Slim picking dating in your fifties

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Anonymous wrote:My newly divorced friend showed me her options on the dating apps. These older men she is matching with are not physically attractive or the ones who are don’t seem interested or obviously only want sex. I guess all the good ones are taken or prefer a younger woman.

My friend was beautiful in her twenties and thirties. She now looks like an average middle aged woman. She looks great for her age but she is still in her fifties.

Your friend is not in her twenties anymore though. Assuming she is still beautiful her best bet is an attractive upper class man age 60-70.

I made this post and I an a 50 year old married woman. I made it based on seeing tons of 60-ish guys on dates with women who are younger than they are. If my husband divorced me or died I would date older men because most men like women younger than they are.

Yes, the only value that you offer in a relationship is relative youth. And no man could ever want you based on anything other than that. Enjoy dating 70-year-olds! Remind your daughters that all they offer is youth and nothing else counts.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My newly divorced friend showed me her options on the dating apps. These older men she is matching with are not physically attractive or the ones who are don’t seem interested or obviously only want sex. I guess all the good ones are taken or prefer a younger woman.

My friend was beautiful in her twenties and thirties. She now looks like an average middle aged woman. She looks great for her age but she is still in her fifties.

Your friend is not in her twenties anymore though. Assuming she is still beautiful her best bet is an attractive upper class man age 60-70.

I made this post and I an a 50 year old married woman. I made it based on seeing tons of 60-ish guys on dates with women who are younger than they are. If my husband divorced me or died I would date older men because most men like women younger than they are.

Women have so much self hatred. I think this post is an example of that. Just thinking that you automatically need to date older men.

My mom met her second husband at 60 and he was just a couple years older, and it was the happiest relationship of her life.

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Do 50 year old women still even have sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do 50 year old women still even have sex?

I do

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Anonymous wrote:Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.

You are just envious towards fit 50s women who can still wear tight dresses and you can’t.
What’s your weight ? If you are not attractive don’t compare yourself to those who have this natural gifts and healthy lifestyle. Men I date tell me I’m beautiful at 48 and have one of the most proportional bodies they ever slept with

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Anonymous wrote:Do 50 year old women still even have sex?

WTAF. We do, and we typically know what we want / what pleases us way more than we did when we were 25, which makes us more fun if you know what you are doing or are willing to be guided. We tend to have little patience for partners who are not interested in mutual satisfaction.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.

You are just envious towards fit 50s women who can still wear tight dresses and you can’t.
What’s your weight ? If you are not attractive don’t compare yourself to those who have this natural gifts and healthy lifestyle. Men I date tell me I’m beautiful at 48 and have one of the most proportional bodies they ever slept with

DP - I was never considered beautiful either, so completely agree with the PP's mindset. 50 is just 50 for me. I didn't have looks to lose. I don't really stress about natural aging and I don't compare myself to beautiful women, because that would be really depressing. It's not about envy – it's about observing a subset of people who seem genuinely panicked by the impact of aging.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.

You are just envious towards fit 50s women who can still wear tight dresses and you can’t.
What’s your weight ? If you are not attractive don’t compare yourself to those who have this natural gifts and healthy lifestyle. Men I date tell me I’m beautiful at 48 and have one of the most proportional bodies they ever slept with

Yeah, I'm "just jellus." Wtf. I don't care what clothes you wear or what men tell you. I only care about one man and that's the one I am married to.

My point is that women who are 50 clinging to when they were 25 are sad. I see these women with their botox and filler faces deluding themselves about their age. If you are 50, you are 50. It does not matter how you were 25 years ago unless you can get a time machine and travel back. You should try to look the best you can bur don't pretend you are still 25 or 30.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My newly divorced friend showed me her options on the dating apps. These older men she is matching with are not physically attractive or the ones who are don’t seem interested or obviously only want sex. I guess all the good ones are taken or prefer a younger woman.

My friend was beautiful in her twenties and thirties. She now looks like an average middle aged woman. She looks great for her age but she is still in her fifties.

Your friend is not in her twenties anymore though. Assuming she is still beautiful her best bet is an attractive upper class man age 60-70.

I made this post and I an a 50 year old married woman. I made it based on seeing tons of 60-ish guys on dates with women who are younger than they are. If my husband divorced me or died I would date older men because most men like women younger than they are.

Women have so much self hatred. I think this post is an example of that. Just thinking that you automatically need to date older men.

My mom met her second husband at 60 and he was just a couple years older, and it was the happiest relationship of her life.

I don't hate myself. I am going by the pattern I have seen throughout my life of men with women who are younger than them, particularly the second marriage. I am the same age as my husband so I know that some people marry at similar ages. However if you look at online dating or go speed dating you will see that there are a lot of men looking for women who are 8-10 years younger than them. I have personally witnessed it at tons of social events and in online dating.

But saying what I see makes me a self hater apparently Lol.

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Anonymous wrote:Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.

