Boyfriend dropped big news

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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


It doesn't matter. Rape is rape.


Of course it matters you moron. Statutory rape doesn't carry the same sentence for one. Statutory rape between an autistic 19 year old (who is obviously developmentally behind) and a 14-year-old was likely consensual (as most statutory rapes are). Raping a 5-year-old is not the same. How am I having to explain this?????

Are you op/ops bf/ops bfs brother? How do you know so much about his rape crimes?
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


He could absolutely be a pedophile, and it is incredibly naive not to consider that possibility. I have a developmentally disabled cousin (not autistic) who went to jail for sex with a minor with about the same ages as the brother here. Many sort of shrugged it off because he was a young adult and with his disabilities, was at a similar emotional level to the girl he was with. Guess what? He's a pedophile. Years later he got caught with all kinds of child porn and ended up back in jail. And I'm very glad that I've never let him be around my kids.


So now we are just speculating? I was responding to the facts OP provided, not what could be. Currently, he is not accused of being a pedophile.
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


He could absolutely be a pedophile, and it is incredibly naive not to consider that possibility. I have a developmentally disabled cousin (not autistic) who went to jail for sex with a minor with about the same ages as the brother here. Many sort of shrugged it off because he was a young adult and with his disabilities, was at a similar emotional level to the girl he was with. Guess what? He's a pedophile. Years later he got caught with all kinds of child porn and ended up back in jail. And I'm very glad that I've never let him be around my kids.

Thank goodness you stood up for your children! There is no need for pedophile rapists to be around children. Ever.
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


It doesn't matter. Rape is rape.


Of course it matters you moron. Statutory rape doesn't carry the same sentence for one. Statutory rape between an autistic 19 year old (who is obviously developmentally behind) and a 14-year-old was likely consensual (as most statutory rapes are). Raping a 5-year-old is not the same. How am I having to explain this?????

Are you op/ops bf/ops bfs brother? How do you know so much about his rape crimes?


I know as much as you do from OP's post. Perhaps you should read it again.
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


He could absolutely be a pedophile, and it is incredibly naive not to consider that possibility. I have a developmentally disabled cousin (not autistic) who went to jail for sex with a minor with about the same ages as the brother here. Many sort of shrugged it off because he was a young adult and with his disabilities, was at a similar emotional level to the girl he was with. Guess what? He's a pedophile. Years later he got caught with all kinds of child porn and ended up back in jail. And I'm very glad that I've never let him be around my kids.


So now we are just speculating? I was responding to the facts OP provided, not what could be. Currently, he is not accused of being a pedophile.

You speculated that it was consensual and that he’s so severely delayed that they are the same age. It’s not ok for you to make up facts to suit your narrative either.
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


He could absolutely be a pedophile, and it is incredibly naive not to consider that possibility. I have a developmentally disabled cousin (not autistic) who went to jail for sex with a minor with about the same ages as the brother here. Many sort of shrugged it off because he was a young adult and with his disabilities, was at a similar emotional level to the girl he was with. Guess what? He's a pedophile. Years later he got caught with all kinds of child porn and ended up back in jail. And I'm very glad that I've never let him be around my kids.


So now we are just speculating? I was responding to the facts OP provided, not what could be. Currently, he is not accused of being a pedophile.

You speculated that it was consensual and that he’s so severely delayed that they are the same age. It’s not ok for you to make up facts to suit your narrative either.


No, I didn't. I said statutory rape often is consensual. It doesn't mean it's right or legal. But you really think a 15 year old and an 18 year old having sex is the same as pedophilia? And if he was charged with statutory rape vs. sexual assault vs. rape that should tell you something. It's more than speculation. Also, if you knew anything about autism, you'd know that he is behind.
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Besides the rape/pedo apologist it seems to be pretty clear cut here op. Move along. Easier to cut it off now than when you’re engaged or pregnant or something.
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Anonymous wrote:Besides the rape/pedo apologist it seems to be pretty clear cut here op. Move along. Easier to cut it off now than when you’re engaged or pregnant or something.


