Med student allegedly inappropriate with female patient and commits suicide after disciplinary action

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

Dragging out the hearing for 18 days. Totally unnecessary and uncalled for. The process is the punishment. The school knew exactly what it was doing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

So a nurse in Hickville texas goes to the doctor or hospital or fee care clinic for STD help twice,

Sees this dude who’s a 3rd year resident,

They talk, ask q, she brings up her jealous boyfriend and instagram,

He says he’ll take a look or just does later, “follows her page, then deletes it,

She asks for another doctor for her STD treatment next time or she files a big complaint too? Says she didn’t like his questions or Instagram following?

He gets dragged through the muck by his residency program, put on pause, has a hearing coming up, isn’t feeling well and seeks help/ cannot find it, gets some “tips” late at night from the program the day before hearing, goes out and gets a gun, etc.

Guess you're just overlooking the fact that he wanted to inspect her vagina after his creepy questions? Then lurked in the room when she asked for a female NP? Then characterized the patient's body language as "nervous" when she was obviously deeply creeped out by him? Then he ripped her name off her medical chart to cyberstalk her 30 minutes after seeing her vagina? No big deal...

Why are you creating your own narrative? She said she was ok with him being in the room. That's not lurking creepily.

Sounds like she was being professional cordial because she works in the hospital. Protocol was so awful here. Obviously she didn't want this degenerate weirdo in the room but when you're asked by the NP and he's standing right there, it's awkward as hell to be honest. Had he been forced to first leave the room, then she's asked 1 on 1 if he can return to watch, safe bet she'd say no.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

All of that was done before the hearing and investigation. He didn't have a chance to tell his side.

He had a meeting with the dean and the hearing. Those were both chances to tell his side.

No. He was given a future date for the hearing and sidelined until that time. For 18 days.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The undisputed fact here is that he attempted to add a patient on Instagram. That simply alone was enough to get him in trouble. He absolutely knew better than that.

Blaming everyone else is ridiculous.

I mean who hasn't give their instagram handle to autistic porn addicted foreign med students on the OB-GYN rotation. We've all been there!

What is your problem?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

Dragging out the hearing for 18 days. Totally unnecessary and uncalled for. The process is the punishment. The school knew exactly what it was doing.

You're right. They should have never believed the Western skank and let the accused unprofessional sex pest continue to see patients so he can potentially bankrupt the hospital system with some nine-figure lawsuit settlement and hundreds of victims. After all, he had a 4.0 gpa in undergrad!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

So a nurse in Hickville texas goes to the doctor or hospital or fee care clinic for STD help twice,

Sees this dude who’s a 3rd year resident,

They talk, ask q, she brings up her jealous boyfriend and instagram,

He says he’ll take a look or just does later, “follows her page, then deletes it,

She asks for another doctor for her STD treatment next time or she files a big complaint too? Says she didn’t like his questions or Instagram following?

He gets dragged through the muck by his residency program, put on pause, has a hearing coming up, isn’t feeling well and seeks help/ cannot find it, gets some “tips” late at night from the program the day before hearing, goes out and gets a gun, etc.

Guess you're just overlooking the fact that he wanted to inspect her vagina after his creepy questions? Then lurked in the room when she asked for a female NP? Then characterized the patient's body language as "nervous" when she was obviously deeply creeped out by him? Then he ripped her name off her medical chart to cyberstalk her 30 minutes after seeing her vagina? No big deal...

Why are you creating your own narrative? She said she was ok with him being in the room. That's not lurking creepily.

Sounds like she was being professional cordial because she works in the hospital. Protocol was so awful here. Obviously she didn't want this degenerate weirdo in the room but when you're asked by the NP and he's standing right there, it's awkward as hell to be honest. Had he been forced to first leave the room, then she's asked 1 on 1 if he can return to watch, safe bet she'd say no.

I sure as shit am not going to show up to my hospital with my STD. I'm going to the clinic on the other side of town. You say she's a professional, a professional what?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

Dragging out the hearing for 18 days. Totally unnecessary and uncalled for. The process is the punishment. The school knew exactly what it was doing.

Relax Vivek. He would have gotten away with it if he hadn't wimped out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The undisputed fact here is that he attempted to add a patient on Instagram. That simply alone was enough to get him in trouble. He absolutely knew better than that.

Blaming everyone else is ridiculous.

I mean who hasn't give their instagram handle to autistic porn addicted foreign med students on the OB-GYN rotation. We've all been there!

What is your problem?

The problem is the creep traumatizing a female patient. Were she my daughter, we would have already filed a lawsuit. I bet anything this wasn't his first rodeo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The undisputed fact here is that he attempted to add a patient on Instagram. That simply alone was enough to get him in trouble. He absolutely knew better than that.

Blaming everyone else is ridiculous.

I mean who hasn't give their instagram handle to autistic porn addicted foreign med students on the OB-GYN rotation. We've all been there!

What is your problem?

The problem is the creep traumatizing a female patient. Were she my daughter, we would have already filed a lawsuit. I bet anything this wasn't his first rodeo.

She's not a child, weirdo.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

All of that was done before the hearing and investigation. He didn't have a chance to tell his side.

He had a meeting with the dean and the hearing. Those were both chances to tell his side.

No. He was given a future date for the hearing and sidelined until that time. For 18 days.

The email specifically said they were going to try to convene it earlier if possible. Being suspended for 18 days also simply isn't worth killing yourself over.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

All of that was done before the hearing and investigation. He didn't have a chance to tell his side.

He had a meeting with the dean and the hearing. Those were both chances to tell his side.

No. He was given a future date for the hearing and sidelined until that time. For 18 days.

The email specifically said they were going to try to convene it earlier if possible. Being suspended for 18 days also simply isn't worth killing yourself over.

It probably works a little different in this situation than the grocery store you work in.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

Dragging out the hearing for 18 days. Totally unnecessary and uncalled for. The process is the punishment. The school knew exactly what it was doing.

Relax Vivek. He would have gotten away with it if he hadn't wimped out.

+1. He totally would have gotten a slap on the wrist. Like I said before, no coping skills.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The undisputed fact here is that he attempted to add a patient on Instagram. That simply alone was enough to get him in trouble. He absolutely knew better than that.

Blaming everyone else is ridiculous.

I mean who hasn't give their instagram handle to autistic porn addicted foreign med students on the OB-GYN rotation. We've all been there!

What is your problem?

The problem is the creep traumatizing a female patient. Were she my daughter, we would have already filed a lawsuit. I bet anything this wasn't his first rodeo.

She's not a child, weirdo.

My read from the play-by-play is she's an 18 to 20 year old undergrad nursing student, not a 23+ year old RN. I don't think "nurse" in the emails is nurse in the literal sense. But who knows.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

All of that was done before the hearing and investigation. He didn't have a chance to tell his side.

He had a meeting with the dean and the hearing. Those were both chances to tell his side.

No. He was given a future date for the hearing and sidelined until that time. For 18 days.

The email specifically said they were going to try to convene it earlier if possible. Being suspended for 18 days also simply isn't worth killing yourself over.

It probably works a little different in this situation than the grocery store you work in.

So this poster has officially moved into the "insult other posters" stage of trolling.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

Dragging out the hearing for 18 days. Totally unnecessary and uncalled for. The process is the punishment. The school knew exactly what it was doing.

Relax Vivek. He would have gotten away with it if he hadn't wimped out.

+1. He totally would have gotten a slap on the wrist. Like I said before, no coping skills.

Maybe if he thought something else was going to come out. But otherwise, almost certainly would have been a slap on the wrist, maybe a remedial ethics seminar.