Discrepancy between you want vs what you can get

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Arranged marriage works best in your situation

Arranged marriages are a tough deal for fat people.
Unless you’re fat in the US and willing to marry someone overseas and bring them here. Then someone may be willing to marry a fat person in exchange for a life in the US.
Fat/dark skin/too short/any physical imperfection at all is an issue.

I don’t think a woman being too short is an issue. Unless we are talking something extreme like 4’6. Even very petite women 5’0 and slightly under can be considered highly attractive.

But then the man has to be open to the possibility of short kids. I have seen many a 6’4 man with short kids because his wife is short. Some of those short genes are strong!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

OP- you waited too long. Those of us met those guys and married them by 30.

I have a Master’s Degree and work in similar field. I have the life/husband you are looking for. Almost all of my girlfriends do as well and the lady of us married at 33.

I loathe this smug attitude by women who married young. They think it is some grand personal achievement and that it is some symbol that they are special or superior to other women, that they are better at life. You didn’t cure cancer or negotiate world peace, you walked down an aisle. So get over yourselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Is this real? If it is, and these are really your aspirations, you need to realize them by yourself. If you’re in your late 30s, your potential dating pool is divorced men, and they will not be interested in providing this kind of lifestyle to a second wife.

I’d double down on making more friends, traveling with friends, and enjoying life as it is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Is this real? If it is, and these are really your aspirations, you need to realize them by yourself. If you’re in your late 30s, your potential dating pool is divorced men, and they will not be interested in providing this kind of lifestyle to a second wife.

I’d double down on making more friends, traveling with friends, and enjoying life as it is.

She can't afford traveling with kids on her income it's very low for DC (OP, do you rent/own/roommate arrangement?). She needs a second earner/husband for "economy of scale", at least someone making the same 100K.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Is this real? If it is, and these are really your aspirations, you need to realize them by yourself. If you’re in your late 30s, your potential dating pool is divorced men, and they will not be interested in providing this kind of lifestyle to a second wife.

I’d double down on making more friends, traveling with friends, and enjoying life as it is.

She can't afford traveling with kids on her income it's very low for DC (OP, do you rent/own/roommate arrangement?). She needs a second earner/husband for "economy of scale", at least someone making the same 100K.

I said nothing about kids. I said traveling with friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Is this real? If it is, and these are really your aspirations, you need to realize them by yourself. If you’re in your late 30s, your potential dating pool is divorced men, and they will not be interested in providing this kind of lifestyle to a second wife.

I’d double down on making more friends, traveling with friends, and enjoying life as it is.

She can't afford traveling with kids on her income it's very low for DC (OP, do you rent/own/roommate arrangement?). She needs a second earner/husband for "economy of scale", at least someone making the same 100K.

I said nothing about kids. I said traveling with friends.

Pardon, a typo. 100K after tax is 75K. Yes, she probably can afford one 10K vacation/year or two $5K hiking/camping trips with friends if her housing is under $2K

[Anonymous]

The type of guy that OP is talking about seems to never be single. It’s like they come out of the womb with a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

OP- you waited too long. Those of us met those guys and married them by 30.

I have a Master’s Degree and work in similar field. I have the life/husband you are looking for. Almost all of my girlfriends do as well and the lady of us married at 33.

I loathe this smug attitude by women who married young. They think it is some grand personal achievement and that it is some symbol that they are special or superior to other women, that they are better at life. You didn’t cure cancer or negotiate world peace, you walked down an aisle. So get over yourselves.

Not PP and I don’t see a hint of smugness. You’re just mad because it’s a hard truth.

But I guess you have me with that last part. I do think I’m better at life. The proof is in the pudding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Arranged marriage works best in your situation

Arranged marriages are a tough deal for fat people.
Unless you’re fat in the US and willing to marry someone overseas and bring them here. Then someone may be willing to marry a fat person in exchange for a life in the US.
Fat/dark skin/too short/any physical imperfection at all is an issue.

I don’t think a woman being too short is an issue. Unless we are talking something extreme like 4’6. Even very petite women 5’0 and slightly under can be considered highly attractive.

But then the man has to be open to the possibility of short kids. I have seen many a 6’4 man with short kids because his wife is short. Some of those short genes are strong!

And? Where's the problem?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Is this real? If it is, and these are really your aspirations, you need to realize them by yourself. If you’re in your late 30s, your potential dating pool is divorced men, and they will not be interested in providing this kind of lifestyle to a second wife.

