Divorced SAHMs and younger professional women: sugar babies?

[Anonymous]

The response in this thread tell you why you should f*ck around in the US and get your wife from abroad when it's time to settle down..

[Anonymous]

The oldest sugar baby I ran into on OLD was in her early 60s, and when I asked her why I should choose her instead of someone younger, her answer was that she had certain skills it took a lifetime to perfect.

[Anonymous]

Reading this is so sad. I pray for any of these women raising daughters. No wonder kids today’s have little self-respect and no morals. The downfall of civilization.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women in their 20s want to have kids so they want a man who makes good money and who will be involved with the kids and at home.

Women in their 30s have kids and realize men don’t pitch in when it comes to domestic labor.

Women in their 40s are freaking exhausted from all the years of raising kids basically solo and have learned all men are good for is money, so if you’re gonna deal with a selfish loser, better to be one with money.

Your outlook on men is why you’re unhappy. You judge all men as “ selfish and lazy”, but get upset when men put all women into one category.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Eta there are certainly some younger women or older women with kids who are killing it financially (I’m a single mom by choice and very comfortable) but this isn’t the most common scenario.

+1

Exactly. The ex husband pays for the house in a nice area and luxury car, but the divorced woman wants more - not saying this is every woman, but I have seen enough of them to know that too many of these women exist. If OP were my son, I would want them to know.

What planet are you on? My ex husband earns 600K and pays for nothing. We live in a crappy apartment, my kid attends public and I paid for my own non-luxury car.

Why should he pay when he isn’t your partner? Maybe you should focus more on your income than your ex-husbands. Boo hoo, that as a grown adult you had to pay for your own car. As if your ex should buy you one simply because of his income. Why do women feel so entitled to men’s money?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would also like to date someone generous and giving as those as personality traits I value. I won't go on a second date with a guy if he didn't pay for the first (usually just a coffee or a drink). That being said, I am not looking for a sugar daddy...just someone who can support himself and doesn't nickel and dime in relationships. I make 250k+/year, and I am also very generous.

Why does he have to pay for the first date? Why don’t you pay for the first date? Why can’t you support yourself? Him paying on the first date has little to do with his ability to support himself. Many of you women pull these stunts and then wonder why you can’t get a man.

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Anonymous wrote:I would also like to date someone generous and giving as those as personality traits I value. I won't go on a second date with a guy if he didn't pay for the first (usually just a coffee or a drink). That being said, I am not looking for a sugar daddy...just someone who can support himself and doesn't nickel and dime in relationships. I make 250k+/year, and I am also very generous.

Women like you are a dime and dozen and high value men don’t want women like you.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, the world has changed in that this behavior is out in the open now.
When my wife started behaving like that it ruined our marriage.
She was on social media and somehow it got into her head that she was owed things more quickly then our budget allowed.
The sad thing is there are a lot of low quality/ low self esteem men out there willing to pay women through only fans, seeking, etc.

This. Men put up with a bunch of BS if they think they can get laid and this entitles women to think they can act this way. Then these women expect high value men, but get upset because high value men don’t want women like them. Then they berate men instead of looking to themselves to find out why men don’t want to date them. Women need to wake up and realize men don’t want lazy women who look at them like a paycheck.

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Anonymous wrote:Why do most of the responses sound so defensive?

Most of the women are just like the women OP is describing and they try to justify their actions.

[Anonymous]

Its an era of equality, pay for your share or don’t go on dates, do overtime to earn more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The response in this thread tell you why you should f*ck around in the US and get your wife from abroad when it's time to settle down..

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Reading this is so sad. I pray for any of these women raising daughters. No wonder kids today’s have little self-respect and no morals. The downfall of civilization.

+1. The women condoning this behavior is why we have young promiscuous girls who think this lifestyle is fun and cute. We are a society who no longer places value on having self-respect and morals.

[Anonymous]

Idk if its just posters on this forum or world is filled with greedy folks with no education, morals, self-esteem or standards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a middle aged guy. Lately I've been shocked by how similar the 20 something childless women and the 40 something moms without jobs have been on the dating apps. When they text they almost always start to use words like "generous" or "giving" or "pampering" to describe what they want in a relationship. A lot of younger women do this even if they have real jobs. A lot of older women do this even if they have been living very respectable lives with kids. I didn't expect this. Sometimes it's hard to tell who wants a sugar daddy.

OP, you should question why you would contextualize women as wanting a sugar daddy soley because they are honest and explicit about not wanting to be a "sugar momma".

So many men target these same women to try to use them for cash and abuse their kindness.

Newsflash, these words are being used to weed out the couch surfing, cheap, eternal childhood, man-boy, mother replacers that frequent these apps.

In other words, if you are bothered by what a woman says she wants, swipe on. I am sure you'll find your sugar momma in their somewhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Eta there are certainly some younger women or older women with kids who are killing it financially (I’m a single mom by choice and very comfortable) but this isn’t the most common scenario.

+1

Exactly. The ex husband pays for the house in a nice area and luxury car, but the divorced woman wants more - not saying this is every woman, but I have seen enough of them to know that too many of these women exist. If OP were my son, I would want them to know.

What planet are you on? My ex husband earns 600K and pays for nothing. We live in a crappy apartment, my kid attends public and I paid for my own non-luxury car.

Why should he pay when he isn’t your partner? Maybe you should focus more on your income than your ex-husbands. Boo hoo, that as a grown adult you had to pay for your own car. As if your ex should buy you one simply because of his income. Why do women feel so entitled to men’s money?

Dimwit, because it was in response to the poster above saying that the ex husband pays for “the house in a nice area and a luxury car.” And by the way, just because he isn’t my partner doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be paying towards the cost of housing and educating his only child. I bought my car with my own earned income while married btw, and likely earn more than you do, just nowhere near as much as he does.