Would you allow your 16 year old daughter to wear one of those almost thong swimsuits?

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Anonymous wrote:yes, even women breastfeeding. some people will stare. some will glance and some won't. you can't stop someone from looking, esp. if you look good and at the end of the day, who cares, right? the whole point is if you don't want to be noticed, dress and act accordingly. I have a dress that is a bit revealing on top that I wear to get, hopefully positive attention.

well, that is sad. You should just wear it because you like it.

Yeah, no woman EVER puts on a sexy dress for date night or to go out clubbing. Never, ever would we do such a thing....

to pretend that most girls are dressing for boys is pathetic. Yes, some girls do but some girls have painfully low self esteem and have been told snagging a guy is their ticket to a nice life. Most girls are not like that.

To assume most people go "clubbing" is equally as pathetic.

Dressing sexy for your husband is not the same as dressing for strangers to gawk at you.

Also, I think if you were more self confident you would understand these concepts.

How old were you, if I may ask, when you snapped up your lucky husband? 18?
If anything, you are pathetic yourself. Young women do wear sexy dresses, they do go clubbing and it's a special thrill to look and feel hot. Not that you'll know anything about it, though.

I'm sorry that you have never experienced a world where you actually wear clothes for yourself and attracted men with something other than your body.

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I am totally fine with all my daughters wearing string bikinis. Most of the time they find them uncomfortable, especially at the beaches with big waves. But they wear them freely, and we never even made any comments. Moreover, they always went with me to the women only saunas in US and Europe where everyone is naked, so they are very comfortable with their bodies. They were topless several time when we vacationed in France and Spain (me too), and we had no issues with that. It is just a piece of skin, the very same skin as the skin on their glutei or calfs. All my girls graduated virgin from HS, and one remain virgin almost until the last year of college. So body confidence doesn't have to do anything with one's morals.

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Anonymous wrote:yes, even women breastfeeding. some people will stare. some will glance and some won't. you can't stop someone from looking, esp. if you look good and at the end of the day, who cares, right? the whole point is if you don't want to be noticed, dress and act accordingly. I have a dress that is a bit revealing on top that I wear to get, hopefully positive attention.

well, that is sad. You should just wear it because you like it.

Yeah, no woman EVER puts on a sexy dress for date night or to go out clubbing. Never, ever would we do such a thing....

to pretend that most girls are dressing for boys is pathetic. Yes, some girls do but some girls have painfully low self esteem and have been told snagging a guy is their ticket to a nice life. Most girls are not like that.

To assume most people go "clubbing" is equally as pathetic.

Dressing sexy for your husband is not the same as dressing for strangers to gawk at you.

Also, I think if you were more self confident you would understand these concepts.

How old were you, if I may ask, when you snapped up your lucky husband? 18?
If anything, you are pathetic yourself. Young women do wear sexy dresses, they do go clubbing and it's a special thrill to look and feel hot. Not that you'll know anything about it, though.

I'm sorry that you have never experienced a world where you actually wear clothes for yourself and attracted men with something other than your body.

Well call me a brute, but when I was young and single I used to dress sexy and go out to clubs and dance with the guys who looked "hot" to me. They looked at me and I looked at them. It's called physical attraction and it's an innate, natural and wonderful force of nature. Sorry you've never experienced it, you poor thing.

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Anonymous wrote:yes, even women breastfeeding. some people will stare. some will glance and some won't. you can't stop someone from looking, esp. if you look good and at the end of the day, who cares, right? the whole point is if you don't want to be noticed, dress and act accordingly. I have a dress that is a bit revealing on top that I wear to get, hopefully positive attention.

well, that is sad. You should just wear it because you like it.

Yeah, no woman EVER puts on a sexy dress for date night or to go out clubbing. Never, ever would we do such a thing....

to pretend that most girls are dressing for boys is pathetic. Yes, some girls do but some girls have painfully low self esteem and have been told snagging a guy is their ticket to a nice life. Most girls are not like that.

To assume most people go "clubbing" is equally as pathetic.

