Would you allow your 16 year old daughter to wear one of those almost thong swimsuits?

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting. Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom! Girl power, amirite?

My kids are fine, thank you, regardless of what shorts they wear. They are kind-hearted, open-minded, cultured, and hard-working kids who get good grades, don't drink, vape, nor have they even kissed a boy. I guess all of this is due to my lack of parenting. Whatever makes you feel better, Judgy!

Hmmm… my kids are all of these thing as well. And they also have basic manners, an important aspect of which is not walking around in public with their butts hanging out of their clothes. So I win.

Sorry your girls have low self-esteem, no fashion sense, and absolutely no concept of appropriate dress. I’m sure they’ll still end up IvY sTeM grads like the daughters of the idiot PP above (as if that has anything to do with sexualizing oneself).

Wow awfully presumptuous of you to say that teen girls who wear 3 in. shorts have low self esteem and have no fashion sense. You seem absolutely triggered and have a lot of anger. Sorry someone hurt you.

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Yes, you need to be a mom, not a friend.

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting. Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom! Girl power, amirite?

My kids are fine, thank you, regardless of what shorts they wear. They are kind-hearted, open-minded, cultured, and hard-working kids who get good grades, don't drink, vape, nor have they even kissed a boy. I guess all of this is due to my lack of parenting. Whatever makes you feel better, Judgy!

Hmmm… my kids are all of these thing as well. And they also have basic manners, an important aspect of which is not walking around in public with their butts hanging out of their clothes. So I win.

Sorry your girls have low self-esteem, no fashion sense, and absolutely no concept of appropriate dress. I’m sure they’ll still end up IvY sTeM grads like the daughters of the idiot PP above (as if that has anything to do with sexualizing oneself).

Wow awfully presumptuous of you to say that teen girls who wear 3 in. shorts have low self esteem and have no fashion sense. You seem absolutely triggered and have a lot of anger. Sorry someone hurt you.

Girls/women with self esteem don’t walk around with their butt cheeks hanging out. They just don’t crave that kind of attention, sorry!

And the short shorts look completely stupid, as though the girl wearing them just forgot to put her pants on before she left the house, so the no fashion sense statement stands.

I think you’re the one who is triggered (understandably). It never feels good to be called out on bad parenting. But allowing your teen daughters to walk around in public half naked for literally no reason is indeed bad parenting.

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Honestly, they look better on the female form than those godforsaken saggy bottoms. I’m fine with it. -47 yo mom

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting. Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom! Girl power, amirite?

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting. Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom! Girl power, amirite?

My kids are fine, thank you, regardless of what shorts they wear. They are kind-hearted, open-minded, cultured, and hard-working kids who get good grades, don't drink, vape, nor have they even kissed a boy. I guess all of this is due to my lack of parenting. Whatever makes you feel better, Judgy!

Hmmm… my kids are all of these thing as well. And they also have basic manners, an important aspect of which is not walking around in public with their butts hanging out of their clothes. So I win.

Sorry your girls have low self-esteem, no fashion sense, and absolutely no concept of appropriate dress. I’m sure they’ll still end up IvY sTeM grads like the daughters of the idiot PP above (as if that has anything to do with sexualizing oneself).

Wow awfully presumptuous of you to say that teen girls who wear 3 in. shorts have low self esteem and have no fashion sense. You seem absolutely triggered and have a lot of anger. Sorry someone hurt you.

Girls/women with self esteem don’t walk around with their butt cheeks hanging out. They just don’t crave that kind of attention, sorry!

And the short shorts look completely stupid, as though the girl wearing them just forgot to put her pants on before she left the house, so the no fashion sense statement stands.

I think you’re the one who is triggered (understandably). It never feels good to be called out on bad parenting. But allowing your teen daughters to walk around in public half naked for literally no reason is indeed bad parenting.

I beg to differ. Girls with self-esteem wear whatever the F they want. They literally don't care what other people think, unlike you. It's you judgy mean women who are triggered. The fact that this sets you off is crazy coo-coo: https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=846718012&vid=1&tid=onpl000078&kwid=1&ap=7&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwzva1BhD3ARIsADQuPnUrkgcO3gzihVE8HxYzrIWUgozfGqhqau1PMXaxMlT4cooCw8OgVKUaAsqgEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds#pdp-page-content

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I am 40 years old and I wear them. I am biracial and my butt is white but the rest of my body is brown. It’s awful to look at honestly so I try to tan it a bit with the cheeky bottoms. I don’t have girls, only sons but they don’t mind at all. I wear a thong bathing suit when we have vacation homes and they too don’t care. It’s natural to us to wear what we want. I wouldn’t care if girls wear them. We all have butts… I don’t understand why we are hiding them. It’s like hiding a big toe, we all have them too…

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting. Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom! Girl power, amirite?

NP.

You do realize, PP, you are being super judgy right now, right? And that’s a bad thing.

Also, you are not funny, “amirite”.

Frankly our society needs more judgement and shaming, not less.

