NP here. My mom is a neonatologist and also generally anti-choice except for medical/health considerations. In other words, she'd support my getting an abortion at any point if I had cancer and needed radiation therapy, but she wouldn't support it if I didn't want to raise the baby for financial or emotional reasons. She says that the best way to think about a fetus is as a parasite. This is a person who devoted her life to caring for pre-term infants. Abortion is a question of morals and values. Medical science cannot answer those questions for us. My mom's line is much stricter than mine, but we both believe in/understand the same set of facts. Her reason for holding her views about abortion is in no way informed by what she knows of medicine; they are informed by her religious beliefs. I myself have grown up around and spent a lot of time as a volunteer in NICUs, and I also would not personally choose to have an abortion for any non-medical reason. And I also am an outspoken advocate for reproductive rights, because I know that my values and circumstances are different from others. And no one has the right to force anyone to donate their body to sustain another being. Whatever beliefs and values you want to have, at least be honest about the underlying facts. Nothing makes me angrier than people bringing medical science, in particular advances in neonatal medicine, into abortion politics. If a single one of them has done what I've done, volunteer to sit in a private room near a NICU with a baby who was taken off of any life support so that he would never be alone in his final days on earth, then maybe I'll listen. |
Your mom can have her own opinion, but not her own facts. A developing human inside his or her mom isn’t a parasite. |
As a prolife person, what do you think of proposed bill in MO to ban abortion even for ectopic pregnancy? |
Way to miss the point completely. It must be difficult to be so obtuse. Though, somehow, I think you are not actually so obtuse...only willfully so. |
Facts are facts. If you can’t accept that then you have no business making any “points.” |
The pregnant woman comes first. Nothing else matters. You won't enslave us, forced birther. |
Maybe but that's up to science to decide when consciousness of the baby occurs add it is just likely 16 weeks |
You control your body, how can anyone force you to get pregnant? Quit claiming you are a slave. There are millions of actual slaves in the world, mostly women and children in 3rd world and underdeveloped countries, comparing yourself to them is wrong and gross. You can control your reproductive life and no one can force you to become pregnant. Hysterical propaganda, grow up. White UMC women are the most extra and weird people ever. |
birthed. There will always be other states or other countries. I will have a sex life without worry that forced birthers will enslave you. |
All i hear is someone who has never lost a friend to childbirth, developed Hyperemesis gravidarum or eclampsia or gestational diabetes (the latter of which puts you at risk to develop diabetes II later on), cracked a pelvis giving birth, got sciatica that never resolved postpartum, or experienced postpartum depression or psychosis. And who does not have the imagination or compassion to realize how these ailments impact women. Basically you sound like a clueless, horrible man who can’t fathom what women experience. |
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Every child should be a wanted child by the birth mother. Nothing else is acceptable. It's a travesty for mother and child to be forced into this situation.
I felt differently before I read my birth mother's counseling notes. They make me shake with rage for how she was demeaned by the birth father and her parents and the adoption workers. The only people who should be on this planet are people whose mothers weren't forced to have them. -- 62 year old adoptee |
+1 Sadly and infuriatingly, this is accurate. |
This story is utterly horrifying. I've actually been avoiding political discourse for a while because life has been a real ass-kicker for the past few years...so I didn't keep up with politics because I literally did not have the mental bandwidth to handle it. But seriously, this is a life or death situation for our society. Or we'll end up like the Taliban. |
A woman dying of sepsis after a miscarriage was literally what prompted Ireland to change its abortion laws: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/05/27/world/europe/savita-halappanavar-ireland-abortion.html And we're going in the opposite direction here... |
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We’ll never know for sure what percentage of women who had an abortion, were raped. Why don’t we have more serious consequences for rapists??? |