Dressing sexy for your husband is not the same as dressing for strangers to gawk at you.

Also, I think if you were more self confident you would understand these concepts.

How old were you, if I may ask, when you snapped up your lucky husband? 18?
If anything, you are pathetic yourself. Young women do wear sexy dresses, they do go clubbing and it's a special thrill to look and feel hot. Not that you'll know anything about it, though.

I'm sorry that you have never experienced a world where you actually wear clothes for yourself and attracted men with something other than your body.

Well call me a brute, but when I was young and single I used to dress sexy and go out to clubs and dance with the guys who looked "hot" to me. They looked at me and I looked at them. It's called physical attraction and it's an innate, natural and wonderful force of nature. Sorry you've never experienced it, you poor thing.

Oh I've had men attracted to me physically... Too much actually,since I was 13, the curse of being 5'10" . It's mostly boorish.... I met most my boyfriends in class when i was wearing sweats... New England

Lived in Colorado for a.while and dressed up is showering before.you hike.

I dress very nice for me. I'd actually like to wear a sign most days... I'm not wearing this for you.

Sucks to be invisible unless you are all dressed up shooting pheromones to any willing suitor ... Sorry you experonced.that.

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Anonymous wrote:yes, even women breastfeeding. some people will stare. some will glance and some won't. you can't stop someone from looking, esp. if you look good and at the end of the day, who cares, right? the whole point is if you don't want to be noticed, dress and act accordingly. I have a dress that is a bit revealing on top that I wear to get, hopefully positive attention.

well, that is sad. You should just wear it because you like it.

Yeah, no woman EVER puts on a sexy dress for date night or to go out clubbing. Never, ever would we do such a thing....

to pretend that most girls are dressing for boys is pathetic. Yes, some girls do but some girls have painfully low self esteem and have been told snagging a guy is their ticket to a nice life. Most girls are not like that.

To assume most people go "clubbing" is equally as pathetic.

Dressing sexy for your husband is not the same as dressing for strangers to gawk at you.

Also, I think if you were more self confident you would understand these concepts.

How old were you, if I may ask, when you snapped up your lucky husband? 18?
If anything, you are pathetic yourself. Young women do wear sexy dresses, they do go clubbing and it's a special thrill to look and feel hot. Not that you'll know anything about it, though.

I'm sorry that you have never experienced a world where you actually wear clothes for yourself and attracted men with something other than your body.

Well call me a brute, but when I was young and single I used to dress sexy and go out to clubs and dance with the guys who looked "hot" to me. They looked at me and I looked at them. It's called physical attraction and it's an innate, natural and wonderful force of nature. Sorry you've never experienced it, you poor thing.

Oh I've had men attracted to me physically... Too much actually,since I was 13, the curse of being 5'10" . It's mostly boorish.... I met most my boyfriends in class when i was wearing sweats... New England

Lived in Colorado for a.while and dressed up is showering before.you hike.

I dress very nice for me. I'd actually like to wear a sign most days... I'm not wearing this for you.

Sucks to be invisible unless you are all dressed up shooting pheromones to any willing suitor ... Sorry you experonced.that.

I'm talking about smoldering eyes across the room, feeling your heart beating faster, dancing close and wanting to feel your bodies closer...that kind of physical attraction.

And, yeah, guys talked to me everywhere all the time. But there is something different about going out on the hunt for each other....which young, healthy, single and available people do.

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Ack. That’s awful. This stuff makes me feel old but I really do feel that it’s so gendered that girls are expected to put themselves out there that way. No boy is walking around the pool with floss up his a— trying to look sexy for the girls. (Yes, I know they are flexing their biceps to try to look sexy...but at least their a— is covered.).

I’m a big fan of the bikinis that look like sports bras with shorts. So practical! So comfortable! So flattering! No need to rip out all your pubic hair!

I once saw a female comedian that was joking that sometimes it seems like there’s a male mole in the feminist movement...like some guy started a whisper campaign that we need to “free the nipple” to be feminists. To distract us from pay equality while we also give guys all the boob they want.

