Men who date younger but unable to perform

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Anonymous wrote:I am your typical horny 45M in a dead bedroom marriage not of my choice. I haven’t worn a condom in 15 years. No ED problems. Yet, I’ll be honest that I’m not even sure what would happen if I mixed the anxiousness of a new sexual relationship with the requirement for a condom.


YOU'D BETTER PERFORM! SHE NEEDS IT OR SHE'S GOING TO DIE!!!
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Anonymous wrote:The way people talk so casually about sex outside marriage is so heartbreaking

Why is that?


Not pp, but it's meaningless to a lot of people these days. Not that all sex has to be some sort of sacred ritual, but...

It's not intimate/intimacy at all. It's just some sort of cheap exploitation of another human's body by people who are usually trying to wrangle something in their own head. The solution for your mental problems isn't in someone else's pants.


The solution to your mental hangups about sex is not going to be solved by trying to shame adults on the internet.


The solution to your lack of "needed" D is not going to be solved by trolling anons on the mommy board.


I'm not the OP, but again, examine why you need to lash out at people for having the most basic biological need. Therapy for you is in order.


Nobody needs sex. Likes it, wants it, feels better with it, sure. But no, dummy, it's not a "basic biological need". Just like all other addictive substances aren't needs either. If you "need" sex to the point where you're willing to disregard other people's boundaries to get it, well, that last sentence in your post is for you, projecting PP.


Oh not you again!!!!!!

For the millionth time, YES, sex is a basic biological need. If it weren't, our species would be extinct by now.

Love the name-calling calling though. You must feel really secure in your beliefs if you have to resort to that.


This is such a perversion of science to justify rapey af behavior. You don't need to reproduce. If you're female, you'll actually live longer if you don't.

Yes, obvious troll, humans, as a species, do need to reproduce. But that doesn't mean individuals must have sex or they'll just shrivel up and die.

Pathetic, really. You can't get laid so you make up this whole pseudoscience about how people who don't want to sleep with you should take pills that might harm them and do it anyway because you "need" it.

What you need is an education in both science and boundaries.


You are responding to a woman who is in a loving and very sexual relationship. I get laid plenty. I will repeat it. Sex is a basic human need. The fact that you think is perverted is why I keep telling you to get therapy, you so desperately need.
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I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.
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Anonymous wrote:The way people talk so casually about sex outside marriage is so heartbreaking

Why is that?


Not pp, but it's meaningless to a lot of people these days. Not that all sex has to be some sort of sacred ritual, but...

It's not intimate/intimacy at all. It's just some sort of cheap exploitation of another human's body by people who are usually trying to wrangle something in their own head. The solution for your mental problems isn't in someone else's pants.


The solution to your mental hangups about sex is not going to be solved by trying to shame adults on the internet.


The solution to your lack of "needed" D is not going to be solved by trolling anons on the mommy board.


I'm not the OP, but again, examine why you need to lash out at people for having the most basic biological need. Therapy for you is in order.


Nobody needs sex. Likes it, wants it, feels better with it, sure. But no, dummy, it's not a "basic biological need". Just like all other addictive substances aren't needs either. If you "need" sex to the point where you're willing to disregard other people's boundaries to get it, well, that last sentence in your post is for you, projecting PP.


Oh not you again!!!!!!

For the millionth time, YES, sex is a basic biological need. If it weren't, our species would be extinct by now.

Love the name-calling calling though. You must feel really secure in your beliefs if you have to resort to that.


This is such a perversion of science to justify rapey af behavior. You don't need to reproduce. If you're female, you'll actually live longer if you don't.

Yes, obvious troll, humans, as a species, do need to reproduce. But that doesn't mean individuals must have sex or they'll just shrivel up and die.

Pathetic, really. You can't get laid so you make up this whole pseudoscience about how people who don't want to sleep with you should take pills that might harm them and do it anyway because you "need" it.

What you need is an education in both science and boundaries.


You are responding to a woman who is in a loving and very sexual relationship. I get laid plenty. I will repeat it. Sex is a basic human need. The fact that you think is perverted is why I keep telling you to get therapy, you so desperately need.


Babygirl, you need remedial reading comprehension, and to stop projecting your paranoid nonsense onto strangers. MYOB
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.


FWIW, I'd do you (if you were into that).
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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.


It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.
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Anonymous wrote:The way people talk so casually about sex outside marriage is so heartbreaking

Why is that?


Not pp, but it's meaningless to a lot of people these days. Not that all sex has to be some sort of sacred ritual, but...