You are just envious towards fit 50s women who can still wear tight dresses and you can’t.
What’s your weight ? If you are not attractive don’t compare yourself to those who have this natural gifts and healthy lifestyle. Men I date tell me I’m beautiful at 48 and have one of the most proportional bodies they ever slept with

Yeah, I'm "just jellus." Wtf. I don't care what clothes you wear or what men tell you. I only care about one man and that's the one I am married to.

My point is that women who are 50 clinging to when they were 25 are sad. I see these women with their botox and filler faces deluding themselves about their age. If you are 50, you are 50. It does not matter how you were 25 years ago unless you can get a time machine and travel back. You should try to look the best you can bur don't pretend you are still 25 or 30.

You are married and your friend may be not as beautiful as you think thus she has ugly matches

And that’s how YOU feel: plain and not desirable. Other women who are successfully dating may feel differently but you came here to bash them. Why is it even bothering you, so happily married ??

Trust me it’s still different for attractive 50s women (truly beautiful women she well) vs plane, average and overweight ladies. In fact, top 20% of fit women in all age groups attract 80% men and vice versa. Men only have a few percentage statistical advantage in dating in middle age and not in all states. Lots of women in 50s don’t even date so 50s men have no choice but trying to tap into younger ones.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.

You are just envious towards fit 50s women who can still wear tight dresses and you can’t.
What’s your weight ? If you are not attractive don’t compare yourself to those who have this natural gifts and healthy lifestyle. Men I date tell me I’m beautiful at 48 and have one of the most proportional bodies they ever slept with

DP - I was never considered beautiful either, so completely agree with the PP's mindset. 50 is just 50 for me. I didn't have looks to lose. I don't really stress about natural aging and I don't compare myself to beautiful women, because that would be really depressing. It's not about envy – it's about observing a subset of people who seem genuinely panicked by the impact of aging.

Beautiful women are not panicked I don’t know anyone who is. My friends are busy with career, kids, go ball dancing, wear mini skirts and yes some Botox. It can be done naturally so you won’t notice. Nobody pretends to be 25 but they want to look the best for their age, and it’s attainable

You are very judgmental and likely unhappy person. I see many women like you at work, fat, grumpy married married ladies who are chatting about my way of dressing behind my back. While all these younger men are actively hitting on me, asking to give me a ride home after work.

I think it’s a fear of your husband walking out on you that drives such feelings. You perceive younger women as danger and judge older women who might look better than you.

Mind your own business

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.

You are just envious towards fit 50s women who can still wear tight dresses and you can’t.
What’s your weight ? If you are not attractive don’t compare yourself to those who have this natural gifts and healthy lifestyle. Men I date tell me I’m beautiful at 48 and have one of the most proportional bodies they ever slept with

Yeah, I'm "just jellus." Wtf. I don't care what clothes you wear or what men tell you. I only care about one man and that's the one I am married to.

My point is that women who are 50 clinging to when they were 25 are sad. I see these women with their botox and filler faces deluding themselves about their age. If you are 50, you are 50. It does not matter how you were 25 years ago unless you can get a time machine and travel back. You should try to look the best you can bur don't pretend you are still 25 or 30.

You are married and your friend may be not as beautiful as you think thus she has ugly matches

And that’s how YOU feel: plain and not desirable. Other women who are successfully dating may feel differently but you came here to bash them. Why is it even bothering you, so happily married ??

Trust me it’s still different for attractive 50s women (truly beautiful women she well) vs plane, average and overweight ladies. In fact, top 20% of fit women in all age groups attract 80% men and vice versa. Men only have a few percentage statistical advantage in dating in middle age and not in all states. Lots of women in 50s don’t even date so 50s men have no choice but trying to tap into younger ones.

I am not bashing women for being 50 and dating. All I am saying is how beautiful someone was in their twenties has nothing to do with it once they are 50. Yes people can get dates. But they are no longer 25 and must accept that.

I'll take your word that men are lining up to date hot 50 year old women. I know a few women around 50 who are divorced. Although attractive they are workaholics and do not date very much.

A certain segment of men will always want younger women. Usually the richer and more successful guys who take good care of themselves can get women younger than them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.

You are just envious towards fit 50s women who can still wear tight dresses and you can’t.
What’s your weight ? If you are not attractive don’t compare yourself to those who have this natural gifts and healthy lifestyle. Men I date tell me I’m beautiful at 48 and have one of the most proportional bodies they ever slept with

Yeah, I'm "just jellus." Wtf. I don't care what clothes you wear or what men tell you. I only care about one man and that's the one I am married to.

My point is that women who are 50 clinging to when they were 25 are sad. I see these women with their botox and filler faces deluding themselves about their age. If you are 50, you are 50. It does not matter how you were 25 years ago unless you can get a time machine and travel back. You should try to look the best you can bur don't pretend you are still 25 or 30.

