https://www.redfin.com/VA/McLean/1181-Ballantrae-Ln-22101/home/102799983 |
OMG so ugly. Reminds me of Thanksgivings past at the New Jersey cousins. |
Isn't this where the Cap One guy lives? This neighborhood? Doesn't he buy houses for his kids? |
But they go to private school - so according to PPs, it is "acceptable". |
Racist. |
No. His house is lovely. As are all of his family members. |
What if the house is made from recycled materials? What if they make their living curing cancer? Or are all large houses owned by your criteria only? |
My best mom friend is extremely wealthy. Their estate consists of a 27,000 sq ft home plus a separate theater and gym. We met in a Mommy & Me class when our oldest kids were babies. She is so generous in always hosting play dates and inviting us over for swimming. I reciprocate often but not every time because her play areas are just so amazing and huge. She also has a full time housekeeper, chef, gardener and a nanny for each child so she doesn’t have to do any clean up herself.
She is warm, down to earth and welcoming. I would suspect that maybe OP is off putting in other ways. |
HAHAHAHA. They go to Potomac, so he is disqualified from any of the PPs "logic". |
Tell us how OP is off putting. She has only posted once or twice. I am intrigued by this topic. PP here. |
So much knowledge from one person! Ivy league schools only accept applicants from private schools. Check. |
I went to school (not here) with some incredibly wealthy people who lived in 15,000 sg. ft. houses. One of them was the nicest, friendliest families we have ever known. In fact, my parents were shocked to find out how rich they were. They had a 10-car garage but huge hearts and I loved playing at their house (although I did find it weird that we weren't allowed in the "formal" part of the house).
My thoughts on seeing your house would be (1) it's way bigger than anything I would want (just from a practical point of view, I guess I'm not enough of an environmentalist to be offended by the size), (2) you obviously like it or you wouldn't live there, and (3) I hope I (or my kids) don't get lost on the way to the bathroom. Otherwise, if you are nice and we click, I wouldn't care what size your house was. I honestly find it very odd that your house size is so offensive to so many people on here. I imagine that shock is what led some people to assume it's jealously since the responses were so vehement and didn't really make sense to me. I couldn't afford a 15,000 sq. ft. house but I also can't afford to have vacation homes or new cars every year or multiple international trips for every school holiday. That doesn't mean I'm not friends with the people who do have those things. I guess I also don't judge my friends based on whether or not they think the same way I do about things. I find it possible to disagree with people about things but still be friends. I'm actually sort of puzzled by people who can't/don't do that. |
Never mind how he makes his money....... |
x10000 Maturity and not being insecure enough to judge others is all I ask, so I am easy to please. People who can't/won't do that are not either of those things. Bonus points if you know how to have fun without anyone else's expense, and have a great sense of humor. I hope I don't know any of the judgy byotches IRL, but I suspect I do - everyone does. You can smell them a mile away. |
Well, except that it's quite possible that the mom friend was like many of the PPs on this thread who are just so distraught by the size of OP's house they can't see straight (in which case, they've actually done OP a favor by not being her friend because who needs judgmental people like that in their life?). The other option is as you've stated, that they can handle people who live life differently but there's something else either OP said or did that bothered them. |