| I'd say that she finally got home and life is happening. |
I don't *really* need one, but I'd like to find out how the fight went down. |
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OP here.
It's an affair. I'll maybe describe it later but I'm kinda hurting right now. |
Sorry dude. |
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Boom!
Sorry, OP. It's good you found out, though. |
OP, I'm sorry. |
| wives and work trips and “missed flights.” Been there, divorced that. |
| So sorry OP. You deserve better. Hang in there. |
Sorry, OP. International spy would have been a lot better.
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| I’m sorry OP. Does she know you know? Did you find some affirmative evidence or did she admit to something? She sounded completely checked out from you, but also from her home life in general, including her kids. It’s sad. She might have some mental health issues going on. It’s like she’s trying to escape her real life. |
| I'm sorry OP. |
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Well, here we go:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp Do get tested for STDs. Do not agree to marriage counseling. At all. Trust me. http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/703016.page If you have to do something, read Esther Perel Go just find yourself a divorce lawyer. Cut yourself off emotionally. She's not worth the effort crying over. |
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Hugs for you OP.
And having a good laugh at all the PPs who tried to justify the behavior, like how DW would be too tired to do a 5-minute Facetime call with the kids after a long day working and so on. If the genders were reversed, they'd never be making such excuses. |
| Oh, and please call the AP's wife, if he has one. When I went through this, it was nice to have a partner. I wouldn't expect the bond that me and his wife had, but I think that she will appreciate knowing. |
| That sucks op, really sorry to hear that |