Women 35+ who have never been in a relationship
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Anonymous
| My godmother (now in her 90s) and her 2 sisters never married at a time when that was unheard of and none of them had kids. My godmother was a mystery writer and some of her published magazine pieces were picked up and turned into tv episodes in the early 1960s. She then went on to become an English professor. One of her sisters died young while the other worked on Wall Street. There is/was no obvious reason for this and they seem content to have not been married. |
Anonymous
This. And men generally need to feel needed so when it seems a woman is good on her own... kinda the kiss of death for many men |
Anonymous
+1. I know many married women think of marriage as the be all/end all, and that theyve succeeded massively because they have a partner, and all the single women are just lonely and jealous. From the single woman's perspective it looks like hell in 90% of marriages, most of which seem to be comprised of emotionally closed off/selfish men and enabling women that spend all their energy babysitting them. Is it any coincidence that many of the most successful women (Oprah, Laura Wasser, Angelina Jolie) seem to choose to be alone? |
Anonymous
Yes chicfila and Costco albeit Costco men are married there’s an offhand chance that a Costco man could be single. Get some hobbies that are unisex |
Anonymous
Well if you insist on staying in the house open your DMs on social media and post more photos (post food). Men are always in my DMs but I’m married |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
Men love socially awkward women. They want women to shut up half the time. Find yourself a man who talks a lot. |
Anonymous
Find a partner with small junk. Plenty of those should be available. |
Anonymous
Those are racist African American women who will only date black men. Black male population statistics aren’t in favor of these women finding suitable mates within their community and they need to come to terms with that or settle or date outside their race. |
Anonymous
Which is what type exactly? |
Anonymous
Serious question, Why did he do that to you? Are you autistic? Do you pick up on social cues? Is that part of the problem here? Also neither of those are kisses. |
Anonymous
My lord, for real. I also had a friend from college like this. But here is now a normal actual friend would assess: I think my friend just was put off by how simpering a lot of guys were. She really never was insecure like a lot of us were so wasn’t going to date someone for the sake of it. And that meant she actually got to know herself. Post graduation she got really into hardcore hiking plus adopted senior dogs and basically spends her days happily catering to them and giving them their best last few years. She’s a cool person. I’m quite impressed. |
Anonymous
Prior poster in the thread |
Anonymous
African American woman are in a tough position to be honest. While it is true that more and more women are graduating colleges compared to men, for African American woman it is worse. And let’s be honest women are very picky (for good reasons). You will not come accross many women who are college grads and will settle for a non college grad. So African American woman don’t have a big pool of fellow African American men college grads. So some choose to remain single. |
Anonymous
| I think men underestimate how difficult it is to date women. You not only have to be present emotionally 100% of the time (else you will be dumped or cheated on) but you will also continuously be asked to improve so this do that…. |