You are married and your friend may be not as beautiful as you think thus she has ugly matches

And that’s how YOU feel: plain and not desirable. Other women who are successfully dating may feel differently but you came here to bash them. Why is it even bothering you, so happily married ??

Trust me it’s still different for attractive 50s women (truly beautiful women she well) vs plane, average and overweight ladies. In fact, top 20% of fit women in all age groups attract 80% men and vice versa. Men only have a few percentage statistical advantage in dating in middle age and not in all states. Lots of women in 50s don’t even date so 50s men have no choice but trying to tap into younger ones.

I am not bashing women for being 50 and dating. All I am saying is how beautiful someone was in their twenties has nothing to do with it once they are 50. Yes people can get dates. But they are no longer 25 and must accept that.

I'll take your word that men are lining up to date hot 50 year old women. I know a few women around 50 who are divorced. Although attractive they are workaholics and do not date very much.

A certain segment of men will always want younger women. Usually the richer and more successful guys who take good care of themselves can get women younger than them.

You are stating obvious facts: nobody thinks they look 25 at 50. Yes, rich men can buy a younger body. These marriages have very high divorce rates. Your statement that women in their 50s don’t date very much is simply untrue and not supported by statistics. In fact, an higher percentage of 55+ women would remarry over 40+:


Chat GpT states that:

“Approximately 63% of divorced women who are in their 50s will remarry. This figure is slightly higher than the 57% remarriage rate for those in their 30s and 40s, and slightly lower than the 67% for those in their 55 to 64 age group.

So attractive women in their 50s are still dating and according to stats majority will remarry after 55.

Good luck with your husband !

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.

You are just envious towards fit 50s women who can still wear tight dresses and you can’t.
What’s your weight ? If you are not attractive don’t compare yourself to those who have this natural gifts and healthy lifestyle. Men I date tell me I’m beautiful at 48 and have one of the most proportional bodies they ever slept with

DP - I was never considered beautiful either, so completely agree with the PP's mindset. 50 is just 50 for me. I didn't have looks to lose. I don't really stress about natural aging and I don't compare myself to beautiful women, because that would be really depressing. It's not about envy – it's about observing a subset of people who seem genuinely panicked by the impact of aging.

Beautiful women are not panicked I don’t know anyone who is. My friends are busy with career, kids, go ball dancing, wear mini skirts and yes some Botox. It can be done naturally so you won’t notice. Nobody pretends to be 25 but they want to look the best for their age, and it’s attainable

You are very judgmental and likely unhappy person. I see many women like you at work, fat, grumpy married married ladies who are chatting about my way of dressing behind my back. While all these younger men are actively hitting on me, asking to give me a ride home after work.

I think it’s a fear of your husband walking out on you that drives such feelings. You perceive younger women as danger and judge older women who might look better than you.

Mind your own business

I don't know what a "fat, grumpy, married, married lady" looks like, but I'm none of those things. I'm glad you and all of your friends are beautiful and enjoy "ball dancing." That means you're not in the SUBSET of women I was discussing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, I know a ton of women who are stuck on how they were attractive when they were younger and they somehow think that makes them different from other 50 year olds. I think aging is really rough for women who were considered beauties and some cannot deal. I have never been considered beautiful so 50 is 50. I am not chasing the idea of how hot I allegedly was 25 years ago.

You are just envious towards fit 50s women who can still wear tight dresses and you can’t.
What’s your weight ? If you are not attractive don’t compare yourself to those who have this natural gifts and healthy lifestyle. Men I date tell me I’m beautiful at 48 and have one of the most proportional bodies they ever slept with

DP - I was never considered beautiful either, so completely agree with the PP's mindset. 50 is just 50 for me. I didn't have looks to lose. I don't really stress about natural aging and I don't compare myself to beautiful women, because that would be really depressing. It's not about envy – it's about observing a subset of people who seem genuinely panicked by the impact of aging.

Beautiful women are not panicked I don’t know anyone who is. My friends are busy with career, kids, go ball dancing, wear mini skirts and yes some Botox. It can be done naturally so you won’t notice. Nobody pretends to be 25 but they want to look the best for their age, and it’s attainable

You are very judgmental and likely unhappy person. I see many women like you at work, fat, grumpy married married ladies who are chatting about my way of dressing behind my back. While all these younger men are actively hitting on me, asking to give me a ride home after work.

I think it’s a fear of your husband walking out on you that drives such feelings. You perceive younger women as danger and judge older women who might look better than you.

Mind your own business

I don't know what a "fat, grumpy, married, married lady" looks like, but I'm none of those things. I'm glad you and all of your friends are beautiful and enjoy "ball dancing." That means you're not in the SUBSET of women I was discussing.

No, you actually came here with a statement that majority of 50s women have slim pickings, only meet ugly men and are well past their prime chances to remarry. Now, after being presented with the real life facts that in fact they remarry more than 30-40s divorced groups, you flipped.

Anyways, your pointless post is a total BS