Men who date younger but unable to perform

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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.

It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.

I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.

Your spouse is abusing you.

Nope. Preventing someone from leaving is abuse. Y'all are so entitled; you think people owe you access to their bodies? that's messed up!

You think you get to unilaterally make a decision that your spouse has to be celibate for the rest of their life or break up their family. You are pure, unadulterated evil.

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Wouldn’t you change your dating pool after the second failure?

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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.

It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.

I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.

Is anyone claiming that it's not possible????

Why are you trying to project your misery onto everyone?

People are saying it's a need. A need is something you require. People don't require sex. They can live without it.

And I'm not miserable.

It is a need. Just because you don't understand it and can force yourself to go without, it doesn't mean it's not a need. By your own admission, you're not doing it because you don't have the need. You're doing it because you think it's sinful to get it outside of your marriage.

If you weren't miserable, you wouldn't be touting how "it's NOT A NEED" every chance you get.

Dude, that is literally exactly what it means! You NEED air. You can't force yourself to go without it. Try it (please). You can force yourself to go without food and water, but only for a very limited time, and the consequences are serious. But, as multiple people (not just one) have tried to help you understand, sex is NOT a need. You can go your entire life, birth to death, never having sex.

I'm sorry your sex-starved addict brain is having trouble functioning without someone else's genitals mashed on yours, but... that's a you problem. And yeah, you do seem pretty miserable about it. Seek help.

DUDETTE, learn how to read. I already told you, I have plenty of sex. Not every need we have is life or death. Clearly your need to come back here repeatedly to piss in the wind how you don't want sex and therefore no one NEEDS it is a sick NEED of some sort. You just need to come back every chance you get to spew your nonsense.

Stop making a perfectly healthy need for sex that the overwhelming majority of the human species has something perverted.

You are the only one with a problem. Clearly the lack of sex is messing with you and making a miserable, angry shrew.

I have more sex than you, guaranteed. You continue to assume facts not in evidence about an anon on the internet, while projecting your mediocrity onto me. You don't seem to understand the fundamental difference between "needs" (things you must have to survive) and "wants" (things you really enjoy, that make your life happier and/or more fulfilling, but which you could survive without). You also keep trying to claim someone said it was "perverted". Didn't happen. Read the thread again.

I don't have a problem, I simply have a perspective you disagree with. Calm down about it or log off. You've sounded stupid from the start and you're beginning to sound unhinged.

Awww, I’m sorry I triggered you so much. I hope you’re having more sex than I am truly. It’s a stress reliever and you seem really tightly wound. Perhaps while you’re not screwing, look up the hierarchy of needs. I never claimed anyone would die without sex. Only you do that. You do it in every thread you respond to. Then you come back to pretend it’s not you bla bla bla. Just like today you first said you don’t have sex because sex outside of your sexless marriage is sin, but whatever.

I’ll say it again, sexual needs are basic human needs. Not sure why that earks you so much since you have “so much sex.”

You're a jerk, and I'm going to let you be that, and wrong, which I'll also accept, but... Do you know how the internet works? Do you really think the person you're responding to wrote... half the thread? Because, well, I didn't. And your post makes you sound like you just got dial up yesterday.

Odd position to attack from, but... do you, sweetheart. And best of luck with it!

Sweetheart, I don’t give a rats ass if you think I’m a jerk. Why would I care what some frigid moron thinks? People have a basic need for sex. Just because you’re abnormal and messed up in the head, it doesn’t mean the rest of us are. No amount of you trying to pervert something perfectly normal is going to change basic biology.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex is a mystical energy exchange. Don’t cheapen it after 5 dates with a senior citizen stranger. It will tarnish you.

Exactly! Save it for the person you are married to

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Anonymous wrote:Sex is a mystical energy exchange. Don’t cheapen it after 5 dates with a senior citizen stranger. It will tarnish you.

Exactly! Save it for the person you are married to

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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.

It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.

I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.

Your spouse is abusing you.

Nope. Preventing someone from leaving is abuse. Y'all are so entitled; you think people owe you access to their bodies? that's messed up!