Who would that be? No wonder Trump is taking office. Most of you are incapable of digesting and dealing with facts?

As stated before, crimes are charged and prosecuted differently because they are different. Do you think the DA who charged this case is also an apologist?
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I would break up with him. This is a deal breaker.

Growing up, I was taught to be open-minded and tolerant. And generally in society we should be. But you should not be open-minded and tolerant when choosing the parent of your future children, or someone whose finances will blend with your own.
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


He could absolutely be a pedophile, and it is incredibly naive not to consider that possibility. I have a developmentally disabled cousin (not autistic) who went to jail for sex with a minor with about the same ages as the brother here. Many sort of shrugged it off because he was a young adult and with his disabilities, was at a similar emotional level to the girl he was with. Guess what? He's a pedophile. Years later he got caught with all kinds of child porn and ended up back in jail. And I'm very glad that I've never let him be around my kids.


So now we are just speculating? I was responding to the facts OP provided, not what could be. Currently, he is not accused of being a pedophile.

You speculated that it was consensual and that he’s so severely delayed that they are the same age. It’s not ok for you to make up facts to suit your narrative either.


No, I didn't. I said statutory rape often is consensual. It doesn't mean it's right or legal. But you really think a 15 year old and an 18 year old having sex is the same as pedophilia? And if he was charged with statutory rape vs. sexual assault vs. rape that should tell you something. It's more than speculation. Also, if you knew anything about autism, you'd know that he is behind.

It’s literally written in black and white.

“Statutory rape between an autistic 19 year old (who is obviously developmentally behind) and a 14-year-old was likely consensual”

You are assuming consent, you are assuming his delay. Feel free to read your own posts instead of throwing out insults to people who don’t want sex offenders in their home/around their kids 🙄
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


He could absolutely be a pedophile, and it is incredibly naive not to consider that possibility. I have a developmentally disabled cousin (not autistic) who went to jail for sex with a minor with about the same ages as the brother here. Many sort of shrugged it off because he was a young adult and with his disabilities, was at a similar emotional level to the girl he was with. Guess what? He's a pedophile. Years later he got caught with all kinds of child porn and ended up back in jail. And I'm very glad that I've never let him be around my kids.


So now we are just speculating? I was responding to the facts OP provided, not what could be. Currently, he is not accused of being a pedophile.

You speculated that it was consensual and that he’s so severely delayed that they are the same age. It’s not ok for you to make up facts to suit your narrative either.


No, I didn't. I said statutory rape often is consensual. It doesn't mean it's right or legal. But you really think a 15 year old and an 18 year old having sex is the same as pedophilia? And if he was charged with statutory rape vs. sexual assault vs. rape that should tell you something. It's more than speculation. Also, if you knew anything about autism, you'd know that he is behind.

Op doesn’t list the exact crime(s) he is charged with. Your rabid defence of someone accused of a sex crime is disturbing.
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


He could absolutely be a pedophile, and it is incredibly naive not to consider that possibility. I have a developmentally disabled cousin (not autistic) who went to jail for sex with a minor with about the same ages as the brother here. Many sort of shrugged it off because he was a young adult and with his disabilities, was at a similar emotional level to the girl he was with. Guess what? He's a pedophile. Years later he got caught with all kinds of child porn and ended up back in jail. And I'm very glad that I've never let him be around my kids.


So now we are just speculating? I was responding to the facts OP provided, not what could be. Currently, he is not accused of being a pedophile.

You speculated that it was consensual and that he’s so severely delayed that they are the same age. It’s not ok for you to make up facts to suit your narrative either.


No, I didn't. I said statutory rape often is consensual. It doesn't mean it's right or legal. But you really think a 15 year old and an 18 year old having sex is the same as pedophilia? And if he was charged with statutory rape vs. sexual assault vs. rape that should tell you something. It's more than speculation. Also, if you knew anything about autism, you'd know that he is behind.

It’s literally written in black and white.

