Slim picking dating in your fifties

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Anonymous wrote:Why do these men who eventually find younger wives still reach out to the older woman on the side. What’s not keeping them satisfied with the younger wife? Crazy stuff

Absolutely all husbands of my divorced friends cheated on them with women OLDER than the wife. It’s easier no strings attached sex, whereby the younger wife is exhausted with kids. So when married men don’t have access to money and date multiple younger women, they have no issues cumming with older women

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Anonymous wrote:I think some people would say it's an AH move to stay with a woman if you're not attracted enough to finish half the time. Would you think it was an AH move if the two people were both 35 years old? What if it was the woman who often didn't finish because she prefers men who are tall, dark and handsome over men who are average height, pale, and forgettable looking?

You realize that many women have to get themselves in the right headspace all the time? How do you keep going to bed with women you are not attracted to?

In my case, I sometimes have gone to bed with women in their 50s I'm not very attracted to because I thought they had other great qualities. I also was hoping I'd grow more attracted to them. That has happened a couple of times with FWB type women. It's not like I wasn't at all attracted.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

I don’t think they do. I think people really underestimate the weird energy men give off starting when you are really young and going through your 20s and 30s. Frankly, it’s a relief to be done with that.

I’m 49 still fit and attractive, but I understand that my 20s and 30s are over and I’m fine with that. I don’t miss that weird energy at all - not from all men of course, but for more than you think, honestly, people just treat me better now. Maybe some people would call it invisibility, but I just feel a lot more respected, whether it’s in my career, or just going about my day.

I have a teenage daughter, and she is beautiful. I have seen how it makes some men frankly just angry. I’m not gonna sit here and analyze what it is, maybe they are angry at the feelings that she brings out of them and knowing they can’t have her because they’re too old and it’s gross, I don’t know, but it’s there.

I totally agree with that. It’s such a relief not to be exposed to this awful energy that young attractive women get.

Also, the creeps that stare at my beautiful teenage daughter… she doesn’t notice yet but it’s not ok. Next time I’ll say something when a 40 or 50 year old stare at my daughter.

I work in the TV talent casting industry, and everyday, there are buses loaded with young & beautiful women coming to LA looking to be the next star. It is like a meat market for 50 years old guys in the movie business. Many of these women want to sleep with these guys.

Lol no they don’t want to. They want careers. Beyond delusional.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

I mean, the same goes for older men. Do you think women are salivating over the average 60 year old man? Lol.

Most men over 50 are invisible to girls and women, unless they have a lot of money. And it's pretty sad to think that someone is just with you because of your income.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

I mean, the same goes for older men. Do you think women are salivating over the average 60 year old man? Lol.

Most men over 50 are invisible to girls and women, unless they have a lot of money. And it's pretty sad to think that someone is just with you because of your income.

+1. I am a very attractive 53 years old man. In terms of physical fitness and look I can honestly say I am in the top.10% of men my age. You are absolutely correct, younger women and probably even women older than me are not salivating when they see me. And frankly I like it this way. I think men and women are different when it comes to seeking the attention of the opposite gender. While a 50 years old women may care that from time to time men find her beautiful like in her younger days, for men it's different. Even when I was younger and very muscular my physique was not reason some women chose to date me..Sure it may have helped but it was far from being the primary reason. For women unfortunately it's different. We men are very visual. We need to find you attractive first and then we work out the rest.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

I mean, the same goes for older men. Do you think women are salivating over the average 60 year old man? Lol.

Most men over 50 are invisible to girls and women, unless they have a lot of money. And it's pretty sad to think that someone is just with you because of your income.

+1. I am a very attractive 53 years old man. In terms of physical fitness and look I can honestly say I am in the top.10% of men my age. You are absolutely correct, younger women and probably even women older than me are not salivating when they see me. And frankly I like it this way. I think men and women are different when it comes to seeking the attention of the opposite gender. While a 50 years old women may care that from time to time men find her beautiful like in her younger days, for men it's different. Even when I was younger and very muscular my physique was not reason some women chose to date me..Sure it may have helped but it was far from being the primary reason. For women unfortunately it's different. We men are very visual. We need to find you attractive first and then we work out the rest.