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It pisses off to no end that im called anti-feminist because I’d like my DD to cover up grr butt cheeks at the pool.

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Anonymous wrote:It pisses off to no end that im called anti-feminist because I’d like my DD to cover up grr butt cheeks at the pool.

You really don't know what feminism is then.

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Anonymous wrote:Ack. That’s awful. This stuff makes me feel old but I really do feel that it’s so gendered that girls are expected to put themselves out there that way. No boy is walking around the pool with floss up his a— trying to look sexy for the girls. (Yes, I know they are flexing their biceps to try to look sexy...but at least their a— is covered.).

I’m a big fan of the bikinis that look like sports bras with shorts. So practical! So comfortable! So flattering! No need to rip out all your pubic hair!

I once saw a female comedian that was joking that sometimes it seems like there’s a male mole in the feminist movement...like some guy started a whisper campaign that we need to “free the nipple” to be feminists. To distract us from pay equality while we also give guys all the boob they want.

The girls don't really care what the boys think. They wear it because you want to... did you wear a bikini or Jordache to "get a man"?

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Anonymous wrote:yes, even women breastfeeding. some people will stare. some will glance and some won't. you can't stop someone from looking, esp. if you look good and at the end of the day, who cares, right? the whole point is if you don't want to be noticed, dress and act accordingly. I have a dress that is a bit revealing on top that I wear to get, hopefully positive attention.

well, that is sad. You should just wear it because you like it.

Yeah, no woman EVER puts on a sexy dress for date night or to go out clubbing. Never, ever would we do such a thing....

to pretend that most girls are dressing for boys is pathetic. Yes, some girls do but some girls have painfully low self esteem and have been told snagging a guy is their ticket to a nice life. Most girls are not like that.

To assume most people go "clubbing" is equally as pathetic.

Dressing sexy for your husband is not the same as dressing for strangers to gawk at you.

Also, I think if you were more self confident you would understand these concepts.

How old were you, if I may ask, when you snapped up your lucky husband? 18?
If anything, you are pathetic yourself. Young women do wear sexy dresses, they do go clubbing and it's a special thrill to look and feel hot. Not that you'll know anything about it, though.

I'm sorry that you have never experienced a world where you actually wear clothes for yourself and attracted men with something other than your body.

Well call me a brute, but when I was young and single I used to dress sexy and go out to clubs and dance with the guys who looked "hot" to me. They looked at me and I looked at them. It's called physical attraction and it's an innate, natural and wonderful force of nature. Sorry you've never experienced it, you poor thing.

Oh I've had men attracted to me physically... Too much actually,since I was 13, the curse of being 5'10" . It's mostly boorish.... I met most my boyfriends in class when i was wearing sweats... New England

Lived in Colorado for a.while and dressed up is showering before.you hike.

I dress very nice for me. I'd actually like to wear a sign most days... I'm not wearing this for you.

Sucks to be invisible unless you are all dressed up shooting pheromones to any willing suitor ... Sorry you experonced.that.

I'm talking about smoldering eyes across the room, feeling your heart beating faster, dancing close and wanting to feel your bodies closer...that kind of physical attraction.

And, yeah, guys talked to me everywhere all the time. But there is something different about going out on the hunt for each other....which young, healthy, single and available people do.

I get you don't understand meeting in class or at a volunteer activity or hiking or white water rafting where you can connect on an intellectual and spiritual level.

I suggest doing a little reading on Buddhism and try to get out of your ego a little.

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The bathing suit bottoms dont bother me but the ever-present, tiny, cropped camisole tops, even in winter, do. It just looks so desperate and needy, pathetic really, like you can only get attention by showing your body. And the girls who do it most often tend to be the butter-faces.

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Anonymous wrote:Ack. That’s awful. This stuff makes me feel old but I really do feel that it’s so gendered that girls are expected to put themselves out there that way. No boy is walking around the pool with floss up his a— trying to look sexy for the girls. (Yes, I know they are flexing their biceps to try to look sexy...but at least their a— is covered.).

