Teen possibly abducted from party in CA

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Tragic outcome for a child with her future ahead of her.

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Anonymous wrote:Tragic outcome for a child with her future ahead of her.

Not many people have their future behind them.

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as sorry as I am for her and her family, I am really glad that

1) it was not an Elizabeth Smart situation, and

2) the family has closure and doesn't have to worry anymore, just grieve.

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Don’t drink and drive folks.

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Anonymous wrote:Tragic outcome for a child with her future ahead of her.

Not many people have their future behind them.

Damn

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I think they found her and her car underwater. Sad situation.

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Anonymous wrote:I think they found her and her car underwater. Sad situation.

I think so, too, especially since someone already linked to a news article saying that.

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Anonymous wrote:Reports are that she is found, her car is inside down off the road in shallow water, not sure she is alive, but is in the car

According to the dive team, she is not alive. Tragic end but not surprising.

Very sad but this was the most likely outcome.

https://apple.news/A3lUidKYzQVyc8PqthnfOUQ

This is an absurd story, shes not found shes dead. They make it seem like she was living under the sea like ariel. horrible reporting

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Anonymous wrote:Reports are that she is found, her car is inside down off the road in shallow water, not sure she is alive, but is in the car

According to the dive team, she is not alive. Tragic end but not surprising.

Very sad but this was the most likely outcome.

https://apple.news/A3lUidKYzQVyc8PqthnfOUQ

This is an absurd story, shes not found shes dead. They make it seem like she was living under the sea like ariel. horrible reporting

It is not reporting, it is PR for the organization that FOUND her body.

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Anonymous wrote:The mom had a phone conversation with her drunk daughter around 11:30pm and said “wake me up when you get home”?????? Not I’m coming to get you. Not I’ll call an Uber. Knew she was at a party and let her drive home???? Wow just wow.

That doesn’t pass the smell test. I question if that conversation took place as she described it. I don’t know any mother who goes to sleep when their 16 year old daughter is at some huge party — which she drove to. Not to mention the daughter would have clearly been drunk on that phone call, if she was visibly drunk at 12-12:30, per female friend who refused to ride with her.

I read that it was a text from daughter to mother? So harder to tell if she was drunk.

If your 16 year old daughter were 10 miles away in a rural area at a party with 200 to 300 unsupervised kids drinking and using drugs, would you just go to sleep hoping she would drive home safely? Where are the responsible adults?? Things just aren't adding up.

Oh, I think it adds up. It adds to up to zero responsible adults, who all let their kids attend this party which was a regular, known event. I'm shocked how many parents seem to abdicate parenting responsibilities once the hands-on young years are done, or how many parents so desperately want to be the "cool" parent that they aren't a parent at all.

But this is the prevailing DCUM attitude whenever a parent asks for help to help their kid with big life decisions. It's disgusting.

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Anonymous wrote:Don’t drink and drive folks.

And don't condone underage drinking.

Which happens in the DMV often.

But not everyone does it/allows it. And people who do have a MUCH higher chance of losing their child.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like her drunkenly driving into a body of water and dying is orders of magnitude more likely than being abducted along with her car.

And in fact, sadly, that appears to be what happened. RIP.

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Anonymous wrote:The mom had a phone conversation with her drunk daughter around 11:30pm and said “wake me up when you get home”?????? Not I’m coming to get you. Not I’ll call an Uber. Knew she was at a party and let her drive home???? Wow just wow.

That doesn’t pass the smell test. I question if that conversation took place as she described it. I don’t know any mother who goes to sleep when their 16 year old daughter is at some huge party — which she drove to. Not to mention the daughter would have clearly been drunk on that phone call, if she was visibly drunk at 12-12:30, per female friend who refused to ride with her.

I read that it was a text from daughter to mother? So harder to tell if she was drunk.

If your 16 year old daughter were 10 miles away in a rural area at a party with 200 to 300 unsupervised kids drinking and using drugs, would you just go to sleep hoping she would drive home safely? Where are the responsible adults?? Things just aren't adding up.

Oh, I think it adds up. It adds to up to zero responsible adults, who all let their kids attend this party which was a regular, known event. I'm shocked how many parents seem to abdicate parenting responsibilities once the hands-on young years are done, or how many parents so desperately want to be the "cool" parent that they aren't a parent at all.

But this is the prevailing DCUM attitude whenever a parent asks for help to help their kid with big life decisions. It's disgusting.

PP here and I agree. I also see it with my kids’ friends’ parents. Who look on the surface like “good parents.” Good neighborhood, activities, parents drive them around, etc. But have absolutely no rules or restrictions starting very young - as early as like 4th grade. It’s been shocking and it often goes off the rails in high school. If it doesn’t, it’s because the kid is self-directed, no thanks to the parents.

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Here is a link to the video of a live conference Adventures With Purpose gave earlier. It's raw footage but you can see the license plate number on the car under water. They called law enforcement and Kiely's family immediately and said that Kiely's dad and grandfather were on site in minutes.

These guys are amazing. They found her car within an hour of starting their search of the lake.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CF0QFhv2Cu0

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Anonymous wrote:Here is a link to the video of a live conference Adventures With Purpose gave earlier. It's raw footage but you can see the license plate number on the car under water. They called law enforcement and Kiely's family immediately and said that Kiely's dad and grandfather were on site in minutes.

These guys are amazing. They found her car within an hour of starting their search of the lake.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CF0QFhv2Cu0

Our government could fund such efforts in every state, but we as a society lack the political will.

So, you have to hope that your loved ones' "case" moves these volunteers. It should not work like that.