Help - gay brother

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What do you hateful gays and gay "allies" in here think you are achieving with your insults and nastiness? All you are doing is lending credence to the idea that gays and those who support gays are unhinged and crazy. As a gay man, I don't think yours is the kind of support I want.

As a queer woman, I don't have a lot of sympathy for anyone who calls their brother and his lifestyle disgusting and hides their kids from it. Frankly, I think they are bad, hateful people.

And how are you any better ? With all your equally self righteous hate

I'm not the one wishing death on anyone. That said, thinking someone is an asshole for being a bigot is not the same as cutting off a family member because you don't like who they are sleeping with.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you hateful gays and gay "allies" in here think you are achieving with your insults and nastiness? All you are doing is lending credence to the idea that gays and those who support gays are unhinged and crazy. As a gay man, I don't think yours is the kind of support I want.

As a queer woman, I don't have a lot of sympathy for anyone who calls their brother and his lifestyle disgusting and hides their kids from it. Frankly, I think they are bad, hateful people.

And how are you any better ? With all your equally self righteous hate

I'm not the one wishing death on anyone. That said, thinking someone is an asshole for being a bigot is not the same as cutting off a family member because you don't like who they are sleeping with.

People here are not just thinking OP is an asshole, they are feeling her that and much worse to her face.

[Anonymous]

Ok, but I'm the "self righteous" PP you responded to and I didn't wish anything bad on her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you hateful gays and gay "allies" in here think you are achieving with your insults and nastiness? All you are doing is lending credence to the idea that gays and those who support gays are unhinged and crazy. As a gay man, I don't think yours is the kind of support I want.

As a queer woman, I don't have a lot of sympathy for anyone who calls their brother and his lifestyle disgusting and hides their kids from it. Frankly, I think they are bad, hateful people.

And how are you any better ? With all your equally self righteous hate

I'm not the one wishing death on anyone. That said, thinking someone is an asshole for being a bigot is not the same as cutting off a family member because you don't like who they are sleeping with.

NP. OP doesn't wish death on her brother either.

You do seem like a hateful person, PP. I realize you'll never see it that way. Therefore, I don't want to qualify you as bad. You are who you are. I'm just glad I don't know people like you personally.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. This will be my last post. I spoke with my brother and let him know that I love him but do not want to be part of his gay lifestyle. I do not approve and I do not want homosexuality to be part of my life. I have as much of a right as the rabid posters in this thread to choose who and what are in my life. This means that he is welcome in my life, as he was before, but I will not meet his boyfriend or participate in whatever comes next between them.

He says he accepts this, but time will tell if he really does. All I know is that I will never stop hoping he decides this homosexual life is not for him, although I know that is unlikely, and I believe that love means I must be honest about what is a disgusting and destructive lifestyle.

OP, your lifestyle and disgusting and destructive if you reject your own brother because of something he didn't choose that is part of a range of normal human sexual behavior. I'm not sure you actually do love him. You are likely religious which is why you hate gays, right? Maybe you should look further into Jesus' teachings and the meaning of love.

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OP, it's not a lifestyle. It's who he is. "Disgusting" is your opinion, and there's nothing "destructive" about it. You just don't like it. But it's not about you.

You don't deserve him. You are an ignorant, childish bigot.

[Anonymous]

I lost my brother tragically and unexpectedly a few months ago. I would love to have a brother again, gay or straight. OP I wish you could give him to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you hateful gays and gay "allies" in here think you are achieving with your insults and nastiness? All you are doing is lending credence to the idea that gays and those who support gays are unhinged and crazy. As a gay man, I don't think yours is the kind of support I want.

As a queer woman, I don't have a lot of sympathy for anyone who calls their brother and his lifestyle disgusting and hides their kids from it. Frankly, I think they are bad, hateful people.

And how are you any better ? With all your equally self righteous hate

I'm not the one wishing death on anyone. That said, thinking someone is an asshole for being a bigot is not the same as cutting off a family member because you don't like who they are sleeping with.

NP. OP doesn't wish death on her brother either.

You do seem like a hateful person, PP. I realize you'll never see it that way. Therefore, I don't want to qualify you as bad. You are who you are. I'm just glad I don't know people like you personally.

Sure. I'm hateful for thinking cutting off a family member for their orientation is terrible.