I’d double down on making more friends, traveling with friends, and enjoying life as it is.

She can't afford traveling with kids on her income it's very low for DC (OP, do you rent/own/roommate arrangement?). She needs a second earner/husband for "economy of scale", at least someone making the same 100K.

I said nothing about kids. I said traveling with friends.

Pardon, a typo. 100K after tax is 75K. Yes, she probably can afford one 10K vacation/year or two $5K hiking/camping trips with friends if her housing is under $2K

You do know that the use of "pardon" outs you as hopelessly middle class, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

OP- you waited too long. Those of us met those guys and married them by 30.

I have a Master’s Degree and work in similar field. I have the life/husband you are looking for. Almost all of my girlfriends do as well and the lady of us married at 33.

I loathe this smug attitude by women who married young. They think it is some grand personal achievement and that it is some symbol that they are special or superior to other women, that they are better at life. You didn’t cure cancer or negotiate world peace, you walked down an aisle. So get over yourselves.

Not PP and I don’t see a hint of smugness. You’re just mad because it’s a hard truth.

But I guess you have me with that last part. I do think I’m better at life. The proof is in the pudding.

Ugh. Really? Gross. No, not “a hint of smugness at all.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Arranged marriage works best in your situation

Arranged marriages are a tough deal for fat people.
Unless you’re fat in the US and willing to marry someone overseas and bring them here. Then someone may be willing to marry a fat person in exchange for a life in the US.
Fat/dark skin/too short/any physical imperfection at all is an issue.

I don’t think a woman being too short is an issue. Unless we are talking something extreme like 4’6. Even very petite women 5’0 and slightly under can be considered highly attractive.

But then the man has to be open to the possibility of short kids. I have seen many a 6’4 man with short kids because his wife is short. Some of those short genes are strong!

And? Where's the problem?

Your future son will not want to be 5’6.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Is this real? If it is, and these are really your aspirations, you need to realize them by yourself. If you’re in your late 30s, your potential dating pool is divorced men, and they will not be interested in providing this kind of lifestyle to a second wife.

I’d double down on making more friends, traveling with friends, and enjoying life as it is.

She can't afford traveling with kids on her income it's very low for DC (OP, do you rent/own/roommate arrangement?). She needs a second earner/husband for "economy of scale", at least someone making the same 100K.

I said nothing about kids. I said traveling with friends.

Pardon, a typo. 100K after tax is 75K. Yes, she probably can afford one 10K vacation/year or two $5K hiking/camping trips with friends if her housing is under $2K

You do know that the use of "pardon" outs you as hopelessly middle class, right?

You are such a weirdo. I would say that it’s attempting to class shame others that makes you a bit naff.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Arranged marriage works best in your situation

Arranged marriages are a tough deal for fat people.
Unless you’re fat in the US and willing to marry someone overseas and bring them here. Then someone may be willing to marry a fat person in exchange for a life in the US.
Fat/dark skin/too short/any physical imperfection at all is an issue.

I don’t think a woman being too short is an issue. Unless we are talking something extreme like 4’6. Even very petite women 5’0 and slightly under can be considered highly attractive.

But then the man has to be open to the possibility of short kids. I have seen many a 6’4 man with short kids because his wife is short. Some of those short genes are strong!

+1 I see a lot of it in the sports world

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you looking for romantic partners or business partners?

OP here. After putting myself through college and graduate school and acquiring a fulfilling and interesting policy job, I really do not want to marry some average joe making 100k a year so we can squeeze into a 500k townhouse in Vienna and take yearly vacations to OBX.

I want a SHF in Chevy Chase, private school for my kids and international vacations.

Why NOT me? Only because I am not blonde and skinny?

Its depressing.

Is this real? If it is, and these are really your aspirations, you need to realize them by yourself. If you’re in your late 30s, your potential dating pool is divorced men, and they will not be interested in providing this kind of lifestyle to a second wife.

I’d double down on making more friends, traveling with friends, and enjoying life as it is.

She can't afford traveling with kids on her income it's very low for DC (OP, do you rent/own/roommate arrangement?). She needs a second earner/husband for "economy of scale", at least someone making the same 100K.

I said nothing about kids. I said traveling with friends.

Pardon, a typo. 100K after tax is 75K. Yes, she probably can afford one 10K vacation/year or two $5K hiking/camping trips with friends if her housing is under $2K

You do know that the use of "pardon" outs you as hopelessly middle class, right?

How is that? Please, provide your scientific analysis that only low middle class uses the word "pardon"