Med student allegedly inappropriate with female patient and commits suicide after disciplinary action

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Anonymous wrote:The patient has a far more solid lawsuit on her hands than the perverted pond scum

It's not a crime to be made uncomfortable. Who are you people.?

For starters a civil lawsuit against a hospital isn’t criminal court. Seems she was sexually harassed by a medical resident, then he used her medical chart to cyberstalk her (HIPPA violation), then he took his life and now his family is suggesting it was her fault??? That’s a lot of trauma!!! $$$

The family alleges the school effed up. They aren't suing her.

Totally innocuous to note the gal was seeing him for STD check. Totally not an attempt to insinuate she’s a promiscuous and lying western whore making false allegations against a high caste future surgeon.

+1. He was sleeping with his girlfriend (not wife) while trying to hook up with a patient so who is the whore?

I doubt he was trying to hook up with someone presenting with a nasty STI right in front of him.

He asked her if her boyfriend would mind him touching her! He then followed her on Instagram. AFTER (!!!!!) she refused to let him do her pap smear and she requested a nurse do it. Bonkers.

Because she told him her boyfriend gets very jealous.

It’s cool. All my male doctors follow me on Instagram. Oh wait, no they don’t.

Well, he wasn't a Dr. remember?

Not according to his obit. Parents were already calling him a Dr.

Their whole retirement, gone!

Hence the need to go for the deep pocket!

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Anonymous wrote:The patient has a far more solid lawsuit on her hands than the perverted pond scum

It's not a crime to be made uncomfortable. Who are you people.?

For starters a civil lawsuit against a hospital isn’t criminal court. Seems she was sexually harassed by a medical resident, then he used her medical chart to cyberstalk her (HIPPA violation), then he took his life and now his family is suggesting it was her fault??? That’s a lot of trauma!!! $$$

The family alleges the school effed up. They aren't suing her.

Totally innocuous to note the gal was seeing him for STD check. Totally not an attempt to insinuate she’s a promiscuous and lying western whore making false allegations against a high caste future surgeon.

+1. He was sleeping with his girlfriend (not wife) while trying to hook up with a patient so who is the whore?

I doubt he was trying to hook up with someone presenting with a nasty STI right in front of him.

He asked her if her boyfriend would mind him touching her! He then followed her on Instagram. AFTER (!!!!!) she refused to let him do her pap smear and she requested a nurse do it. Bonkers.

Autism strikes again.

Nah, he was perfect according to his parents. A rising star.

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Anonymous wrote:The patient has a far more solid lawsuit on her hands than the perverted pond scum

It's not a crime to be made uncomfortable. Who are you people.?

For starters a civil lawsuit against a hospital isn’t criminal court. Seems she was sexually harassed by a medical resident, then he used her medical chart to cyberstalk her (HIPPA violation), then he took his life and now his family is suggesting it was her fault??? That’s a lot of trauma!!! $$$

The family alleges the school effed up. They aren't suing her.

Totally innocuous to note the gal was seeing him for STD check. Totally not an attempt to insinuate she’s a promiscuous and lying western whore making false allegations against a high caste future surgeon.

+1. He was sleeping with his girlfriend (not wife) while trying to hook up with a patient so who is the whore?

I doubt he was trying to hook up with someone presenting with a nasty STI right in front of him.

He asked her if her boyfriend would mind him touching her! He then followed her on Instagram. AFTER (!!!!!) she refused to let him do her pap smear and she requested a nurse do it. Bonkers.

Because she told him her boyfriend gets very jealous.

It’s cool. All my male doctors follow me on Instagram. Oh wait, no they don’t.

Well, he wasn't a Dr. remember?

Not according to his obit. Parents were already calling him a Dr.

And the detractors were quick to point that out but now back to calling him Dr again?

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Anonymous wrote:The patient has a far more solid lawsuit on her hands than the perverted pond scum

It's not a crime to be made uncomfortable. Who are you people.?

For starters a civil lawsuit against a hospital isn’t criminal court. Seems she was sexually harassed by a medical resident, then he used her medical chart to cyberstalk her (HIPPA violation), then he took his life and now his family is suggesting it was her fault??? That’s a lot of trauma!!! $$$

The family alleges the school effed up. They aren't suing her.

Totally innocuous to note the gal was seeing him for STD check. Totally not an attempt to insinuate she’s a promiscuous and lying western whore making false allegations against a high caste future surgeon.

+1. He was sleeping with his girlfriend (not wife) while trying to hook up with a patient so who is the whore?

I doubt he was trying to hook up with someone presenting with a nasty STI right in front of him.

Then why compliment her body and contact her on Instagram?

