Women 35+ who have never been in a relationship

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Anonymous wrote:Recently saw a comment on a video on tiktok from a woman who says her sister is 41 and she's never dated and never had a boyfriend which is another shocking reminder. Last thing you expect to happen to a woman

That's surprising because sisters can be competitive. One wants what the other has.

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Anonymous wrote:Recently saw a comment on a video on tiktok from a woman who says her sister is 41 and she's never dated and never had a boyfriend which is another shocking reminder. Last thing you expect to happen to a woman

That's surprising because sisters can be competitive. One wants what the other has.

Just more surprising and shocking, a lot more for a woman than it is for a man to reach a certain age or a certain decade and to have always been alone or to have never dated or never been in a relationship before or never had sex because, of how women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention or just women never being expected to do the pursuing or approach a man or ask him out, be the ones to spark or ignite attraction.

That's why I'm very shocked that this thread was started in the first place or that there are these type of women that exist that are 35+ and have never had boyfriends.

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Anonymous wrote:Recently saw a comment on a video on tiktok from a woman who says her sister is 41 and she's never dated and never had a boyfriend which is another shocking reminder. Last thing you expect to happen to a woman

That's surprising because sisters can be competitive. One wants what the other has.

Just more surprising and shocking, a lot more for a woman than it is for a man to reach a certain age or a certain decade and to have always been alone or to have never dated or never been in a relationship before or never had sex because, of how women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention or just women never being expected to do the pursuing or approach a man or ask him out, be the ones to spark or ignite attraction.

That's why I'm very shocked that this thread was started in the first place or that there are these type of women that exist that are 35+ and have never had boyfriends.

Growing up in a lonely environment. Bullying especially by boys. Low self esteem. Growing up poor will do this to you.

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Anonymous wrote:Recently saw a comment on a video on tiktok from a woman who says her sister is 41 and she's never dated and never had a boyfriend which is another shocking reminder. Last thing you expect to happen to a woman

That's surprising because sisters can be competitive. One wants what the other has.

Just more surprising and shocking, a lot more for a woman than it is for a man to reach a certain age or a certain decade and to have always been alone or to have never dated or never been in a relationship before or never had sex because, of how women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention or just women never being expected to do the pursuing or approach a man or ask him out, be the ones to spark or ignite attraction.

That's why I'm very shocked that this thread was started in the first place or that there are these type of women that exist that are 35+ and have never had boyfriends.

Growing up in a lonely environment. Bullying especially by boys. Low self esteem. Growing up poor will do this to you.

How will that affect women when women are not expected to do the pursuing or not expected to take initiative like men always have?

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Anonymous wrote:Recently saw a comment on a video on tiktok from a woman who says her sister is 41 and she's never dated and never had a boyfriend which is another shocking reminder. Last thing you expect to happen to a woman

That's surprising because sisters can be competitive. One wants what the other has.

Just more surprising and shocking, a lot more for a woman than it is for a man to reach a certain age or a certain decade and to have always been alone or to have never dated or never been in a relationship before or never had sex because, of how women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention or just women never being expected to do the pursuing or approach a man or ask him out, be the ones to spark or ignite attraction.

That's why I'm very shocked that this thread was started in the first place or that there are these type of women that exist that are 35+ and have never had boyfriends.

Growing up in a lonely environment. Bullying especially by boys. Low self esteem. Growing up poor will do this to you.

How will that affect women when women are not expected to do the pursuing or not expected to take initiative like men always have?

Omg, just listen to what people are saying. You keep saying the same things page after page.

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Anonymous wrote:Recently saw a comment on a video on tiktok from a woman who says her sister is 41 and she's never dated and never had a boyfriend which is another shocking reminder. Last thing you expect to happen to a woman

That's surprising because sisters can be competitive. One wants what the other has.

Sisters are doing it for themselves.

