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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

I know several ladies who date in their 60s: find companions of similar age, go to concerts together as couples. While it’s harder to date as you age, a lot of men would date someone of same generation. Stating it’s just not happening is not supported by stats

Shhh all the 60 yr old men are dating 35 year olds!

As a 49 yr old woman I think 60 is likely too old for me. Most men take horrible physical/medical care of themselves and I have zero interest in being a nurse.

Haha, 100% with you . I turned down many early to mid 50s men when I dated and I’m 48. Terrible shape, lazy lifestyle , cheap commenting on me being spoilt just because I used a cleaning lady for my 2500 sq ft house. F…k it ! I would rather be alone.
I don’t know which 30s women are dating them now but I wasn’t interested a bit. Toys are better

Would you date a 48 years old man who is in great shape and has gold attitude? Or are you strictly about dating younger men?

Yes and I went on dates with some but I felt a misogynistic attitude. A 48 yo guy sent me a message stating “we are on different stages of life”. Not sure what the heck he meant : I have a grown up child, he had none and didn’t want kids, so to me we were at the same stage of life which is freedom to enjoy it. So I cut him loose-he can keep looking for attractive 30s women who want be DINKS.
Currently I’m dating two late 50s very fit and well off men.

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Anonymous wrote:My very attractive/great figured sister (now 62) divorced in her 40's, dated and had a couple of long term boyfriends in her 50's and is single now. The LT boyfriends broke up with her after a couple of years- I really think it was because she was starting to age and they didn't want to commit to someone they'd grow older with.... She's happy enough being single but I know she was terribly disappointed several times and didn't predict being single in the end.

Most men grow older with their wives. Most men don't dump their wives as they get older. You're kind of jumping to conclusions with your sister's two boyfriends, there are any number of reasons why they may have broken up.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

I don’t think they do. I think people really underestimate the weird energy men give off starting when you are really young and going through your 20s and 30s. Frankly, it’s a relief to be done with that.

I’m 49 still fit and attractive, but I understand that my 20s and 30s are over and I’m fine with that. I don’t miss that weird energy at all - not from all men of course, but for more than you think, honestly, people just treat me better now. Maybe some people would call it invisibility, but I just feel a lot more respected, whether it’s in my career, or just going about my day.

I have a teenage daughter, and she is beautiful. I have seen how it makes some men frankly just angry. I’m not gonna sit here and analyze what it is, maybe they are angry at the feelings that she brings out of them and knowing they can’t have her because they’re too old and it’s gross, I don’t know, but it’s there.

I totally agree with that. It’s such a relief not to be exposed to this awful energy that young attractive women get.

Also, the creeps that stare at my beautiful teenage daughter… she doesn’t notice yet but it’s not ok. Next time I’ll say something when a 40 or 50 year old stare at my daughter.

I work in the TV talent casting industry, and everyday, there are buses loaded with young & beautiful women coming to LA looking to be the next star. It is like a meat market for 50 years old guys in the movie business. Many of these women want to sleep with these guys.

Now you can make a parallel with OLD in urban areas with bad stats for women. It’s like a meat market - buses of women arriving every day for a regular Joe 50s dude with big belly. He becomes critical jerk about anyone older than 40, thinking oh everyone wants me now !
I do believe a lot of mid-late 30s women who can’t couple with younger men would settle mentally to tolerate an older 50yo body at least to have babies and financial stability.

LOL, buses of 20 year old women aren’t arriving for middle aged middle class men with dad-bods You need to put down that joint you are smoking. 20-something women have the widest dating pool because men of ALL age groups are after them. They know this and take advantage to get a meal ticket or a career boost, essentially taking advantage of delusional middle aged men. To start a family or a serious relationship younger women will always prefer men their age group and find older men hitting on them everywhere super creepy.

Also, sperm quality declines with age. Ask sperm clinics what their age cutover is. A woman in mid 30s with declining fertility would be making a mistake seeking a much older husband, unless he has a lot of money for IVF/surrogacy or she doesn’t want kids at all.

