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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you feel you live a double life? What about the guilt or the fear?[/quote] No guilt or fear. I don’t really even feel like I’m leading a “double life.” I have a wife and an AP. It’s the same life.[/quote] Because you are a fkd-up compartmentalizer. Your wife on the other have will definitely feel like she was in another universe when she learns the truth. It is so disorienting and messes with your head for life. You don’t know up from down for a long time afterwards. You question everything and trust no one. It’s very traumatic.[/quote] +1 every vacation, holiday, family event, kid’s birthday is ruined for me during that time. You search pictures, emails, voice mails and can’t believe the double face lies. It ruined memories for me completely. Very happy memories got washed out when I found out spouse was cheating during those times. It’s just awful. [/quote]
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