I’m a big fan of the bikinis that look like sports bras with shorts. So practical! So comfortable! So flattering! No need to rip out all your pubic hair!

I once saw a female comedian that was joking that sometimes it seems like there’s a male mole in the feminist movement...like some guy started a whisper campaign that we need to “free the nipple” to be feminists. To distract us from pay equality while we also give guys all the boob they want.

The girls don't really care what the boys think. They wear it because you want to... did you wear a bikini or Jordache to "get a man"?

What? Have you ever been in a high school? Teen girls care a great deal about what the boys think and the boys care a great deal about what the girls think. They are teens - that is the age / stage when they care the most about their peers opinions of them. It is why peer pressure is so strong. Half the social conversations in high school are about who so and so likes, who likes so and so, who is hot, what should I wear, what others think etc.

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Anonymous wrote:Ack. That’s awful. This stuff makes me feel old but I really do feel that it’s so gendered that girls are expected to put themselves out there that way. No boy is walking around the pool with floss up his a— trying to look sexy for the girls. (Yes, I know they are flexing their biceps to try to look sexy...but at least their a— is covered.).

I’m a big fan of the bikinis that look like sports bras with shorts. So practical! So comfortable! So flattering! No need to rip out all your pubic hair!

I once saw a female comedian that was joking that sometimes it seems like there’s a male mole in the feminist movement...like some guy started a whisper campaign that we need to “free the nipple” to be feminists. To distract us from pay equality while we also give guys all the boob they want.

The girls don't really care what the boys think. They wear it because you want to... did you wear a bikini or Jordache to "get a man"?

What? Have you ever been in a high school? Teen girls care a great deal about what the boys think and the boys care a great deal about what the girls think. They are teens - that is the age / stage when they care the most about their peers opinions of them. It is why peer pressure is so strong. Half the social conversations in high school are about who so and so likes, who likes so and so, who is hot, what should I wear, what others think etc.

Some girls do but the vast majority of girls are wearing bathing suits and clothes for themselves.

Just 2 years ago people claimed girls wore yoga pant for boys... no, they just like yoga pants.

They want to be liked, respected, find a soul mate... but they don't want dogs slobbering over what they wear.

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Anonymous wrote:The bathing suit bottoms dont bother me but the ever-present, tiny, cropped camisole tops, even in winter, do. It just looks so desperate and needy, pathetic really, like you can only get attention by showing your body. And the girls who do it most often tend to be the butter-faces.

It bothers you that their bra strap shows... admit it.

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Anonymous wrote:Ack. That’s awful. This stuff makes me feel old but I really do feel that it’s so gendered that girls are expected to put themselves out there that way. No boy is walking around the pool with floss up his a— trying to look sexy for the girls. (Yes, I know they are flexing their biceps to try to look sexy...but at least their a— is covered.).

I’m a big fan of the bikinis that look like sports bras with shorts. So practical! So comfortable! So flattering! No need to rip out all your pubic hair!

I once saw a female comedian that was joking that sometimes it seems like there’s a male mole in the feminist movement...like some guy started a whisper campaign that we need to “free the nipple” to be feminists. To distract us from pay equality while we also give guys all the boob they want.

The girls don't really care what the boys think. They wear it because you want to... did you wear a bikini or Jordache to "get a man"?

What? Have you ever been in a high school? Teen girls care a great deal about what the boys think and the boys care a great deal about what the girls think. They are teens - that is the age / stage when they care the most about their peers opinions of them. It is why peer pressure is so strong. Half the social conversations in high school are about who so and so likes, who likes so and so, who is hot, what should I wear, what others think etc.

Some girls do but the vast majority of girls are wearing bathing suits and clothes for themselves.

Just 2 years ago people claimed girls wore yoga pant for boys... no, they just like yoga pants.

They want to be liked, respected, find a soul mate... but they don't want dogs slobbering over what they wear.

You are so out of touch with reality. 15 year olds aren't looking for their soul mates.