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Anonymous wrote:I think some people would say it's an AH move to stay with a woman if you're not attracted enough to finish half the time. Would you think it was an AH move if the two people were both 35 years old? What if it was the woman who often didn't finish because she prefers men who are tall, dark and handsome over men who are average height, pale, and forgettable looking?

Exactly. These same men had no issues finishing when they were 25 and women were 25. When they were 38&38. Out of a sudden, at 50 they consider themselves all around desirable and attractive and it’s all women’s fault that they can’t finish.

As a woman, I don’t understand how the dude above even ends up in bed with women he doesn’t think are sexy. I mean, it’s so easy to see and feel the mutual passion before f..ing someone !

I can’t even force myself to have sex in the first place if a man has a belly, looks too old, has hygiene issues (breathe stinks or oily hair), etc.

25 year old men generally don’t have problem finishing or starting regardless of the age of a woman

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

I don’t think they do. I think people really underestimate the weird energy men give off starting when you are really young and going through your 20s and 30s. Frankly, it’s a relief to be done with that.

I’m 49 still fit and attractive, but I understand that my 20s and 30s are over and I’m fine with that. I don’t miss that weird energy at all - not from all men of course, but for more than you think, honestly, people just treat me better now. Maybe some people would call it invisibility, but I just feel a lot more respected, whether it’s in my career, or just going about my day.

I have a teenage daughter, and she is beautiful. I have seen how it makes some men frankly just angry. I’m not gonna sit here and analyze what it is, maybe they are angry at the feelings that she brings out of them and knowing they can’t have her because they’re too old and it’s gross, I don’t know, but it’s there.

I totally agree with that. It’s such a relief not to be exposed to this awful energy that young attractive women get.

Also, the creeps that stare at my beautiful teenage daughter… she doesn’t notice yet but it’s not ok. Next time I’ll say something when a 40 or 50 year old stare at my daughter.

I work in the TV talent casting industry, and everyday, there are buses loaded with young & beautiful women coming to LA looking to be the next star. It is like a meat market for 50 years old guys in the movie business. Many of these women want to sleep with these guys.

Now you can make a parallel with OLD in urban areas with bad stats for women. It’s like a meat market - buses of women arriving every day for a regular Joe 50s dude with big belly. He becomes critical jerk about anyone older than 40, thinking oh everyone wants me now !
I do believe a lot of mid-late 30s women who can’t couple with younger men would settle mentally to tolerate an older 50yo body at least to have babies and financial stability.

LOL, buses of 20 year old women aren’t arriving for middle aged middle class men with dad-bods :lol: :lol: You need to put down that joint you are smoking. 20-something women have the widest dating pool because men of ALL age groups are after them. They know this and take advantage to get a meal ticket or a career boost, essentially taking advantage of delusional middle aged men. To start a family or a serious relationship younger women will always prefer men their age group and find older men hitting on them everywhere super creepy.

Also, sperm quality declines with age. Ask sperm clinics what their age cutover is. A woman in mid 30s with declining fertility would be making a mistake seeking a much older husband, unless he has a lot of money for IVF/surrogacy or she doesn’t want kids at all.

Haha agree with all above. It’s just men are so full of themselves that once they feel a slight advantage in numbers, they become obnoxious and rude to women who are their age peers

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

I think you are confused about the definition of the word “single” . It doesn’t mean “never married”. Most women in their 50s are divorced or widows and many have older kids. They aren’t interested in starting another family and they can’t. They are looking for different things depending on a woman. Some want long term companionship, others want a friend with benefits and a travel companion, others want a meal ticket and a retirement plan if broke, and some simply want sex with no strings attached, etc. Whatever they may want they don’t want to be invisible if trying to meet someone. They are going to try to look attractive, dress less frumpy, act a certain way. It’s almost certain that whatever they do to try to attract will be critiqued with the obligatory statement about their overall worthlessness because their ovaries have expired and their skin isn’t having that tightness of youth. They will be reminded how men age like fine wine and always have hordes of young women after them as long as they aren’t fugly and/or poor and how it’s so unnatural and bizarre for men of any age to even look at women past their reproductive ability.