It’s the same for us, bud.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

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My very attractive/great figured sister (now 62) divorced in her 40's, dated and had a couple of long term boyfriends in her 50's and is single now. The LT boyfriends broke up with her after a couple of years- I really think it was because she was starting to age and they didn't want to commit to someone they'd grow older with.... She's happy enough being single but I know she was terribly disappointed several times and didn't predict being single in the end.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

I know several ladies who date in their 60s: find companions of similar age, go to concerts together as couples. While it’s harder to date as you age, a lot of men would date someone of same generation. Stating it’s just not happening is not supported by stats

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

I mean, the same goes for older men. Do you think women are salivating over the average 60 year old man? Lol.

Most men over 50 are invisible to girls and women, unless they have a lot of money. And it's pretty sad to think that someone is just with you because of your income.

+1. I am a very attractive 53 years old man. In terms of physical fitness and look I can honestly say I am in the top.10% of men my age. You are absolutely correct, younger women and probably even women older than me are not salivating when they see me. And frankly I like it this way. I think men and women are different when it comes to seeking the attention of the opposite gender. While a 50 years old women may care that from time to time men find her beautiful like in her younger days, for men it's different. Even when I was younger and very muscular my physique was not reason some women chose to date me..Sure it may have helped but it was far from being the primary reason. For women unfortunately it's different. We men are very visual. We need to find you attractive first and then we work out the rest.

Lol OK.

The lengths men will go to to exert control over women …

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

I know several ladies who date in their 60s: find companions of similar age, go to concerts together as couples. While it’s harder to date as you age, a lot of men would date someone of same generation. Stating it’s just not happening is not supported by stats

Shhh all the 60 yr old men are dating 35 year olds!

As a 49 yr old woman I think 60 is likely too old for me. Most men take horrible physical/medical care of themselves and I have zero interest in being a nurse.

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

I know several ladies who date in their 60s: find companions of similar age, go to concerts together as couples. While it’s harder to date as you age, a lot of men would date someone of same generation. Stating it’s just not happening is not supported by stats

Shhh all the 60 yr old men are dating 35 year olds!

As a 49 yr old woman I think 60 is likely too old for me. Most men take horrible physical/medical care of themselves and I have zero interest in being a nurse.

Haha, 100% with you . I turned down many early to mid 50s men when I dated and I’m 48. Terrible shape, lazy lifestyle , cheap commenting on me being spoilt just because I used a cleaning lady for my 2500 sq ft house. F…k it ! I would rather be alone.
I don’t know which 30s women are dating them now but I wasn’t interested a bit. Toys are better

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc). It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right. Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.

Stupid question. It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single? It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist. Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar

I know several ladies who date in their 60s: find companions of similar age, go to concerts together as couples. While it’s harder to date as you age, a lot of men would date someone of same generation. Stating it’s just not happening is not supported by stats

Shhh all the 60 yr old men are dating 35 year olds!

As a 49 yr old woman I think 60 is likely too old for me. Most men take horrible physical/medical care of themselves and I have zero interest in being a nurse.

Haha, 100% with you . I turned down many early to mid 50s men when I dated and I’m 48. Terrible shape, lazy lifestyle , cheap commenting on me being spoilt just because I used a cleaning lady for my 2500 sq ft house. F…k it ! I would rather be alone.
I don’t know which 30s women are dating them now but I wasn’t interested a bit. Toys are better

Would you date a 48 years old man who is in great shape and has gold attitude? Or are you strictly about dating younger men?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.

I mean, the same goes for older men. Do you think women are salivating over the average 60 year old man? Lol.

Most men over 50 are invisible to girls and women, unless they have a lot of money. And it's pretty sad to think that someone is just with you because of your income.

+1. I am a very attractive 53 years old man. In terms of physical fitness and look I can honestly say I am in the top.10% of men my age. You are absolutely correct, younger women and probably even women older than me are not salivating when they see me. And frankly I like it this way. I think men and women are different when it comes to seeking the attention of the opposite gender. While a 50 years old women may care that from time to time men find her beautiful like in her younger days, for men it's different. Even when I was younger and very muscular my physique was not reason some women chose to date me..Sure it may have helped but it was far from being the primary reason. For women unfortunately it's different. We men are very visual. We need to find you attractive first and then we work out the rest.

Lol OK.

The lengths men will go to to exert control over women …

Lol...the length women will go to play victim as member of protected class lol