My gf slept with someone while we were broken up. Now I’m unsure if I want to be with her.

[Anonymous]

If someone slept around that quickly after breaking up with me, I would definitely not get back together with them

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You were ON A BREAK! Plus, YOU DID THE SAME DAMN THING! Holy double-standard, Batman!

You deserve to be alone.

I told her to give me a few days to think it over and she flipped. She said she wasn’t going to wait for someone to do with her life especially when I had slept with someone. That either I was 100% or 100% out. I said I was unsure again and she stormed out.

I thought it was unfair of her not to give me a few days to think.

Again, you deserve to be alone. You can have a one night stand, but she can't? Can't you see how that's a double standard and hypocritical of you? It was unfair of YOU to judge her. She deserves better.

It wasn’t a one night stand. She slept with him a couple of times.

And that's still fine, because you were broken up, and she had given you more than a few days, even if she didn't agree to it. She said she didn't want to wait, and yet she did.

Can you accept these facts?

If you can't, please leave this poor woman alone. You sound very controlling and you will make her life miserable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If someone slept around that quickly after breaking up with me, I would definitely not get back together with them

But he slept with someone too, so that’s okay? It’s just not okay because she did it?

[Anonymous]

This is messed up. You were broken up. She did nothing wrong. And you should not have asked. Grow up, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is messed up. You were broken up. She did nothing wrong. And you should not have asked. Grow up, OP.

This.

At least she wasn’t honest with you. She was screwed either way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is messed up. You were broken up. She did nothing wrong. And you should not have asked. Grow up, OP.

This.

At least she was honest with you. She was screwed either way.

+1.

[Anonymous]

You are utterly sexist. I hope she does not stay with you.

[Anonymous]

Grow up!

[Anonymous]

Seriously grow up. You both chose to sleep with other people during a pandemic so oddly, you deserve each other.

But hopefully she has enough self esteem to dump you and keep it final.

[Anonymous]

It seems like this OP, the OP from the Valentine’s weekend trip, and the OP anesthesiologist resident with the video obsessed girl he was seeing are strangely similar. Similar evasive, fact avoidant communication style, and all with gf/bf issues that run around last fall/December, and are coming up again in February.

Are you 3 the same person or related somehow!?

[Anonymous]

You were on a break!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:More fish in the sea. Dump her...

Uh, she already dumped him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If someone slept around that quickly after breaking up with me, I would definitely not get back together with them

Guy here. I wouldn’t take her back. I wouldn’t get that out of my mind. Perhaps more importantly once you break up getting back together is a bad idea. Unless it was a few years later and you’ve each developed and changed and each had other meaningful relationships.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If someone slept around that quickly after breaking up with me, I would definitely not get back together with them

Guy here. I wouldn’t take her back. I wouldn’t get that out of my mind. Perhaps more importantly once you break up getting back together is a bad idea. Unless it was a few years later and you’ve each developed and changed and each had other meaningful relationships.

Hello, OP

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I’m surprised she even answered your question. You broke up. You have no business asking or knowing what she did with her body and her life while you were broken up.