If you truly believe that, you should seek psych care.

[Anonymous]

^^Op didn't cut her brother off. She just refused to meet his SO. If he responds with cutting her off, that is his choice and something she has to live with, but you shouldn't misrepresent what is going on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I lost my brother tragically and unexpectedly a few months ago. I would love to have a brother again, gay or straight. OP I wish you could give him to me.

Blech, this emotionally manipulative stuff does get old. Your losing your brother has nothing to do with OP and contributes nothing to the thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I believe homosexual sex is a sin. No better or no worse than any other sin which all of us do probably on a daily schedule . The unique problem of homosexual sex is that it is public once out of the closet and practitioners are in the unfortunate position of having to defend sinful acts and lifestyle publically. This is where homosexual sex is very dangerous to your immortal soul. I've always accepted, loved and cherished all my homosexual friends and extended family. But I have told them that I care about their eternal future and I would be frightened for them when they are on their deathbed. I tell them because I love them and don't want them to take chances with their soul. I advise them to take the matter seriously and get to know what they believe their real situation is before they die. Then I tell them we will never speak of it again and get on with living and loving each other.

Is this the OP? Because how can being gay be a choice? Did you choose to be attracted to men, like make a conscious decision or was it something that just happened, you were wired that way. Why do you think homosexuality is a decision vs. being wired that way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I lost my brother tragically and unexpectedly a few months ago. I would love to have a brother again, gay or straight. OP I wish you could give him to me.

Blech, this emotionally manipulative stuff does get old. Your losing your brother has nothing to do with OP and contributes nothing to the thread.

I disagree. Sometimes life smacks you in the face with perspective. This is what posts like that do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I believe homosexual sex is a sin. No better or no worse than any other sin which all of us do probably on a daily schedule . The unique problem of homosexual sex is that it is public once out of the closet and practitioners are in the unfortunate position of having to defend sinful acts and lifestyle publically. This is where homosexual sex is very dangerous to your immortal soul. I've always accepted, loved and cherished all my homosexual friends and extended family. But I have told them that I care about their eternal future and I would be frightened for them when they are on their deathbed. I tell them because I love them and don't want them to take chances with their soul. I advise them to take the matter seriously and get to know what they believe their real situation is before they die. Then I tell them we will never speak of it again and get on with living and loving each other.

Is this the OP? Because how can being gay be a choice? Did you choose to be attracted to men, like make a conscious decision or was it something that just happened, you were wired that way. Why do you think homosexuality is a decision vs. being wired that way.

The OP clearly said she isn't religious. Please try to keep up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I lost my brother tragically and unexpectedly a few months ago. I would love to have a brother again, gay or straight. OP I wish you could give him to me.

Blech, this emotionally manipulative stuff does get old. Your losing your brother has nothing to do with OP and contributes nothing to the thread.

I disagree. Sometimes life smacks you in the face with perspective. This is what posts like that do.

Not really. Posts like that just make the author seem like a histrionic drama queen looking for a chorus of "aw, sorry about your brother" and other cheap forms of attention.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^^Op didn't cut her brother off. She just refused to meet his SO. If he responds with cutting her off, that is his choice and something she has to live with, but you shouldn't misrepresent what is going on.

She won't accept him and calls him disgusting so she effectively did. Go away, Cruella de Homophobia.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I believe homosexual sex is a sin. No better or no worse than any other sin which all of us do probably on a daily schedule . The unique problem of homosexual sex is that it is public once out of the closet and practitioners are in the unfortunate position of having to defend sinful acts and lifestyle publically. This is where homosexual sex is very dangerous to your immortal soul. I've always accepted, loved and cherished all my homosexual friends and extended family. But I have told them that I care about their eternal future and I would be frightened for them when they are on their deathbed. I tell them because I love them and don't want them to take chances with their soul. I advise them to take the matter seriously and get to know what they believe their real situation is before they die. Then I tell them we will never speak of it again and get on with living and loving each other.

Is this the OP? Because how can being gay be a choice? Did you choose to be attracted to men, like make a conscious decision or was it something that just happened, you were wired that way. Why do you think homosexuality is a decision vs. being wired that way.

The OP clearly said she isn't religious. Please try to keep up.

So she is stupid of her own accord. Got it.