Med student allegedly inappropriate with female patient and commits suicide after disciplinary action

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

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The undisputed fact here is that he attempted to add a patient on Instagram. That simply alone was enough to get him in trouble. He absolutely knew better than that.

Blaming everyone else is ridiculous.

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Anonymous wrote:The patient has a far more solid lawsuit on her hands than the perverted pond scum

It's not a crime to be made uncomfortable. Who are you people.?

For starters a civil lawsuit against a hospital isn’t criminal court. Seems she was sexually harassed by a medical resident, then he used her medical chart to cyberstalk her (HIPPA violation), then he took his life and now his family is suggesting it was her fault??? That’s a lot of trauma!!! $$$

The family alleges the school effed up. They aren't suing her.

Totally innocuous to note the gal was seeing him for STD check. Totally not an attempt to insinuate she’s a promiscuous and lying western whore making false allegations against a high caste future surgeon.

+1. He was sleeping with his girlfriend (not wife) while trying to hook up with a patient so who is the whore?

I doubt he was trying to hook up with someone presenting with a nasty STI right in front of him.

He asked her if her boyfriend would mind him touching her! He then followed her on Instagram. AFTER (!!!!!) she refused to let him do her pap smear and she requested a nurse do it. Bonkers.

Autism strikes again.

The way each of them speak it seems to be a case of double autism….

It sounds like the girl was rising sophomore undergrad ie a teenager. He’s the grown ass nearly 25 year old man. He’s sounds special needs. Makes you wonder about his alleged perfect GPA.

Who is the nurse character?

A third party in the room whilst this appointment went on?

The patient who complained was not a teen or sophomore. She is a nurse. It's in the documents. Separately there was an NP in the room for the physical exam along with the patient and the med student.

And as a nurse she knew his behavior was unacceptable and likely felt she had an ethical duty to report it.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

Yep, I was once present for an immediate suspension hearing (lawyer was noticeably drunk in court). It was sad, the guy obviously had problems and the judge referred him to counseling and to an addiction treatment program, but yeah, he completely lost his career (he was later disbarred permanently, they had to vacate every plea and conviction he was the defense attorney on going back years).

This guy likely wasn't facing anything close to as severe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The undisputed fact here is that he attempted to add a patient on Instagram. That simply alone was enough to get him in trouble. He absolutely knew better than that.

Blaming everyone else is ridiculous.

He clearly got her name off her medical chart to search for her on ig right after she left, which is a huge breach - hello HIPAA and lawsuits. She obvi didn't give this ugly ass creep her ig handle.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

Yep, I was once present for an immediate suspension hearing (lawyer was noticeably drunk in court). It was sad, the guy obviously had problems and the judge referred him to counseling and to an addiction treatment program, but yeah, he completely lost his career (he was later disbarred permanently, they had to vacate every plea and conviction he was the defense attorney on going back years).

This guy likely wasn't facing anything close to as severe.

Agree to disagree. Especially if there was more "fire" to go along with all of this smoke and if he was already deceptive about the play-by-play: He was about to be expelled. And he knew it. He may have had hundreds of thousands in undergrad and medical school student debt and no way to pay it off. Plus the shame from his status-obsessed tiger parents.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The undisputed fact here is that he attempted to add a patient on Instagram. That simply alone was enough to get him in trouble. He absolutely knew better than that.

Blaming everyone else is ridiculous.

Is it explicitly against the rules or not?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

So a nurse in Hickville texas goes to the doctor or hospital or fee care clinic for STD help twice,

Sees this dude who’s a 3rd year resident,

They talk, ask q, she brings up her jealous boyfriend and instagram,

He says he’ll take a look or just does later, “follows her page, then deletes it,

She asks for another doctor for her STD treatment next time or she files a big complaint too? Says she didn’t like his questions or Instagram following?

He gets dragged through the muck by his residency program, put on pause, has a hearing coming up, isn’t feeling well and seeks help/ cannot find it, gets some “tips” late at night from the program the day before hearing, goes out and gets a gun, etc.

Guess you're just overlooking the fact that he wanted to inspect her vagina after his creepy questions? Then lurked in the room when she asked for a female NP? Then characterized the patient's body language as "nervous" when she was obviously deeply creeped out by him? Then he ripped her name off her medical chart to cyberstalk her 30 minutes after seeing her vagina? No big deal...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The undisputed fact here is that he attempted to add a patient on Instagram. That simply alone was enough to get him in trouble. He absolutely knew better than that.

Blaming everyone else is ridiculous.

Is it explicitly against the rules or not?

Yes. It tends to be frowned upon for male OB-GYNs to cyberstalk patients using their medical charts 30 minutes after they gawked at their vagina.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

So a nurse in Hickville texas goes to the doctor or hospital or fee care clinic for STD help twice,

Sees this dude who’s a 3rd year resident,

They talk, ask q, she brings up her jealous boyfriend and instagram,

He says he’ll take a look or just does later, “follows her page, then deletes it,

She asks for another doctor for her STD treatment next time or she files a big complaint too? Says she didn’t like his questions or Instagram following?

He gets dragged through the muck by his residency program, put on pause, has a hearing coming up, isn’t feeling well and seeks help/ cannot find it, gets some “tips” late at night from the program the day before hearing, goes out and gets a gun, etc.

Guess you're just overlooking the fact that he wanted to inspect her vagina after his creepy questions? Then lurked in the room when she asked for a female NP? Then characterized the patient's body language as "nervous" when she was obviously deeply creeped out by him? Then he ripped her name off her medical chart to cyberstalk her 30 minutes after seeing her vagina? No big deal...

Why are you creating your own narrative? She said she was ok with him being in the room. That's not lurking creepily.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The undisputed fact here is that he attempted to add a patient on Instagram. That simply alone was enough to get him in trouble. He absolutely knew better than that.

Blaming everyone else is ridiculous.

I mean who hasn't give their instagram handle to autistic porn addicted foreign med students on the OB-GYN rotation. We've all been there!

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

All of that was done before the hearing and investigation. He didn't have a chance to tell his side.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m impressed a young 20 something knows what or when to report something. Interesting.

Sounds like someone should see her since she's a nurse can complain about her treatment. Payback.

You're part of the problem.

Lol. If I'm the patient I deserve to be comfortable at all costs. If careers are destroyed, oopses! My bad.

"A woman voiced discomfort and provided documentation of inappropriate behavior! We should destroy.her!"

And we wonder why only a fraction of sexual assaults are reported.

There is only one dead person here. And it's not the complainer.

He killed himself. No one handed him a gun.

The school might as well have.

Nope. We aren’t going to shield people from consequences just in case they might be suicidal. They have to face the music.

There is a right way and a wrong way to do things. Nobody is saying he didn't have to face the music so keep making things up.

He was suspended, counseled on professionalism, referred to mental health services, given documentation, and had not yet had his hearing. What exactly did the school do wrong here?

All of that was done before the hearing and investigation. He didn't have a chance to tell his side.

He had a meeting with the dean and the hearing. Those were both chances to tell his side.