You think you get to unilaterally make a decision that your spouse has to be celibate for the rest of their life or break up their family. You are pure, unadulterated evil.

You are so entrenched in your victimese that you'd rather blame an anonymous "evil" stranger on DCUM than take responsibility for your life.

You're not a victim. If you don't like your circumstances, LEAVE.

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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.

It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.

I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.

Is anyone claiming that it's not possible????

Why are you trying to project your misery onto everyone?

People are saying it's a need. A need is something you require. People don't require sex. They can live without it.

And I'm not miserable.

It is a need. Just because you don't understand it and can force yourself to go without, it doesn't mean it's not a need. By your own admission, you're not doing it because you don't have the need. You're doing it because you think it's sinful to get it outside of your marriage.

If you weren't miserable, you wouldn't be touting how "it's NOT A NEED" every chance you get.

Dude, that is literally exactly what it means! You NEED air. You can't force yourself to go without it. Try it (please). You can force yourself to go without food and water, but only for a very limited time, and the consequences are serious. But, as multiple people (not just one) have tried to help you understand, sex is NOT a need. You can go your entire life, birth to death, never having sex.

I'm sorry your sex-starved addict brain is having trouble functioning without someone else's genitals mashed on yours, but... that's a you problem. And yeah, you do seem pretty miserable about it. Seek help.

DUDETTE, learn how to read. I already told you, I have plenty of sex. Not every need we have is life or death. Clearly your need to come back here repeatedly to piss in the wind how you don't want sex and therefore no one NEEDS it is a sick NEED of some sort. You just need to come back every chance you get to spew your nonsense.

Stop making a perfectly healthy need for sex that the overwhelming majority of the human species has something perverted.

You are the only one with a problem. Clearly the lack of sex is messing with you and making a miserable, angry shrew.

I have more sex than you, guaranteed. You continue to assume facts not in evidence about an anon on the internet, while projecting your mediocrity onto me. You don't seem to understand the fundamental difference between "needs" (things you must have to survive) and "wants" (things you really enjoy, that make your life happier and/or more fulfilling, but which you could survive without). You also keep trying to claim someone said it was "perverted". Didn't happen. Read the thread again.

I don't have a problem, I simply have a perspective you disagree with. Calm down about it or log off. You've sounded stupid from the start and you're beginning to sound unhinged.

Awww, I’m sorry I triggered you so much. I hope you’re having more sex than I am truly. It’s a stress reliever and you seem really tightly wound. Perhaps while you’re not screwing, look up the hierarchy of needs. I never claimed anyone would die without sex. Only you do that. You do it in every thread you respond to. Then you come back to pretend it’s not you bla bla bla. Just like today you first said you don’t have sex because sex outside of your sexless marriage is sin, but whatever.

I’ll say it again, sexual needs are basic human needs. Not sure why that earks you so much since you have “so much sex.”

You're a jerk, and I'm going to let you be that, and wrong, which I'll also accept, but... Do you know how the internet works? Do you really think the person you're responding to wrote... half the thread? Because, well, I didn't. And your post makes you sound like you just got dial up yesterday.

Odd position to attack from, but... do you, sweetheart. And best of luck with it!

Sweetheart, I don’t give a rats ass if you think I’m a jerk. Why would I care what some frigid moron thinks? People have a basic need for sex. Just because you’re abnormal and messed up in the head, it doesn’t mean the rest of us are. No amount of you trying to pervert something perfectly normal is going to change basic biology.

For someone who doesn't give a rat's ass, you sure do seem het up about it, calling me names and making assumptions about someone you'll hopefully never even meet. Doesn't say "normal" to me at all, but go off.

[Anonymous]

Both men and women are delusional about their options as they age. Older Men think young women find them impressive. Older women think that young men who have sex with them view them as attractive as their counterpart. This new attention they get after several years of neglect gives them the sense that somehow even if it's just about sex, if they wanted a relationship with those younger men they will get it.

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Anonymous wrote:I haven't had sex in five years, and yet I'm still alive. Fascinating.

It's called being asexual. It's very much not the norm.

I'm not asexual, I have a pretty high libido actually, but my spouse no longer wants to have sex and sex outside of marriage is sinful so I'm celibate. It's possible.

