1) many women don’t live anywhere near an abortion clinic. Access is complicated further by waiting periods. So, even learning you are pregnant fairly early might not be soon enough. 2) I’m embarrassed for you. You can’t imagine a scenario where women might need access to abortion after the first trimester. |
You’re simply close minded. You think you know better than everyone else and have shut your mind to the possibility that the issue is NOT about a woman’s choice at all. It’s about something more fundamental… when does human life begin? But, go ahead and hate all men. That is your prerogative. As far as the state … they can take peoples lives (death penalty) … they can put people in prison. They do this to a lot more men then women too, so does the state hate men too? No, the state is simply a reflection of the people and the people in some states are very religious and elect and vote upon those lines. It’s not because they hate women, it is because they believe an unborn fetus is a person and thou shalt not kill. Funny enough they also believe in an eye for an eye so they vote for the death penalty. Anyhow, you’ll continue to never convince anyone of your point of view due to your strong hatred of men and insistence that pro lifers are so because they hate women. Just a dumb argument. |
| I'm vehemently pro-choice but I have always been puzzled as to why so many women in secular societies have so many unwanted pregnancies. I learned about how babies were made and how to prevent it, and literally have never had sex without a condom. |
#1 is a joke. Talk about lack of imagination. Doctors, clinics (over 1,600 in the US) the abortion pill and driving, taking a bus, etc to where you can get one even if it is over 100 miles away is all possible. Even for the poor. Yes, there may not be a clinic on every corner like you’d want, but if you’re motivated enough you can get an abortion before 24 weeks if you need one. #2 I did imagine it and even noted scenarios in my post. I even stated that 24 weeks is the norm which is well after the first trimester. Go back and read my post without emotion. Pay attention and stop being so filled with hate and rage. But sure, if you’re having sex and not paying attention I suppose you might be the rare case of being too clueless to realize you’re pregnant before the third month. Fortunately in MOST states (like I said) you have 6 months (1/2 a year) to figure things out. I mean, how much time do you need? Then again, if you’re this dumb maybe we should pay you to abort your fetus as you’d likely be a horrible mother anyhow. Maybe that’s your real point. We should put all pregnant women prior to 24 weeks in front of a committee of mothers and have them determine if your mentally capable (willing and able) of raising a child. (Note I said mothers, not mean old, big bad white men). If not, your fetus is immediately aborted. Now, if your are deemed “fit” then you can still choose prior to 24 weeks to abort, but yes you’ll have to figure out how to get to the clinic on your own. Maybe you can use the Biden money to take the train. That is, if you haven’t already spent it on opioids or cigarettes or Starbucks, or a Big Mac. Is there anything else taxpayers can help you out with? Please let us know. |
My post was to the point, and unemotional. You aren’t going to win anyone to your side. Not only because you lack a coherent argument ( lacking imagination), but your delivery isn’t great. Try to take a breath. No need for the forum to make you hostile and hateful. Since you are having a hard time considering reasons why we need abortion, later in pregnancy, I will remind you that people can get very bad news about fetal abnormalities late in pregnancy. It’s very sad and a politician doesn’t need to be in the middle of that conversation. |
How do you know who is having abortions? There are still communities in this country that have been pushing abstinence. Certainly if you look at numbers, when safe sex education is promoted, unwanted pregnancies go way down. |
Do you really think most women choose to spend $1000 over a condom? Unwanted pregnancies are actually down. We still should have safe abortion. I guess if a woman has placental abruption in these states with a mid to late pregnancy the woman just has to bleed to death. Every effort is made to save the preterm baby but with the early intervention both baby and mother will die. |
| An abortion should be a decision between a woman and her primary care physician. No one else. In some states she has to be literally in the act of dying before they can intervene even if the fetuses are not viable. Check out what happened to the woman in Ohio who was pregnant with twins. She had to labor and birth them alone because they couldn't intervene until she was on the brink of death. Even then, two doctors had to agree. Then to make matters worse, one of the twins was born. Dad in Ohio refused to issue a birth certificate to him. Almost like he wasn't a person after all. And never was. The thing is that woman and her husband wanted those babies more than anything in the world but she shouldn't have to risk her life for them. She had other children at home as well. |
This. I often see the argument from liberal pro-choice voters that the pro life crowd hates women. I disagree. I am pro-choice and a moderate but grew up in a very conservative, almost fundamentalist society. My impression is that this group of people thinks you’re killing a baby. If anything, the women are ignored. There isn’t anymore hatred of women than from the left. If anything, they think women should be worshipped and that their job of giving birth is an important one. There seemed to be almost an obsession with having babies and raising a family. I truly don’t think they hate women anymore than any other group hates women. If anything it’s just a strong opinion that the fetus is a baby. I also don’t think that many liberal pro-choice voters understand how many people don’t support killing babies. My own husband is fairly liberal and after recent ultrasounds has talked about how he could never support a woman getting an abortion. That it’s cruel. Objectively, I support abortion fully but I also recognize and understand why people dislike it. |
Taking a greyhound bus (4+ hours for a 200 mile or so trip) during an ectopic pregnancy. Sounds like paradise. |
Yes, we should be a totally secular society when it comes to sex. But we are not, are we? People are taught secrecy and shame about sex from an early age. Pharmacists may decide not to hand you your BC pills. Your employer may decide your pills won't be covered under the health care plan (but John in accounting can have his viagra). You could go for free care at Planned Parenthood - if you still have one, and you're willing to pass the picket lines. Maybe your husband is Catholic and doesn't want you to take BC. Or maybe your abusive and controlling partner sabotages your BC. Some men won't wear condoms. Your comment comes from a place of deep ignorance and privilege. PS Most women having abortions are married mothers who realize that it would be a serious mistake to bring another child into an already difficult situation. So it's not just on women. |
Riiiight, women who are against your "die it out" approach hate men, whereas as you quite literally want women to die from ectopic pregnancies do not hate women....Got it, nutter!
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| And why are the deciders all men, or mostly men? Why aren’t these decisions, said to be the viewpoint of many Americans, being espoused and voted on by tables of all women? I said ALL women because there have been tables of ALL men deciding these matters, so what would be wrong with a few rounds of all women, instead? Or maybe can have one guy on the panel. |
Is that what your church tells you?? because I'm sure thats all you listen to. Women die of child birth every day so just STOP! |
This! |