SIL acted entitled and embarrassed me and I blasted her and now has consequences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I know I was out of line and I don’t normally act like that. I was so incredibly angry because my best friend could have gotten in trouble with her job and I felt like I let her down after she was so generous.

I am going to follow all your advice and stay out of it. I will ignore SIL calls/messages moving forward.

I don't care how angry you were. Do you really not understand how your behavior was 100% not ok? Because it sounds like you're just the kind of person who handles things like that.

I think if you were raised in a home with yelling, you sometimes really don't get that it's not OK. Because the yeller made it all about you and how your actions made them yell. And then you become the adult and you "get" to be the one who is so put upon that they must start yelling about it.