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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.[/quote]

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc).  It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right.  Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.[/quote]

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it  matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.[/quote]

Stupid question.  It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single?  It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist.   Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh[/quote]

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar [/quote]

I think you are confused about the definition of the word “single” .  It doesn’t mean “never married”.    Most women in their 50s are divorced or widows and many have older kids.  They aren’t interested in starting another family and they can’t.  They are looking for different things depending on a woman.  Some want long term companionship, others want a friend with benefits and a travel companion, others want a meal ticket and a retirement plan if broke, and some simply want sex with no strings attached, etc.  Whatever they may want they don’t want to be invisible if trying to meet someone.  They are going to try to look attractive, dress less frumpy, act a certain way.  It’s almost certain that whatever they do to try to attract will be critiqued with the obligatory statement about their overall worthlessness because their ovaries have expired and their skin isn’t having that tightness of youth.  They will be reminded how men age like fine wine and always have hordes of young women after them as long as they aren’t fugly and/or poor and how it’s so unnatural and bizarre for men of any age to even look at women past their reproductive ability.

At the same time they will keep driving the delusions that women of all ages are attracted to middle aged and older men who are still capable of satisfying them in every way (including partying and adventure travel younger women tend to like) and giving them healthy fit children without $$$$ and tedious reproductive technologies.

Every single convo about peri-menopausal and post menopausal women devolve into this trend of making women feel like their only worth in life is their ovaries and tight skin and they have no place in society unless they managed to stay married to one men their entire life (and he never dies before his wife or initiates a divorce) and become permanent housework slaves and/or paychecks and have no worth beyond this. [/quote]

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