At the same time they will keep driving the delusions that women of all ages are attracted to middle aged and older men who are still capable of satisfying them in every way (including partying and adventure travel younger women tend to like) and giving them healthy fit children without $$$$ and tedious reproductive technologies.

Every single convo about peri-menopausal and post menopausal women devolve into this trend of making women feel like their only worth in life is their ovaries and tight skin and they have no place in society unless they managed to stay married to one men their entire life (and he never dies before his wife or initiates a divorce) and become permanent housework slaves and/or paychecks and have no worth beyond this.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

I think you are confused about the definition of the word “single” . It doesn’t mean “never married”. Most women in their 50s are divorced or widows and many have older kids. They aren’t interested in starting another family and they can’t. They are looking for different things depending on a woman. Some want long term companionship, others want a friend with benefits and a travel companion, others want a meal ticket and a retirement plan if broke, and some simply want sex with no strings attached, etc. Whatever they may want they don’t want to be invisible if trying to meet someone. They are going to try to look attractive, dress less frumpy, act a certain way. It’s almost certain that whatever they do to try to attract will be critiqued with the obligatory statement about their overall worthlessness because their ovaries have expired and their skin isn’t having that tightness of youth. They will be reminded how men age like fine wine and always have hordes of young women after them as long as they aren’t fugly and/or poor and how it’s so unnatural and bizarre for men of any age to even look at women past their reproductive ability.

At the same time they will keep driving the delusions that women of all ages are attracted to middle aged and older men who are still capable of satisfying them in every way (including partying and adventure travel younger women tend to like) and giving them healthy fit children without $$$$ and tedious reproductive technologies.

Every single convo about peri-menopausal and post menopausal women devolve into this trend of making women feel like their only worth in life is their ovaries and tight skin and they have no place in society unless they managed to stay married to one men their entire life (and he never dies before his wife or initiates a divorce) and become permanent housework slaves and/or paychecks and have no worth beyond this.

I am a 50 years old man who has aged like fine women thanks to good genetics, diet, and exercise. However it's a myth that men age like fine wine. The only reason a lot of us notice women as they age is because how much we have been accustomed from a young age to women always being beautiful and looking pretty. If we want to change this perception as a society then I think women should just stop putting too much effort into looking pretty and beautiful.

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Where are all these men who age like fine wine and are amazing at age 50 and up? Because I certainly haven't seen them. The only one is maybe Brad Pitt and he was gorgeous when he was young. Regular 50 year old men are usually quite unattractive.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

I think you are confused about the definition of the word “single” . It doesn’t mean “never married”. Most women in their 50s are divorced or widows and many have older kids. They aren’t interested in starting another family and they can’t. They are looking for different things depending on a woman. Some want long term companionship, others want a friend with benefits and a travel companion, others want a meal ticket and a retirement plan if broke, and some simply want sex with no strings attached, etc. Whatever they may want they don’t want to be invisible if trying to meet someone. They are going to try to look attractive, dress less frumpy, act a certain way. It’s almost certain that whatever they do to try to attract will be critiqued with the obligatory statement about their overall worthlessness because their ovaries have expired and their skin isn’t having that tightness of youth. They will be reminded how men age like fine wine and always have hordes of young women after them as long as they aren’t fugly and/or poor and how it’s so unnatural and bizarre for men of any age to even look at women past their reproductive ability.

At the same time they will keep driving the delusions that women of all ages are attracted to middle aged and older men who are still capable of satisfying them in every way (including partying and adventure travel younger women tend to like) and giving them healthy fit children without $$$$ and tedious reproductive technologies.

