Mothers - How many sex partners would you want your daughter to have prior to marriage?
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Mothers: How many sex partners would you want your daughters to have prior to marriage?
How many is too many? Is there too many? At what age should they start having sex? Honestly - what advice would you give your daughter if she asked you for it and insisted on you giving her a concrete number? |
Anonymous
| A range of 2 to 8. |
Anonymous
| 17. |
Anonymous
| And 17 would be a good age to start. |
Anonymous
| I'm not all up my child's vagina. I don't think I would want to know exactly how many she will have. All I can do is teach and preach. |
Anonymous
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2-8 sounds good to me too.
17 to start? really? in high school? |
Anonymous
The exercise here is to put a real number on it - otherwise please depart thread! |
Anonymous
Yes |
Anonymous
| Tough question. I'd want her to be having "mindful sex" and not sleeping with a guy because "he'll like me better" or "I think I should" or "everyone else is doing it" i'd like her to associate sex with an emotional connection rather than "hey, it's Friday, who should I do tonight?" For some women that will be two or three, for others it could be many more. |
Anonymous
| As many or as few as my daughter (or my son, for that matter) wanted to have while staying safe and healthy, physically, mentally and emotionally. In our family, we don't slut-shame. |
Anonymous
Honey, if she's focusing on a number, her head is already in the wrong place. There isn't a quota. |
Anonymous
19 is better. |
Anonymous
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Enough partners so she knows the person she's marrying is good in bed. If she's lost count of how many people she's been with, that's too many. At an age where she can handle the physical and emotional ramifications of having sex.
If she insisted on concrete numbers I'd point out that it's a clear sign she's too immature. |
Anonymous
Meh. You know how many problems that creates? |
Anonymous
+1 |