Is anyone claiming that it's not possible????

Why are you trying to project your misery onto everyone?

People are saying it's a need. A need is something you require. People don't require sex. They can live without it.

And I'm not miserable.

It is a need. Just because you don't understand it and can force yourself to go without, it doesn't mean it's not a need. By your own admission, you're not doing it because you don't have the need. You're doing it because you think it's sinful to get it outside of your marriage.

If you weren't miserable, you wouldn't be touting how "it's NOT A NEED" every chance you get.

Dude, that is literally exactly what it means! You NEED air. You can't force yourself to go without it. Try it (please). You can force yourself to go without food and water, but only for a very limited time, and the consequences are serious. But, as multiple people (not just one) have tried to help you understand, sex is NOT a need. You can go your entire life, birth to death, never having sex.

I'm sorry your sex-starved addict brain is having trouble functioning without someone else's genitals mashed on yours, but... that's a you problem. And yeah, you do seem pretty miserable about it. Seek help.

DUDETTE, learn how to read. I already told you, I have plenty of sex. Not every need we have is life or death. Clearly your need to come back here repeatedly to piss in the wind how you don't want sex and therefore no one NEEDS it is a sick NEED of some sort. You just need to come back every chance you get to spew your nonsense.

Stop making a perfectly healthy need for sex that the overwhelming majority of the human species has something perverted.

You are the only one with a problem. Clearly the lack of sex is messing with you and making a miserable, angry shrew.

I have more sex than you, guaranteed. You continue to assume facts not in evidence about an anon on the internet, while projecting your mediocrity onto me. You don't seem to understand the fundamental difference between "needs" (things you must have to survive) and "wants" (things you really enjoy, that make your life happier and/or more fulfilling, but which you could survive without). You also keep trying to claim someone said it was "perverted". Didn't happen. Read the thread again.

I don't have a problem, I simply have a perspective you disagree with. Calm down about it or log off. You've sounded stupid from the start and you're beginning to sound unhinged.

Awww, I’m sorry I triggered you so much. I hope you’re having more sex than I am truly. It’s a stress reliever and you seem really tightly wound. Perhaps while you’re not screwing, look up the hierarchy of needs. I never claimed anyone would die without sex. Only you do that. You do it in every thread you respond to. Then you come back to pretend it’s not you bla bla bla. Just like today you first said you don’t have sex because sex outside of your sexless marriage is sin, but whatever.

I’ll say it again, sexual needs are basic human needs. Not sure why that earks you so much since you have “so much sex.”

You're a jerk, and I'm going to let you be that, and wrong, which I'll also accept, but... Do you know how the internet works? Do you really think the person you're responding to wrote... half the thread? Because, well, I didn't. And your post makes you sound like you just got dial up yesterday.

Odd position to attack from, but... do you, sweetheart. And best of luck with it!

Sweetheart, I don’t give a rats ass if you think I’m a jerk. Why would I care what some frigid moron thinks? People have a basic need for sex. Just because you’re abnormal and messed up in the head, it doesn’t mean the rest of us are. No amount of you trying to pervert something perfectly normal is going to change basic biology.

For someone who doesn't give a rat's ass, you sure do seem het up about it, calling me names and making assumptions about someone you'll hopefully never even meet. Doesn't say "normal" to me at all, but go off.

Your poor spouse. You are a nightmare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Both men and women are delusional about their options as they age. Older Men think young women find them impressive. Older women think that young men who have sex with them view them as attractive as their counterpart. This new attention they get after several years of neglect gives them the sense that somehow even if it's just about sex, if they wanted a relationship with those younger men they will get it.

We don't really think that. We just hope to find one of the few who might want us. That's a numbers game.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a mid 40s woman, just sharing my frustration here.Recently tried to make things work with three (!!!) mid 50s to early 60s men. Not ONE was able to perform in bed. Early ejaculation (like, in 2 min in), or the opposite not able to hold it up and cant take viagra because of heart conditions. All three tried to delay sex until they are "mentally ready" and "emotionally connected" to me. I had to tell that I prefer to have sex on date 5-6 as I do need sex and have physical needs that I expect my match to meet.

