Mothers - How many sex partners would you want your daughter to have prior to marriage?

[Anonymous]

What I think is missing here also is people's definition of a "few" or "Several"

many posters have said something like, it'd be great if it were one or two but if its a few it won't matter. 5, 7, 10 - thats a few to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Physical differences
Brain chemistry differences
Hormonal differences
Reproductive differences.

I mean how crazy is it to deny that mothers birth babies and that men inseminate women.

And that's a big big difference if ask me!

Citation please. And the fact that I gestate doesn't seem relevant to how I experience sex.

There is no citation needed for something that everyone already knows.

Yes, because you carry eggs and gestate makes an enormous difference in the sexual experience - aside from being the penetrated vs the penetrator.

The potential consequences of each sexual encounter for a female are significantly higher than they are for a male.

Even if we have gotten better with our contraceptives, the hard wiring is in place from thousands of years and it won't change in two or three generations.

Its like this:

Person A has 10 coins and Person B has 1000 coins. Should person A and person B enter in a 50/50 coin toss - winner take all?

Of course not.

Females have much more to lose/gain from a sexual experience than a man does.

We all know men and women are different. We all know that there are physical differences and real differences in our design and purpose


Would you create two machines with different parts designed to do different things and give them the same exact software?

Of course not.

PS I'm not arguing against equality in general, etc. I am arguing against this notion that somehow men and women are identical in every way.

What in the name of Pete are you on about?

I'm a woman. I'm married, and have a daughter. And before I was married, I had, and enjoyed, casual sex frequently. I doubled up on the birth control - the pill and condoms. NEver got an STD, never got pregnant. The fact that I understand that sex has significant biological consequences, and took steps to enjoy myself responsibly doesn't make me a woman. It makes me an adult.

But I thank you for sharing your opinion on the differences between men and women. It's…illuminating.

[Anonymous]

The pill makes women experience sex differently. It changes the hormones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The pill makes women experience sex differently. It changes the hormones.

True that. I got much hornier and enjoyed sex a lot more after I got off the pill.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Physical differences
Brain chemistry differences
Hormonal differences
Reproductive differences.

I mean how crazy is it to deny that mothers birth babies and that men inseminate women.

And that's a big big difference if ask me!

Citation please. And the fact that I gestate doesn't seem relevant to how I experience sex.

There is no citation needed for something that everyone already knows.

Yes, because you carry eggs and gestate makes an enormous difference in the sexual experience - aside from being the penetrated vs the penetrator.

The potential consequences of each sexual encounter for a female are significantly higher than they are for a male.

Even if we have gotten better with our contraceptives, the hard wiring is in place from thousands of years and it won't change in two or three generations.

Its like this:

Person A has 10 coins and Person B has 1000 coins. Should person A and person B enter in a 50/50 coin toss - winner take all?

Of course not.

Females have much more to lose/gain from a sexual experience than a man does.

We all know men and women are different. We all know that there are physical differences and real differences in our design and purpose


Would you create two machines with different parts designed to do different things and give them the same exact software?

Of course not.

PS I'm not arguing against equality in general, etc. I am arguing against this notion that somehow men and women are identical in every way.

You are batshit crazy. That is all.

[Anonymous]

Men and women are different sexually.
Men wake up everyday full of testosterone with millions of sperm ready to make babies everyday.
Women have one precious egg a month. For 1 week a month they will have all the feel good hormones kicking in telling them all is right with the world, they will feel very sexually aroused when they are ovulating and the body tells them go have sex now. If the egg is not fertilized then the hormones start to fall and the yucky pms ones set in. Now a woman feels less happy with the world. The body is saying"I didn't get pregnant so get away from me now you (man) are not needed this week." Then a woman bleeds, it is like a period of mourning and the hormones settle down. It all starts again the next month. All of these hormones effect how men and women bond with each other. We use are intellect and the "norms" of society to overcome our differences. BC pills do alter how a woman feels. But I think any mother needs to tell her daughter why she may have different emotional feelings than a man when it comes to sex and why she feels differently during different weeks in the month.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men and women are different sexually.
Men wake up everyday full of testosterone with millions of sperm ready to make babies everyday.
Women have one precious egg a month. For 1 week a month they will have all the feel good hormones kicking in telling them all is right with the world, they will feel very sexually aroused when they are ovulating and the body tells them go have sex now. If the egg is not fertilized then the hormones start to fall and the yucky pms ones set in. Now a woman feels less happy with the world. The body is saying"I didn't get pregnant so get away from me now you (man) are not needed this week." Then a woman bleeds, it is like a period of mourning and the hormones settle down. It all starts again the next month. All of these hormones effect how men and women bond with each other. We use are intellect and the "norms" of society to overcome our differences. BC pills do alter how a woman feels. But I think any mother needs to tell her daughter why she may have different emotional feelings than a man when it comes to sex and why she feels differently during different weeks in the month.