It's not intimate/intimacy at all. It's just some sort of cheap exploitation of another human's body by people who are usually trying to wrangle something in their own head. The solution for your mental problems isn't in someone else's pants.


The solution to your mental hangups about sex is not going to be solved by trying to shame adults on the internet.


The solution to your lack of "needed" D is not going to be solved by trolling anons on the mommy board.


I'm not the OP, but again, examine why you need to lash out at people for having the most basic biological need. Therapy for you is in order.


Nobody needs sex. Likes it, wants it, feels better with it, sure. But no, dummy, it's not a "basic biological need". Just like all other addictive substances aren't needs either. If you "need" sex to the point where you're willing to disregard other people's boundaries to get it, well, that last sentence in your post is for you, projecting PP.


Oh not you again!!!!!!

For the millionth time, YES, sex is a basic biological need. If it weren't, our species would be extinct by now.

Love the name-calling calling though. You must feel really secure in your beliefs if you have to resort to that.


This is such a perversion of science to justify rapey af behavior. You don't need to reproduce. If you're female, you'll actually live longer if you don't.

Yes, obvious troll, humans, as a species, do need to reproduce. But that doesn't mean individuals must have sex or they'll just shrivel up and die.

Pathetic, really. You can't get laid so you make up this whole pseudoscience about how people who don't want to sleep with you should take pills that might harm them and do it anyway because you "need" it.

What you need is an education in both science and boundaries.


You are responding to a woman who is in a loving and very sexual relationship. I get laid plenty. I will repeat it. Sex is a basic human need. The fact that you think is perverted is why I keep telling you to get therapy, you so desperately need.


Babygirl, you need remedial reading comprehension, and to stop projecting your paranoid nonsense onto strangers. MYOB


Bumpkin, get yourself in therapy. You desperately need it. I'm sick of seeing your mental illness on every thread about sex.
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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.


It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.


I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.
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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.


It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.


I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.


Is anyone claiming that it's not possible????

Why are you trying to project your misery onto everyone?
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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.


It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.


I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.


Is anyone claiming that it's not possible????

Why are you trying to project your misery onto everyone?


People are saying it's a need. A need is something you require. People don't require sex. They can live without it.

And I'm not miserable.
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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.


It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.


I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.


Is anyone claiming that it's not possible????

Why are you trying to project your misery onto everyone?


People are saying it's a need. A need is something you require. People don't require sex. They can live without it.

And I'm not miserable.


It is a need. Just because you don't understand it and can force yourself to go without, it doesn't mean it's not a need. By your own admission, you're not doing it because you don't have the need. You're doing it because you think it's sinful to get it outside of your marriage.

If you weren't miserable, you wouldn't be touting how "it's NOT A NEED" every chance you get.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The way people talk so casually about sex outside marriage is so heartbreaking

Why is that?


Not pp, but it's meaningless to a lot of people these days. Not that all sex has to be some sort of sacred ritual, but...

It's not intimate/intimacy at all. It's just some sort of cheap exploitation of another human's body by people who are usually trying to wrangle something in their own head. The solution for your mental problems isn't in someone else's pants.


The solution to your mental hangups about sex is not going to be solved by trying to shame adults on the internet.


The solution to your lack of "needed" D is not going to be solved by trolling anons on the mommy board.


I'm not the OP, but again, examine why you need to lash out at people for having the most basic biological need. Therapy for you is in order.


Nobody needs sex. Likes it, wants it, feels better with it, sure. But no, dummy, it's not a "basic biological need". Just like all other addictive substances aren't needs either. If you "need" sex to the point where you're willing to disregard other people's boundaries to get it, well, that last sentence in your post is for you, projecting PP.


Oh not you again!!!!!!

For the millionth time, YES, sex is a basic biological need. If it weren't, our species would be extinct by now.

Love the name-calling calling though. You must feel really secure in your beliefs if you have to resort to that.


This is such a perversion of science to justify rapey af behavior. You don't need to reproduce. If you're female, you'll actually live longer if you don't.

Yes, obvious troll, humans, as a species, do need to reproduce. But that doesn't mean individuals must have sex or they'll just shrivel up and die.

Pathetic, really. You can't get laid so you make up this whole pseudoscience about how people who don't want to sleep with you should take pills that might harm them and do it anyway because you "need" it.

What you need is an education in both science and boundaries.


You are responding to a woman who is in a loving and very sexual relationship. I get laid plenty. I will repeat it. Sex is a basic human need. The fact that you think is perverted is why I keep telling you to get therapy, you so desperately need.


Babygirl, you need remedial reading comprehension, and to stop projecting your paranoid nonsense onto strangers. MYOB


Bumpkin, get yourself in therapy. You desperately need it. I'm sick of seeing your mental illness on every thread about sex.


