SIL acted entitled and embarrassed me and I blasted her and now has consequences.

[Anonymous]

You’re trash. Who starts screaming at someone on the phone vs. calmly but firmly addressing the issue?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Am I the only one who is quite amazed at how ballistic OP went with berating her SIL simply over free hotel snacks?
Sure SIL doesn't seem like she has a lot of EQ to read the room, asking for more freebies, but (to me) that doesn't warrant yelling profanites multiple times and getting her thrown out of the hotel after it happened.
OP, perhaps you are embarrassed that you got caught by the hotel with freebies you weren't entitled to, and that embarrassment carried over to your anger?

So much so that I thought OP was the SIL posting from the perspective of the person who arranged the trip.

Honestly this sounds fake though. I’ve worked at the front desk of a hotel. I would just shut down the request and never dream of rattling on SIL to the person who booked the trip. Absolutely bizarre story.

[Anonymous]

What a train wreck. I cant imagine how Easter dinner will go. 😂😳

[Anonymous]

OP, you are easily the worst person in this entire saga.

[Anonymous]

Well done on making your SIL look slightly less awful just because your awfulness goes leaps and bounds beyond hers

[Anonymous]

You all sound like morons. Are you a troll?

[Anonymous]

No no no no. You badly over-reacted, OP, as did your brother and your parents. You ganged up on this person.

I'm not defending what your SIL did. I would have "died of embarrassment" as well. I would have been furious that she caused a rift between my friend and me. But I would NEVER have said such terrible things to her, or given my brother an ultimatum.

None of you can handle yourselves here, but the over-reaction is the worst, because you grouped together to bully this person. It might have been conceivable if it was just one of you against her. But no, everyone had to land punches. One against 4 people. It's not ethical behavior. It's not a fair fight.

Even if she is a terrible person, and has been for years, you don't say so. Not in so many words. You just decline to help, without using hateful language at every turn. You sound like such a vindictive, impulsive, low class, vulgar person.

I certainly hope she divorces. She has to escape such a terrible family.

[Anonymous]

This has to be a troll. No random front desk person is going to be able to look up what fancy person had connections to the room, call that person, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This has to be a troll. No random front desk person is going to be able to look up what fancy person had connections to the room, call that person, etc.

Or maybe the friend got a ping of some sort notifying her of the extra charge for the 2nd basket.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a jerk. You cussed her out and called her out of her babe? She was probably a nor
Al well adjusted person until she married into
You’re crazy A family. Sheesh!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Am I the only one who is quite amazed at how ballistic OP went with berating her SIL simply over free hotel snacks?
Sure SIL doesn't seem like she has a lot of EQ to read the room, asking for more freebies, but (to me) that doesn't warrant yelling profanites multiple times and getting her thrown out of the hotel after it happened.
OP, perhaps you are embarrassed that you got caught by the hotel with freebies you weren't entitled to, and that embarrassment carried over to your anger?

Totally agree.

1 - The OP dislikes her SIL so any little thing her SIL does irritates her.

2 - If I showed up and there was a gift basket in my room, and no one said otherwise, I would think the hotel provided it. In that case, SIL behavior isn’t entitled. She got something for free from the hotel and was asking if she could get more of the free stuff. Maybe she thought it was like shampoo or something.

3 - If the OPs best friend could get fired for this, then the friend is either very new to her job or she was doing something that she shouldn’t have been and the problem is she is going to get caught. That’s not SIL’s fault - she didn’t demand OPs friend get her a room in a resort, the friend volunteered the rooms.

4 - The OP should be seriously embarrassed and call and apologize for the way she acted AND should accept her feelings of dislike of her SIL and stick to polite social situations only and not vacation with her to avoid such ridiculous displays of obnoxious behavior.

[Anonymous]

Wow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry OP, but you are a nightmare. SIL needs to run as far away from you as she can.

+1

+2 No wonder your brother married a nightmare like your SIL, with you as a role model.

Siblings aren’t “role models” and you are absurd.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Am I the only one who is quite amazed at how ballistic OP went with berating her SIL simply over free hotel snacks?
Sure SIL doesn't seem like she has a lot of EQ to read the room, asking for more freebies, but (to me) that doesn't warrant yelling profanites multiple times and getting her thrown out of the hotel after it happened.
OP, perhaps you are embarrassed that you got caught by the hotel with freebies you weren't entitled to, and that embarrassment carried over to your anger?

Totally agree.

1 - The OP dislikes her SIL so any little thing her SIL does irritates her.

2 - If I showed up and there was a gift basket in my room, and no one said otherwise, I would think the hotel provided it. In that case, SIL behavior isn’t entitled.[/b] She got something for free from the hotel and was asking if she could get more of the free stuff[b]. Maybe she thought it was like shampoo or something.

3 - If the OPs best friend could get fired for this, then the friend is either very new to her job or she was doing something that she shouldn’t have been and the problem is she is going to get caught. That’s not SIL’s fault - she didn’t demand OPs friend get her a room in a resort, the friend volunteered the rooms.

4 - The OP should be seriously embarrassed and call and apologize for the way she acted AND should accept her feelings of dislike of her SIL and stick to polite social situations only and not vacation with her to avoid such ridiculous displays of obnoxious behavior.

With a gift basket? No, it’s not “like shampoo.” Who does that? Tacky, entitled and gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry OP, but you are a nightmare. SIL needs to run as far away from you as she can.

+1

+2 No wonder your brother married a nightmare like your SIL, with you as a role model.

Siblings aren’t “role models” and you are absurd.

The nightmare is OP. Ugh. Poor SIL should run to get a divorce. This is nearing an abusive situation, with all her in-laws swearing and screaming at her.