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Anonymous wrote:Recently saw a comment on a video on tiktok from a woman who says her sister is 41 and she's never dated and never had a boyfriend which is another shocking reminder. Last thing you expect to happen to a woman

That's surprising because sisters can be competitive. One wants what the other has.

Just more surprising and shocking, a lot more for a woman than it is for a man to reach a certain age or a certain decade and to have always been alone or to have never dated or never been in a relationship before or never had sex because, of how women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention or just women never being expected to do the pursuing or approach a man or ask him out, be the ones to spark or ignite attraction.

That's why I'm very shocked that this thread was started in the first place or that there are these type of women that exist that are 35+ and have never had boyfriends.

Growing up in a lonely environment. Bullying especially by boys. Low self esteem. Growing up poor will do this to you.

How will that affect women when women are not expected to do the pursuing or not expected to take initiative like men always have?

Omg, just listen to what people are saying. You keep saying the same things page after page.

I'm just often bitter and resentful because I unfortunately was a late bloomer as well and it's something I will sadly have to live with for the rest of my life.

Read this article of a woman that was posted recently and another shocking unexpected case:
https://www.the-sun.com/lifestyle/9237886/thirty-never-relationship-always-third-wheel/

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Anonymous wrote:Recently saw a comment on a video on tiktok from a woman who says her sister is 41 and she's never dated and never had a boyfriend which is another shocking reminder. Last thing you expect to happen to a woman

That's surprising because sisters can be competitive. One wants what the other has.

Just more surprising and shocking, a lot more for a woman than it is for a man to reach a certain age or a certain decade and to have always been alone or to have never dated or never been in a relationship before or never had sex because, of how women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention or just women never being expected to do the pursuing or approach a man or ask him out, be the ones to spark or ignite attraction.

That's why I'm very shocked that this thread was started in the first place or that there are these type of women that exist that are 35+ and have never had boyfriends.

Growing up in a lonely environment. Bullying especially by boys. Low self esteem. Growing up poor will do this to you.

How will that affect women when women are not expected to do the pursuing or not expected to take initiative like men always have?

Omg, just listen to what people are saying. You keep saying the same things page after page.

I'm just often bitter and resentful because I unfortunately was a late bloomer as well and it's something I will sadly have to live with for the rest of my life.

Read this article of a woman that was posted recently and another shocking unexpected case:
https://www.the-sun.com/lifestyle/9237886/thirty-never-relationship-always-third-wheel/

I'm the PP from the PP. This is a personal development issue. Work on it and you'll be happier.

[Anonymous]

PP? I don't even know what that means

[Anonymous]

One of my friends was like this. We were friends for 17 years. She often talked about how much this depressed her and she wanted to find a nice man.

Then the pandemic happened, we didn't see each other for about a year, and now she has a girlfriend.

I'm very happy that she finally figured that out. Now I don't have to listen to her whine about men any longer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One of my friends was like this. We were friends for 17 years. She often talked about how much this depressed her and she wanted to find a nice man.

Then the pandemic happened, we didn't see each other for about a year, and now she has a girlfriend.

I'm very happy that she finally figured that out. Now I don't have to listen to her whine about men any longer.

She's lesbian?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Weird. I think if I counted up all my time spent single--i.e., not in a serious monogamous relationship, since age 15, it would amount to about a year. I am 46.

I'm 47 and it's the exact opposite. I've had a few short relationships, totally maybe 14 months. I've never had trouble attracting men, I just never seem to be happy in relationships.

[Anonymous]

Decided to give up on dating and focused on becoming a mother via adoption. Rather be with my daughter than out trying to find mr wonderful!

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Anonymous wrote:Decided to give up on dating and focused on becoming a mother via adoption. Rather be with my daughter than out trying to find mr wonderful!

Are you saying you never had a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I know I bumped this a lot but I just barely remembered or found out about someone else and it is Susan Boyle, I think things eventually worked out for her but this story from close to 15 years ago she claimed at the time that she had never kissed a man before:
https://abcnews.go.com/GMA/story?id=7347935&page=1