Because she volunteered that she worked out. I guess he awkwardly gave her a compliment.

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Anonymous wrote:The patient has a far more solid lawsuit on her hands than the perverted pond scum

It's not a crime to be made uncomfortable. Who are you people.?

For starters a civil lawsuit against a hospital isn’t criminal court. Seems she was sexually harassed by a medical resident, then he used her medical chart to cyberstalk her (HIPPA violation), then he took his life and now his family is suggesting it was her fault??? That’s a lot of trauma!!! $$$

The family alleges the school effed up. They aren't suing her.

Totally innocuous to note the gal was seeing him for STD check. Totally not an attempt to insinuate she’s a promiscuous and lying western whore making false allegations against a high caste future surgeon.

+1. He was sleeping with his girlfriend (not wife) while trying to hook up with a patient so who is the whore?

I doubt he was trying to hook up with someone presenting with a nasty STI right in front of him.

He asked her if her boyfriend would mind him touching her! He then followed her on Instagram. AFTER (!!!!!) she refused to let him do her pap smear and she requested a nurse do it. Bonkers.

Because she told him her boyfriend gets very jealous.

It’s cool. All my male doctors follow me on Instagram. Oh wait, no they don’t.

Well, he wasn't a Dr. remember?

Not according to his obit. Parents were already calling him a Dr.

And the detractors were quick to point that out but now back to calling him Dr again?

Who is calling him a doctor?

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Anonymous wrote:The patient has a far more solid lawsuit on her hands than the perverted pond scum

It's not a crime to be made uncomfortable. Who are you people.?

For starters a civil lawsuit against a hospital isn’t criminal court. Seems she was sexually harassed by a medical resident, then he used her medical chart to cyberstalk her (HIPPA violation), then he took his life and now his family is suggesting it was her fault??? That’s a lot of trauma!!! $$$

The family alleges the school effed up. They aren't suing her.

Totally innocuous to note the gal was seeing him for STD check. Totally not an attempt to insinuate she’s a promiscuous and lying western whore making false allegations against a high caste future surgeon.

+1. He was sleeping with his girlfriend (not wife) while trying to hook up with a patient so who is the whore?

I doubt he was trying to hook up with someone presenting with a nasty STI right in front of him.

He asked her if her boyfriend would mind him touching her! He then followed her on Instagram. AFTER (!!!!!) she refused to let him do her pap smear and she requested a nurse do it. Bonkers.

Because she told him her boyfriend gets very jealous.

It’s cool. All my male doctors follow me on Instagram. Oh wait, no they don’t.

Well, he wasn't a Dr. remember?

Not according to his obit. Parents were already calling him a Dr.

And the detractors were quick to point that out but now back to calling him Dr again?

Who is calling him a doctor?

The PP saying "doctors follow me on Instagram..."

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If he'd gone through with the full meeting it's likely he would have been counseled and been allowed to finish. The school also referred him to counseling.

The reality is anyone can file a lawsuit that doesn't mean they'll win. Now a lot of defendants will just settle because it avoids legal fees and publicity.

He could not deal with the shame in the Indian social circle and took the extreme step.

What does that say about how he was raised then? Who needs a doctor teetering on the edge treating you?

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Even if he's in the wrong I can see the parents' side. This should never result in the suicide of a student. Had this been handled different with appropriate support he might still be alive.

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Anonymous wrote:If he'd gone through with the full meeting it's likely he would have been counseled and been allowed to finish. The school also referred him to counseling.

The reality is anyone can file a lawsuit that doesn't mean they'll win. Now a lot of defendants will just settle because it avoids legal fees and publicity.

He could not deal with the shame in the Indian social circle and took the extreme step.

What does that say about how he was raised then? Who needs a doctor teetering on the edge treating you?

You realize that doctors in general have very high suicide rates, right? Suggests there's a problem with the culture, stressors, professional threats, etc and not just that they are all weak.

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Anonymous wrote:I sounds like a problem was solved. Giving him counseling? I’d never go yo a doctor if I knew he’d been counseled for asking inappropriate questions to a patient at the start of his career.

You wouldn't know.

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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't be surprised if he was going to be expelled. A university can't risk losing their rotation site and a hospital system doesn't want to be sued or have their reputation destroyed by some pervert physician after a credible young nurse victim goes to local media. He should have lawyered up immediately because it reads like he put a lot of damning evidence against himself into the record. Anything you say can and will be used against you...

Because he asked some questions? This seems a little ridiculous.

Wannabe obgyn just saw a patient’s vagina and then uses her chart to cyberstalk her on social media as soon as she leaves. No big deal? :roll:

What’s the crime?

