Teen possibly abducted from party in CA

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Anonymous wrote:Do we know how far the party was from her house? Presumably not very far? Her mum choosing to go to sleep rather than wait for her to arrive home is the antithesis of a loving mother.


I read that the party was a 30 minute drive from her house.


12 miles away from her house
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Anonymous wrote:The mom had a phone conversation with her drunk daughter around 11:30pm and said “wake me up when you get home”?????? Not I’m coming to get you. Not I’ll call an Uber. Knew she was at a party and let her drive home???? Wow just wow.


That doesn’t pass the smell test. I question if that conversation took place as she described it. I don’t know any mother who goes to sleep when their 16 year old daughter is at some huge party — which she drove to. Not to mention the daughter would have clearly been drunk on that phone call, if she was visibly drunk at 12-12:30, per female friend who refused to ride with her.


I read that it was a text from daughter to mother? So harder to tell if she was drunk.


If your 16 year old daughter were 10 miles away in a rural area at a party with 200 to 300 unsupervised kids drinking and using drugs, would you just go to sleep hoping she would drive home safely? Where are the responsible adults?? Things just aren't adding up.


Oh, I think it adds up. It adds to up to zero responsible adults, who all let their kids attend this party which was a regular, known event. I'm shocked how many parents seem to abdicate parenting responsibilities once the hands-on young years are done, or how many parents so desperately want to be the "cool" parent that they aren't a parent at all.


+1
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Anonymous wrote:Missing white blonde female?


The only reason we are hearing about it. She's a pretty, blonde woman. I hope she's found safe and alive.


The idea that we only hear about missing white people is about 20 years old. Stop holding on to the past. We hear about everyone nowadays.


THIS. Plenty of news stories about missing people of all races. Really sick of this constant whiny victim mentality.
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Anonymous wrote:Missing white blonde female?


The only reason we are hearing about it. She's a pretty, blonde woman. I hope she's found safe and alive.


The idea that we only hear about missing white people is about 20 years old. Stop holding on to the past. We hear about everyone nowadays.


THIS. Plenty of news stories about missing people of all races. Really sick of this constant whiny victim mentality.

You’re the one whining. Native women and girls go missing at appalling rates and there’s not a ripple. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna1235233
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Anonymous wrote:I’m not sure what’s so funny. Can you recall a time you refused to ride with your best friend because you determined they were clearly too drunk to drive? So you found another way home and just let them drive super drunk solo?


With a friend like this who needs enemies?
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Anonymous wrote:Missing white blonde female?


The only reason we are hearing about it. She's a pretty, blonde woman. I hope she's found safe and alive.


The idea that we only hear about missing white people is about 20 years old. Stop holding on to the past. We hear about everyone nowadays.


THIS. Plenty of news stories about missing people of all races. Really sick of this constant whiny victim mentality.


100 cute blond
A few years ago a white 40 year old man disappeared
Family was worried he committed suicide
Posters plastered everywhere
And I remember thinking how may blacks girls have disappeared and no posters for them.

Gabby Petito is the perfect example. Constant coverage, 20/20, dateline etc
Now a movie

There is no mystery. She was not kidnapped. We know who killed her and he’s dead. But again cute blond.

Signed DC white woman resident
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Or Mollie Tibetts. The entire state was turned upside down and the FBI was called in.
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Native American women are the biggest group to disappear. Are you aware of that? No, likely not.
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Anonymous wrote:Her “best friend” turned down a ride and made it seem like she was fall down drunk. What a nice friend to let her drive away from or frankly even be alone at a sketchy party in that condition.

I said the same thing, and the person I said it to said, "Or people who let their elderly parents drive and don't take away the keys...." and gave a couple more examples (I forget what now) and I thought, yeah, in reality, is a young teen going to fight her best friend for the keys, or just try a little, then say, "okay but I'm not coming with you"--seems like the latter.


Um, yes, if you’re too drunk for me to accept a ride from, I should not let you MY BEST FRIEND drive either. Party was full of trashy losers.


The best friend was also a teenager.


So what? 30 years ago my friends wouldn’t let each other drive drunk. It’s about 1000x more convenient to avoid drinking and driving in 2022. It suggests these people are low class a-hole trash. Not “friends,” just party acquiescences.


Lololol!!! I graduated in 1996 and there was so much drunk driving that went in I’m surprised anybody survived. Oftentimes if you got pulled over the cop would just follow you home.


That’s sad. Small town I’m guessing? I graduated just a couple years after and no, we didn’t drive drunk despite drinking way too much. We’d take turns and one person wouldn’t drink and would have to drive everyone home. It was actually looked down on as trashy if you didn’t do this!
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The mom had a phone conversation with her drunk daughter around 11:30pm and said “wake me up when you get home”?????? Not I’m coming to get you. Not I’ll call an Uber. Knew she was at a party and let her drive home???? Wow just wow.


That doesn’t pass the smell test. I question if that conversation took place as she described it. I don’t know any mother who goes to sleep when their 16 year old daughter is at some huge party — which she drove to. Not to mention the daughter would have clearly been drunk on that phone call, if she was visibly drunk at 12-12:30, per female friend who refused to ride with her.


I read that it was a text from daughter to mother? So harder to tell if she was drunk.


If your 16 year old daughter were 10 miles away in a rural area at a party with 200 to 300 unsupervised kids drinking and using drugs, would you just go to sleep hoping she would drive home safely? Where are the responsible adults?? Things just aren't adding up.


Einstein- do you really believe Keily told her mom I’m going to get hammered with 300 randos and drive the 30 min home (it’s not 10 miles fyi). I used to go out to an "all ages" club at 17. My parents knew the people I went with and had no idea how easy it was for me to drink there.

The family is suffering enough- you can nitpick the mom but let her daughter go to a high school graduation party- that's not uncommon.
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Maybe she left to start a new life somewhere.
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Reports are that she is found, her car is inside down off the road in shallow water, not sure she is alive, but is in the car
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Anonymous wrote:Reports are that she is found, her car is inside down off the road in shallow water, not sure she is alive, but is in the car


According to the dive team, she is not alive. Tragic end but not surprising.
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Anonymous wrote:Her “best friend” turned down a ride and made it seem like she was fall down drunk. What a nice friend to let her drive away from or frankly even be alone at a sketchy party in that condition.

I said the same thing, and the person I said it to said, "Or people who let their elderly parents drive and don't take away the keys...." and gave a couple more examples (I forget what now) and I thought, yeah, in reality, is a young teen going to fight her best friend for the keys, or just try a little, then say, "okay but I'm not coming with you"--seems like the latter.


Um, yes, if you’re too drunk for me to accept a ride from, I should not let you MY BEST FRIEND drive either. Party was full of trashy losers.


The best friend was also a teenager.


So what? 30 years ago my friends wouldn’t let each other drive drunk. It’s about 1000x more convenient to avoid drinking and driving in 2022. It suggests these people are low class a-hole trash. Not “friends,” just party acquiescences.


Lololol!!! I graduated in 1996 and there was so much drunk driving that went in I’m surprised anybody survived. Oftentimes if you got pulled over the cop would just follow you home.


That’s sad. Small town I’m guessing? I graduated just a couple years after and no, we didn’t drive drunk despite drinking way too much. We’d take turns and one person wouldn’t drink and would have to drive everyone home. It was actually looked down on as trashy if you didn’t do this!



My hometown as well. The cops would ask our names and take our beer but that’s about it.
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Anonymous wrote:Reports are that she is found, her car is inside down off the road in shallow water, not sure she is alive, but is in the car


According to the dive team, she is not alive. Tragic end but not surprising.



Very sad but this was the most likely outcome.

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