Why date a 10+ years younger woman if you can't perform? Date your age - a late 50s woman. So frustrating!

Why date older if you're frustrated with their performance? You're making poor choices.

I date older men and don't have a problem. Older men are more like women. They need a lot of foreplay and build-up. If you give them some attention, they do just fine.

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Anonymous wrote:Both men and women are delusional about their options as they age. Older Men think young women find them impressive. Older women think that young men who have sex with them view them as attractive as their counterpart. This new attention they get after several years of neglect gives them the sense that somehow even if it's just about sex, if they wanted a relationship with those younger men they will get it.

We don't really think that. We just hope to find one of the few who might want us. That's a numbers game.

I basically agree. As a man over 55 who has had a few relationships with women in their 30s and early 40s, I know these kinds of women are out there. Some were very attracted to me. Some were a little attracted to me. The ones who weren't at all attracted to me usually rejected me by the end of the second date, or I never even got a first date. (I also have dated women my own age and older than me )

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Anonymous wrote:Both men and women are delusional about their options as they age. Older Men think young women find them impressive. Older women think that young men who have sex with them view them as attractive as their counterpart. This new attention they get after several years of neglect gives them the sense that somehow even if it's just about sex, if they wanted a relationship with those younger men they will get it.

We don't really think that. We just hope to find one of the few who might want us. That's a numbers game.

I basically agree. As a man over 55 who has had a few relationships with women in their 30s and early 40s, I know these kinds of women are out there. Some were very attracted to me. Some were a little attracted to me. The ones who weren't at all attracted to me usually rejected me by the end of the second date, or I never even got a first date. (I also have dated women my own age and older than me )

How much money do you make relative these women ? Do you own a nice house /car? Maybe those who were “attracted” just wanted a nicer lifestyle than what they could afford on their own…
There was a study that showed all women are about similarly attracted to a specific male type/profiles on dating apps.

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Anonymous wrote:Both men and women are delusional about their options as they age. Older Men think young women find them impressive. Older women think that young men who have sex with them view them as attractive as their counterpart. This new attention they get after several years of neglect gives them the sense that somehow even if it's just about sex, if they wanted a relationship with those younger men they will get it.

We don't really think that. We just hope to find one of the few who might want us. That's a numbers game.

I basically agree. As a man over 55 who has had a few relationships with women in their 30s and early 40s, I know these kinds of women are out there. Some were very attracted to me. Some were a little attracted to me. The ones who weren't at all attracted to me usually rejected me by the end of the second date, or I never even got a first date. (I also have dated women my own age and older than me )

How much money do you make relative these women ? Do you own a nice house /car? Maybe those who were “attracted” just wanted a nicer lifestyle than what they could afford on their own…
There was a study that showed all women are about similarly attracted to a specific male type/profiles on dating apps.

Np here. Many of the ladies that are younger to me by 15-20 years are attracted to me as a person, they don’t care about my wallet

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Both men and women are delusional about their options as they age. Older Men think young women find them impressive. Older women think that young men who have sex with them view them as attractive as their counterpart. This new attention they get after several years of neglect gives them the sense that somehow even if it's just about sex, if they wanted a relationship with those younger men they will get it.

We don't really think that. We just hope to find one of the few who might want us. That's a numbers game.

I basically agree. As a man over 55 who has had a few relationships with women in their 30s and early 40s, I know these kinds of women are out there. Some were very attracted to me. Some were a little attracted to me. The ones who weren't at all attracted to me usually rejected me by the end of the second date, or I never even got a first date. (I also have dated women my own age and older than me )

How much money do you make relative these women ? Do you own a nice house /car? Maybe those who were “attracted” just wanted a nicer lifestyle than what they could afford on their own…
There was a study that showed all women are about similarly attracted to a specific male type/profiles on dating apps.

I'm a successful professional and the women I date are usually successful professionals too. I know it's hard to believe for women who aren't attracted to older men, but some women in their 30s and 40s are very attracted to older men in their 50s and 60s. Some of us old men can still satisfy those women sexually..