Every single convo about peri-menopausal and post menopausal women devolve into this trend of making women feel like their only worth in life is their ovaries and tight skin and they have no place in society unless they managed to stay married to one men their entire life (and he never dies before his wife or initiates a divorce) and become permanent housework slaves and/or paychecks and have no worth beyond this.

I am a 50 years old man who has aged like fine women thanks to good genetics, diet, and exercise. However it's a myth that men age like fine wine. The only reason a lot of us notice women as they age is because how much we have been accustomed from a young age to women always being beautiful and looking pretty. If we want to change this perception as a society then I think women should just stop putting too much effort into looking pretty and beautiful.

We’re not looking pretty and beautiful for you, my friend 😀

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Fwiw, my mom and aunt, both divorced, found the closest thing to soulmates in their 50s. And my aunt was late 50s. Both men were also divorced with grown kids and they're each the happiest I've ever seen them. They both kissed a lot of frogs getting there.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

I know several ladies who date in their 60s: find companions of similar age, go to concerts together as couples. While it’s harder to date as you age, a lot of men would date someone of same generation. Stating it’s just not happening is not supported by stats

Shhh all the 60 yr old men are dating 35 year olds!

As a 49 yr old woman I think 60 is likely too old for me. Most men take horrible physical/medical care of themselves and I have zero interest in being a nurse.

Haha, 100% with you . I turned down many early to mid 50s men when I dated and I’m 48. Terrible shape, lazy lifestyle , cheap commenting on me being spoilt just because I used a cleaning lady for my 2500 sq ft house. F…k it ! I would rather be alone.
I don’t know which 30s women are dating them now but I wasn’t interested a bit. Toys are better

Would you date a 48 years old man who is in great shape and has gold attitude? Or are you strictly about dating younger men?

Yes and I went on dates with some but I felt a misogynistic attitude. A 48 yo guy sent me a message stating “we are on different stages of life”. Not sure what the heck he meant : I have a grown up child, he had none and didn’t want kids, so to me we were at the same stage of life which is freedom to enjoy it. So I cut him loose-he can keep looking for attractive 30s women who want be DINKS.
Currently I’m dating two late 50s very fit and well off men.

There is a direct correlation between how long a woman remains single, her age, and the frequency with which she blames it all on misogyny.

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Anonymous wrote:My newly divorced friend showed me her options on the dating apps. These older men she is matching with are not physically attractive or the ones who are don’t seem interested or obviously only want sex. I guess all the good ones are taken or prefer a younger woman.

My friend was beautiful in her twenties and thirties. She now looks like an average middle aged woman. She looks great for her age but she is still in her fifties.

Your friend is not in her twenties anymore though. Assuming she is still beautiful her best bet is an attractive upper class man age 60-70.

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Anonymous wrote:My newly divorced friend showed me her options on the dating apps. These older men she is matching with are not physically attractive or the ones who are don’t seem interested or obviously only want sex. I guess all the good ones are taken or prefer a younger woman.

My friend was beautiful in her twenties and thirties. She now looks like an average middle aged woman. She looks great for her age but she is still in her fifties.

Your friend is not in her twenties anymore though. Assuming she is still beautiful her best bet is an attractive upper class man age 60-70.

These posts are delusional. I'm not sure who's making them. Angry and lonely 70 year old men? I have a bunch of female friends and family members who have met roughly same age partners in their 50s and 60s, this is actually common.

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Anonymous wrote:My newly divorced friend showed me her options on the dating apps. These older men she is matching with are not physically attractive or the ones who are don’t seem interested or obviously only want sex. I guess all the good ones are taken or prefer a younger woman.

My friend was beautiful in her twenties and thirties. She now looks like an average middle aged woman. She looks great for her age but she is still in her fifties.

Your friend is not in her twenties anymore though. Assuming she is still beautiful her best bet is an attractive upper class man age 60-70.

I made this post and I an a 50 year old married woman. I made it based on seeing tons of 60-ish guys on dates with women who are younger than they are. If my husband divorced me or died I would date older men because most men like women younger than they are.

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Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.