This sums up DCUM’s relationship forum well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you’re sore, switch roles. Peg him… There are different positions that you can “help” him achieve a big O. I peg DH and he tells me it’s an all over O. His legs shake…
Good luck!

Oh, this hadn't occured to me. This is an excellent option!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you’re sore, switch roles. Peg him… There are different positions that you can “help” him achieve a big O. I peg DH and he tells me it’s an all over O. His legs shake…
Good luck!

Oh, this hadn't occured to me. This is an excellent option!

Report back…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your DH is being selfish.

I agree. I’m sore and exhausted. He is happy with 1-2 times a day. I’m happy with 3-4 times a week. He doesn’t want anything less than 5 times a week.

This is why in some cultures around the world, men are allowed to have multiple wives.

That doesn't sound very fair to the men who are stuck with no wife as a result...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your DH is being selfish.

I agree. I’m sore and exhausted. He is happy with 1-2 times a day. I’m happy with 3-4 times a week. He doesn’t want anything less than 5 times a week.

This is why in some cultures around the world, men are allowed to have multiple wives.

That doesn't sound very fair to the men who are stuck with no wife as a result...

+1.

[Anonymous]

Why? so they can join the never getting laid club? May as well stay single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He is crazy to expect it that many times. Geez, men really are never happy, are they? That's why there's zero point in trying to appease their demands- just ignore them.

I hope this is sarcastic. While I have zero sympathy for the DH, this is the recipe for me to flip to his team.

[Anonymous]

Why do you hope it's sarcastic? And what team are you switching to? This OP needs real advice not cryptic comments.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He is crazy to expect it that many times. Geez, men really are never happy, are they? That's why there's zero point in trying to appease their demands- just ignore them.

I hope this is sarcastic. While I have zero sympathy for the DH, this is the recipe for me to flip to his team.

Its 100% not sarcastic. Who cares what "team" YOU'RE on, lol?