Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.
It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.
I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.
Is anyone claiming that it's not possible????
Why are you trying to project your misery onto everyone?
People are saying it's a need. A need is something you require. People don't require sex. They can live without it.
And I'm not miserable.
It is a need. Just because you don't understand it and
can force yourself to go without, it doesn't mean it's not a need. By your own admission, you're not doing it because you don't have the need. You're doing it because you think it's sinful to get it outside of your marriage.
If you weren't miserable, you wouldn't be touting how "it's NOT A NEED" every chance you get.
Dude, that is literally exactly what it means! You NEED air. You can't force yourself to go without it. Try it (please).

You can force yourself to go without food and water, but only for a very limited time, and the consequences are serious. But, as multiple people (not just one) have tried to help you understand, sex is NOT a need. You can go your entire life, birth to death, never having sex.
I'm sorry your sex-starved addict brain is having trouble functioning without someone else's genitals mashed on yours, but... that's a you problem. And yeah, you do seem pretty miserable about it. Seek help.