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting. Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom! Girl power, amirite?

NP.

You do realize, PP, you are being super judgy right now, right? And that’s a bad thing.

Also, you are not funny, “amirite”.

Frankly our society needs more judgement and shaming, not less.

Judging and shaming teen girls is not one of them. Go find something else to criticize.

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Anonymous wrote:I am 40 years old and I wear them. I am biracial and my butt is white but the rest of my body is brown. It’s awful to look at honestly so I try to tan it a bit with the cheeky bottoms. I don’t have girls, only sons but they don’t mind at all. I wear a thong bathing suit when we have vacation homes and they too don’t care. It’s natural to us to wear what we want. I wouldn’t care if girls wear them. We all have butts… I don’t understand why we are hiding them. It’s like hiding a big toe, we all have them too…

Would you be ok if your boys want to wear those too? I didn't say DH as I'm pretty confident you already bought him a matching pair of thong swimsuit. You can all be matchy family

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting. Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom! Girl power, amirite?

NP.

You do realize, PP, you are being super judgy right now, right? And that’s a bad thing.

Also, you are not funny, “amirite”.

Frankly our society needs more judgement and shaming, not less.

Judging and shaming teen girls is not one of them. Go find something else to criticize.

We’re judging and shaming their idiot mothers, not the girls.

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting. Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom! Girl power, amirite?

My kids are fine, thank you, regardless of what shorts they wear. They are kind-hearted, open-minded, cultured, and hard-working kids who get good grades, don't drink, vape, nor have they even kissed a boy. I guess all of this is due to my lack of parenting. Whatever makes you feel better, Judgy!

Hmmm… my kids are all of these thing as well. And they also have basic manners, an important aspect of which is not walking around in public with their butts hanging out of their clothes. So I win.

Sorry your girls have low self-esteem, no fashion sense, and absolutely no concept of appropriate dress. I’m sure they’ll still end up IvY sTeM grads like the daughters of the idiot PP above (as if that has anything to do with sexualizing oneself).

Wow awfully presumptuous of you to say that teen girls who wear 3 in. shorts have low self esteem and have no fashion sense. You seem absolutely triggered and have a lot of anger. Sorry someone hurt you.

Girls/women with self esteem don’t walk around with their butt cheeks hanging out. They just don’t crave that kind of attention, sorry!

And the short shorts look completely stupid, as though the girl wearing them just forgot to put her pants on before she left the house, so the no fashion sense statement stands.

I think you’re the one who is triggered (understandably). It never feels good to be called out on bad parenting. But allowing your teen daughters to walk around in public half naked for literally no reason is indeed bad parenting.

I beg to differ. Girls with self-esteem wear whatever the F they want. They literally don't care what other people think, unlike you. It's you judgy mean women who are triggered. The fact that this sets you off is crazy coo-coo: https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=846718012&vid=1&tid=onpl000078&kwid=1&ap=7&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwzva1BhD3ARIsADQuPnUrkgcO3gzihVE8HxYzrIWUgozfGqhqau1PMXaxMlT4cooCw8OgVKUaAsqgEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds#pdp-page-content

These aren’t the shorts being discussed, dimbulb. We’re talking about the shorts so short you can literally see the bottom of the butt cheeks. If you jumped into a conversation to defend your daughters wearing booty shorts because you let your daughters wear shorts, you were either being deliberately disingenuous or you are just completely stupid with zero ability to follow a conversation. Perhaps both.

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I went to the pool at my 55+ community yesterday. Someone's late teens or early 20s granddaughter was there, laying on a raft face down, her entire naked ass visible to all due to a thong. I found it to be inappropriate because why do I have to look at someone's naked ass just because I happen to glance at the pool while sitting under my umbrella reading a book? No rule against it though so whatever I guess.

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Anonymous wrote:I went to the pool at my 55+ community yesterday. Someone's late teens or early 20s granddaughter was there, laying on a raft face down, her entire naked ass visible to all due to a thong. I found it to be inappropriate because why do I have to look at someone's naked ass just because I happen to glance at the pool while sitting under my umbrella reading a book? No rule against it though so whatever I guess.

Really why does it matter to you if someone’s ass is covered by a few inches of nylon or not? Are missing neon yellow in your l

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Anonymous wrote:While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out. I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut. My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now?

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they like them, they fit into them, they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing.

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said. And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place! I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider! Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting. Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom! Girl power, amirite?

NP.

You do realize, PP, you are being super judgy right now, right? And that’s a bad thing.

Also, you are not funny, “amirite”.

Frankly our society needs more judgement and shaming, not less.

Judging and shaming teen girls is not one of them. Go find something else to criticize.

We’re judging and shaming their idiot mothers, not the girls.

Honestly some of you women need to get a grip. Have you been to a beach in Europe? You all would have a blast calling the women there a tramp with low self- esteem. I was at Portugal last year and literally every female of all ages were topless. Some men were completely naked but I bet that's acceptable, amirite?