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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.[/quote]

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc).  It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right.  Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.[/quote]

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it  matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.[/quote]

I don’t think they do. I think people really underestimate the weird energy men give off starting when you are really young and going through your 20s and 30s. Frankly, it’s a relief to be done with that.

I’m 49 still fit and attractive, but I understand that my 20s and 30s are over and I’m fine with that. I don’t miss that weird energy at all - not from all men of course, but for more than you think, honestly, people just treat me better now. Maybe some people would call it invisibility, but I just feel a lot more respected, whether it’s in my career, or just going about my day.

[b]I have a teenage daughter, and she is beautiful.[/b] I have seen how it makes some men frankly just angry. I’m not gonna sit here and analyze what it is, maybe they are angry at the feelings that she brings out of them and knowing they can’t have her because they’re too old and it’s gross, I don’t know, but it’s there.[/quote]

I totally agree with that. It’s such a relief not to be exposed to this awful energy that young attractive women get.

Also, the creeps that stare at my beautiful teenage daughter… she doesn’t notice yet but it’s not ok. Next time I’ll say something when a 40 or 50 year old stare at my daughter.[/quote]

I work in the TV talent casting industry, and everyday, there are buses loaded with young & beautiful women coming to LA looking to be the next star.  It is like a meat market for 50 years old guys in the movie business.  Many of these women want to sleep with these guys.[/quote]

Now you can make a parallel with OLD in urban areas with bad stats for women. It’s like a meat market - buses of women arriving every day for a regular Joe 50s dude with big belly. He becomes  critical jerk about anyone older than 40, thinking oh everyone wants me now ! 
I do believe a lot of mid-late 30s women who can’t couple with younger men would settle mentally to tolerate an older 50yo body at least to have babies and financial stability.

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LOL, buses of 20 year old women aren’t arriving for middle aged middle class men with dad-bods  :lol:  :lol:  You need to put down that joint you are smoking.  20-something women have the widest dating pool because men of ALL age groups are after them.  They know this and take advantage to get a meal ticket or a career boost, essentially taking advantage of delusional middle aged men. To start a family or a serious relationship younger women will always prefer men their age group and find older men hitting on them everywhere super creepy.

Also, sperm quality declines with age.  Ask sperm clinics what their age cutover is.  A woman in mid 30s with declining fertility would be making a mistake seeking a much older husband, unless he has a lot of money for IVF/surrogacy or she doesn’t want kids at all.  [/quote]

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