“Statutory rape between an autistic 19 year old (who is obviously developmentally behind) and a 14-year-old was likely consensual”

You are assuming consent, you are assuming his delay. Feel free to read your own posts instead of throwing out insults to people who don’t want sex offenders in their home/around their kids 🙄


I never said she should have a sex offender in her home FFS. Statutory rape is still a sexual offense. What I can't stand is hysterics and calling him a pedophile when he was (according to OP) never charged with that.
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


He could absolutely be a pedophile, and it is incredibly naive not to consider that possibility. I have a developmentally disabled cousin (not autistic) who went to jail for sex with a minor with about the same ages as the brother here. Many sort of shrugged it off because he was a young adult and with his disabilities, was at a similar emotional level to the girl he was with. Guess what? He's a pedophile. Years later he got caught with all kinds of child porn and ended up back in jail. And I'm very glad that I've never let him be around my kids.


So now we are just speculating? I was responding to the facts OP provided, not what could be. Currently, he is not accused of being a pedophile.

You speculated that it was consensual and that he’s so severely delayed that they are the same age. It’s not ok for you to make up facts to suit your narrative either.


No, I didn't. I said statutory rape often is consensual. It doesn't mean it's right or legal. But you really think a 15 year old and an 18 year old having sex is the same as pedophilia? And if he was charged with statutory rape vs. sexual assault vs. rape that should tell you something. It's more than speculation. Also, if you knew anything about autism, you'd know that he is behind.

Op doesn’t list the exact crime(s) he is charged with. Your rabid defence of someone accused of a sex crime is disturbing.


I think it's more disturbing to call a disabled man a pedophile without proof but that's just me.
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OP, how old are the parents? Are they in good health? How soon would this even be an issue?
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Anonymous wrote:No way Jose. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Cut your losses now and find someone with compatible life goals.

Just like the thread about dating someone who supports his parents, you will never be a priority here. And unfortunately for you, you’re in line behind a sex offender. Is that going to impact where you live? (Xmiles away from a school?) is that going to be an issue when you have your own children and a pedophile lives with you? No. No. Nonononono. Do your future self and family a favor and cut this guy loose.


Statutory rape (if the DA can even call it that considering the autism) is NOT the same as being a being a pedophile. As I said before, you are just a shit person.

I think the person justifying sexual assault is more likely the “shit person”. Are you also a sex offender? Or dating one? Why is this so triggering for you?


Why are you so dumb? The law clearly distinguishes between the two so why can't you? And yes, you absolutely are a shit and a dumb person for causing him of pedophilia. No one is justifying anything. FACTS MATTER.


He could absolutely be a pedophile, and it is incredibly naive not to consider that possibility. I have a developmentally disabled cousin (not autistic) who went to jail for sex with a minor with about the same ages as the brother here. Many sort of shrugged it off because he was a young adult and with his disabilities, was at a similar emotional level to the girl he was with. Guess what? He's a pedophile. Years later he got caught with all kinds of child porn and ended up back in jail. And I'm very glad that I've never let him be around my kids.


So now we are just speculating? I was responding to the facts OP provided, not what could be. Currently, he is not accused of being a pedophile.

You speculated that it was consensual and that he’s so severely delayed that they are the same age. It’s not ok for you to make up facts to suit your narrative either.


No, I didn't. I said statutory rape often is consensual. It doesn't mean it's right or legal. But you really think a 15 year old and an 18 year old having sex is the same as pedophilia? And if he was charged with statutory rape vs. sexual assault vs. rape that should tell you something. It's more than speculation. Also, if you knew anything about autism, you'd know that he is behind.

Op doesn’t list the exact crime(s) he is charged with. Your rabid defence of someone accused of a sex crime is disturbing.


I think it's more disturbing to call a disabled man a pedophile without proof but that's just me.

You seem to think that because someone is disabled they are not responsible for their own decisions. That’s incorrect. If you had a problem with the verbiage used you could have conveyed that much more concisely (and without personal insults). Your point is completely lost while defending someone accused of sex crimes with a minor.
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