Would you allow your 16 year old daughter to wear one of those almost thong swimsuits?

[Anonymous]

no I would not let my kid wear it. watch the eyes of men. they will look. why do that to my kid.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Olympic divers now wear that suit, so I'm fine with it.

Pictures?

They had one pieces with ass hanging out. Not sure why the change

Yes and the men too it was amazing watching that grace. Maybe they get more freedom for the diving? But still it was not a buttfloss thong that the posters here are refering to.

[Anonymous]

The Jolyn suits aren’t uncommon I’ve found some girls who are probably 16+ sporting Jokynnsuits at the pool

[Anonymous]

I would allow it because a 16 year old needs some freedom. Plus it’s not a big deal. Don’t be a prude.

[Anonymous]

No, I would not. At 18, they can wear one if they want, but I will not pay for one until then. If it's important enough for them to let their butt hang out, they can work to earn the money for it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, I would not. At 18, they can wear one if they want, but I will not pay for one until then. If it's important enough for them to let their butt hang out, they can work to earn the money for it.

But if they work their butt off to pay for it, they won’t have a butt to hang out their suit.

[Anonymous]

Just support her for who she is, don’t judge a 16 yr old nieces bathing suit choice. No good is going to come of that and your brother in law knows and will handle how he feels is appropriate. You have a chance to instill your views on your daughter (s).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t allow it. I hear the 40+ year old dads talk about those girls at our pool.

Right, that sounds like a problem with the dads, not the girls wearing the suits.

This is really infuriating to hear. I'm a 40+ dad.

Do I notice nice bodies at the pool? Obviously yes. Everybody does. But I can't imagine talking like this with other people.

[Anonymous]

All of you posters encouraging or allowing your kids to wear these types of swimsuits and other risqué clothes are weird.

[Anonymous]

It's the style now. Especially for Gen Z young women and teens. Mostly the "cheeky" cut but even thongs are more common. It's normal. Creepy dudes are going to look anyway.

[Anonymous]

No. No. No.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know that’s what’s in style now but I would have a hard time allowing it. I suppose it’s the same as many fashion trends like short shorts, crop tops, etc. my daughter isn’t quite that age but I have a feeling it’ll be a matter of choosing my battles - if she’s otherwise well behaved and does well in school, etc, I might be more willing to allow some of those clothing choices.

I feel like this is different though. This has most of the A$$ exposed. They might as well be wearing a sign on their back saying "admire my butt, please!"

It's a bathing suit. An extra inch or two on each side.isnt going to make the difference admiring someone's ass and not. My sister picks and chooses her clothing battle with her 16 year old. Her feeling is if she provides some good guidelines now, she will keep it up when she's 18. So she wears those bikini bottoms but with a sports bra type top. Her homecoming dress was tight but an appropriate length.

+1 It's not like you're talking about the difference between a burkini and a thong. She's already pretty uncovered anyway. This wouldn't be a battle I would choose to fight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know that’s what’s in style now but I would have a hard time allowing it. I suppose it’s the same as many fashion trends like short shorts, crop tops, etc. my daughter isn’t quite that age but I have a feeling it’ll be a matter of choosing my battles - if she’s otherwise well behaved and does well in school, etc, I might be more willing to allow some of those clothing choices.

I feel like this is different though. This has most of the A$$ exposed. They might as well be wearing a sign on their back saying "admire my butt, please!"

It's a bathing suit. An extra inch or two on each side.isnt going to make the difference admiring someone's ass and not. My sister picks and chooses her clothing battle with her 16 year old. Her feeling is if she provides some good guidelines now, she will keep it up when she's 18. So she wears those bikini bottoms but with a sports bra type top. Her homecoming dress was tight but an appropriate length.

+1 It's not like you're talking about the difference between a burkini and a thong. She's already pretty uncovered anyway. This wouldn't be a battle I would choose to fight.

+2

[Anonymous]

I would tell my daughter that we should get matching suits and wear them together to the pool. /s

[Anonymous]

This is the style now. Just avoid looking if it bothers you, OP.