This is an honest answer from an honest woman.

Men and women are not the same people!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Physical differences
Brain chemistry differences
Hormonal differences
Reproductive differences.

I mean how crazy is it to deny that mothers birth babies and that men inseminate women.

And that's a big big difference if ask me!

Citation please. And the fact that I gestate doesn't seem relevant to how I experience sex.

There is no citation needed for something that everyone already knows.

Yes, because you carry eggs and gestate makes an enormous difference in the sexual experience - aside from being the penetrated vs the penetrator.

The potential consequences of each sexual encounter for a female are significantly higher than they are for a male.

Even if we have gotten better with our contraceptives, the hard wiring is in place from thousands of years and it won't change in two or three generations.

Its like this:

Person A has 10 coins and Person B has 1000 coins. Should person A and person B enter in a 50/50 coin toss - winner take all?

Of course not.

Females have much more to lose/gain from a sexual experience than a man does.

We all know men and women are different. We all know that there are physical differences and real differences in our design and purpose


Would you create two machines with different parts designed to do different things and give them the same exact software?

Of course not.

PS I'm not arguing against equality in general, etc. I am arguing against this notion that somehow men and women are identical in every way.

You are batshit crazy. That is all.

You know I'm right. You just can't admit it because of all that rad fem brainwashing.

You can not dispute a single fact in my post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men and women are different sexually.
Men wake up everyday full of testosterone with millions of sperm ready to make babies everyday.
Women have one precious egg a month. For 1 week a month they will have all the feel good hormones kicking in telling them all is right with the world, they will feel very sexually aroused when they are ovulating and the body tells them go have sex now. If the egg is not fertilized then the hormones start to fall and the yucky pms ones set in. Now a woman feels less happy with the world. The body is saying"I didn't get pregnant so get away from me now you (man) are not needed this week." Then a woman bleeds, it is like a period of mourning and the hormones settle down. It all starts again the next month. All of these hormones effect how men and women bond with each other. We use are intellect and the "norms" of society to overcome our differences. BC pills do alter how a woman feels. But I think any mother needs to tell her daughter why she may have different emotional feelings than a man when it comes to sex and why she feels differently during different weeks in the month.

This is an honest answer from an honest woman.

Men and women are not the same people!!

Meant to say "men and women are not the same, people!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men and women are different sexually.
Men wake up everyday full of testosterone with millions of sperm ready to make babies everyday.
Women have one precious egg a month. For 1 week a month they will have all the feel good hormones kicking in telling them all is right with the world, they will feel very sexually aroused when they are ovulating and the body tells them go have sex now. If the egg is not fertilized then the hormones start to fall and the yucky pms ones set in. Now a woman feels less happy with the world. The body is saying"I didn't get pregnant so get away from me now you (man) are not needed this week." Then a woman bleeds, it is like a period of mourning and the hormones settle down. It all starts again the next month. All of these hormones effect how men and women bond with each other. We use are intellect and the "norms" of society to overcome our differences. BC pills do alter how a woman feels. But I think any mother needs to tell her daughter why she may have different emotional feelings than a man when it comes to sex and why she feels differently during different weeks in the month.

This is an honest answer from an honest woman.

Men and women are not the same people!!

Obviously men and women are different. This post excusing men for being promiscuous but not women but the logic that a man would need to sleep with a woman......so illogical for some pps thinking.

[Anonymous]

Not making excuses for anyone. But young women and men need to understand their crazy hormones they are having and why they feel the way they do. It helps them better control all these overwhelming urges they have.

[Anonymous]

At least 1,000. Practice makes perfect!

[Anonymous]

Male and female reproductive systems, strategies, and outcomes are so vastly different - to view engaging in the sex act as exactly the same for both is just willing disregard for biology and life.

[Anonymous]

This is so strange. Why is this a parents business? Unless daughter is a minor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is so strange. Why is this a parents business? Unless daughter is a minor.

You aren't going to teach your daughter anything about sex and what it means to be a healthy sexual adult?

Or do you just close your eyes and hope she doesn't end up being a stripper?