You ought to google Larry Nasser.

Um sticking your hand up into young girls bodies is not at all similar to asking a question that made an adult uncomfortable. Are you insane?

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He asked an adult woman some awkward questions. There was no need for her to make a formal report, let alone for the university to bully him to death.

If she doesn’t want to be his patient again, she does have to request it. And that is her right. She doesn’t have to be uncomfortable to make him comfortable. And I have seen ZERO evidence he was bullied by ANYONE. Lots of snowplow boy moms on this thread.

She was there for STD testing.

Typical ploy by the abuser. Your attempt to smear the victim won't work here.

Abuser?? LOL

Why is a few moments of passing discomfort for her worth the career of this promising young physician?

If that's your perspective, you could say the same thing about rape.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:If he'd gone through with the full meeting it's likely he would have been counseled and been allowed to finish. The school also referred him to counseling.

The reality is anyone can file a lawsuit that doesn't mean they'll win. Now a lot of defendants will just settle because it avoids legal fees and publicity.

He could not deal with the shame in the Indian social circle and took the extreme step.

What does that say about how he was raised then? Who needs a doctor teetering on the edge treating you?

You realize that doctors in general have very high suicide rates, right? Suggests there's a problem with the culture, stressors, professional threats, etc and not just that they are all weak.

He had a girlfriend and his family but kept the suicidal thoughts to himself. My primary doctor is Ivy-trained and highly regarded in our affluent city. Yet he has had debilitating episodes of depression. He gets himself help and has a strong wife, family and friends to support him. I do not consider him weak in the least. It is the ones that don't confide in those closest to them and get professional help that put their patients at risk.

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Anonymous wrote:If he'd gone through with the full meeting it's likely he would have been counseled and been allowed to finish. The school also referred him to counseling.

The reality is anyone can file a lawsuit that doesn't mean they'll win. Now a lot of defendants will just settle because it avoids legal fees and publicity.

He could not deal with the shame in the Indian social circle and took the extreme step.

What does that say about how he was raised then? Who needs a doctor teetering on the edge treating you?

You realize that doctors in general have very high suicide rates, right? Suggests there's a problem with the culture, stressors, professional threats, etc and not just that they are all weak.

Maybe society should stop putting them on a pedestal so they don't have to worry about falling so far.

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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't be surprised if he was going to be expelled. A university can't risk losing their rotation site and a hospital system doesn't want to be sued or have their reputation destroyed by some pervert physician after a credible young nurse victim goes to local media. He should have lawyered up immediately because it reads like he put a lot of damning evidence against himself into the record. Anything you say can and will be used against you...

Because he asked some questions? This seems a little ridiculous.

Wannabe obgyn just saw a patient’s vagina and then uses her chart to cyberstalk her on social media as soon as she leaves. No big deal? :roll:

What’s the crime?

You ought to google Larry Nasser.

Um sticking your hand up into young girls bodies is not at all similar to asking a question that made an adult uncomfortable. Are you insane?

+1

He asked an adult woman some awkward questions. There was no need for her to make a formal report, let alone for the university to bully him to death.

If she doesn’t want to be his patient again, she does have to request it. And that is her right. She doesn’t have to be uncomfortable to make him comfortable. And I have seen ZERO evidence he was bullied by ANYONE. Lots of snowplow boy moms on this thread.

She was there for STD testing.

Typical ploy by the abuser. Your attempt to smear the victim won't work here.

Abuser?? LOL

Why is a few moments of passing discomfort for her worth the career of this promising young physician?

If that's your perspective, you could say the same thing about rape.

An offhand awkward comment is not rape. You need to get some perspective.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If he'd gone through with the full meeting it's likely he would have been counseled and been allowed to finish. The school also referred him to counseling.

The reality is anyone can file a lawsuit that doesn't mean they'll win. Now a lot of defendants will just settle because it avoids legal fees and publicity.

He could not deal with the shame in the Indian social circle and took the extreme step.

What does that say about how he was raised then? Who needs a doctor teetering on the edge treating you?

You realize that doctors in general have very high suicide rates, right? Suggests there's a problem with the culture, stressors, professional threats, etc and not just that they are all weak.

He had a girlfriend and his family but kept the suicidal thoughts to himself. My primary doctor is Ivy-trained and highly regarded in our affluent city. Yet he has had debilitating episodes of depression. He gets himself help and has a strong wife, family and friends to support him. I do not consider him weak in the least. It is the ones that don't confide in those closest to them and get professional help that put their patients at risk.

He was talking to his gf and his parents it sounds like. He reached out to the counseling center, he was told to come back later.