I love how you assume every post you don't like was written by one person who's just out to get you, personally. Main character syndrome, much?

I rarely post here at all, but you're welcome to think whatever stupidity about me you'd like. You don't really need to show your whole ass and make it public though. You can be wrong... and quiet.
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Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The way people talk so casually about sex outside marriage is so heartbreaking

Why is that?


Not pp, but it's meaningless to a lot of people these days. Not that all sex has to be some sort of sacred ritual, but...

It's not intimate/intimacy at all. It's just some sort of cheap exploitation of another human's body by people who are usually trying to wrangle something in their own head. The solution for your mental problems isn't in someone else's pants.


The solution to your mental hangups about sex is not going to be solved by trying to shame adults on the internet.


The solution to your lack of "needed" D is not going to be solved by trolling anons on the mommy board.


I'm not the OP, but again, examine why you need to lash out at people for having the most basic biological need. Therapy for you is in order.


Nobody needs sex. Likes it, wants it, feels better with it, sure. But no, dummy, it's not a "basic biological need". Just like all other addictive substances aren't needs either. If you "need" sex to the point where you're willing to disregard other people's boundaries to get it, well, that last sentence in your post is for you, projecting PP.


Oh not you again!!!!!!

For the millionth time, YES, sex is a basic biological need. If it weren't, our species would be extinct by now.

Love the name-calling calling though. You must feel really secure in your beliefs if you have to resort to that.


This is such a perversion of science to justify rapey af behavior. You don't need to reproduce. If you're female, you'll actually live longer if you don't.

Yes, obvious troll, humans, as a species, do need to reproduce. But that doesn't mean individuals must have sex or they'll just shrivel up and die.

Pathetic, really. You can't get laid so you make up this whole pseudoscience about how people who don't want to sleep with you should take pills that might harm them and do it anyway because you "need" it.

What you need is an education in both science and boundaries.


You are responding to a woman who is in a loving and very sexual relationship. I get laid plenty. I will repeat it. Sex is a basic human need. The fact that you think is perverted is why I keep telling you to get therapy, you so desperately need.


Babygirl, you need remedial reading comprehension, and to stop projecting your paranoid nonsense onto strangers. MYOB


Bumpkin, get yourself in therapy. You desperately need it. I'm sick of seeing your mental illness on every thread about sex.


I love how you assume every post you don't like was written by one person who's just out to get you, personally. Main character syndrome, much?

I rarely post here at all, but you're welcome to think whatever stupidity about me you'd like. You don't really need to show your whole ass and make it public though. You can be wrong... and quiet.


Why don't you take your own advice, bumpkin? hmm
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.


It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.


I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.


Is anyone claiming that it's not possible????

Why are you trying to project your misery onto everyone?


People are saying it's a need. A need is something you require. People don't require sex. They can live without it.

And I'm not miserable.


It is a need. Just because you don't understand it and can force yourself to go without, it doesn't mean it's not a need. By your own admission, you're not doing it because you don't have the need. You're doing it because you think it's sinful to get it outside of your marriage.

If you weren't miserable, you wouldn't be touting how "it's NOT A NEED" every chance you get.


I don't discuss this every chance I get. I don't think I've ever discussed it before my first comment in this chain. And I think that I don't need anything that I can go without. I don't need sex anymore than I need Pepsi or cigarettes. They're things people like, but can go without. You can repeat "it is a need" until you're blue in the face, but it doesn't change that basic fact.

That your logic is ALSO the logic of rapists is alarming, as well.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.


It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.


I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.


Is anyone claiming that it's not possible????

Why are you trying to project your misery onto everyone?


People are saying it's a need. A need is something you require. People don't require sex. They can live without it.

And I'm not miserable.


It is a need. Just because you don't understand it and can force yourself to go without, it doesn't mean it's not a need. By your own admission, you're not doing it because you don't have the need. You're doing it because you think it's sinful to get it outside of your marriage.

If you weren't miserable, you wouldn't be touting how "it's NOT A NEED" every chance you get.


Dude, that is literally exactly what it means! You NEED air. You can't force yourself to go without it. Try it (please). You can force yourself to go without food and water, but only for a very limited time, and the consequences are serious. But, as multiple people (not just one) have tried to help you understand, sex is NOT a need. You can go your entire life, birth to death, never having sex.

I'm sorry your sex-starved addict brain is having trouble functioning without someone else's genitals mashed on yours, but... that's a you problem. And yeah, you do seem pretty miserable about it. Seek help.
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