Wife Goes Silent on Work Travel

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ah DCUM never fails with the hypocrisy. If this was a DW complaining about a DH you'd be telling her what a selfish jerk he was. Instead, you've offered a million excuses for and accused OP of being needy and incapable of managing without her. Ok.

What thread are YOU reading? Most people here think she's out of line and needs to meet him with a face time. And that she is up to something nefarious.

[Anonymous]

OP- have you heard from her?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here, no real issues with trust. As I mentioned we've never cheated and we are both attractive, fit, very social people- meaning we could if we wanted. In fact, if I weren't mistaken I'm about 95% sure our daughter's K teacher was picking up on me during the PTCs last week. Smiled constantly, never broke eye contact and touched me on the shoulder as I left.

The hang up is the travel with men and no mention of them. And I do know they socialize and drink as a group because one of her colleagues (35, male, single, ex military) just got fired after the last trip for being drunk twice, including once around the client. This is a big no-no with her employer.

I simply can't envision being single, drinking, in some far flung place with attractive women and not picking up on them.

Oh, god. You pathetic, insecure little man. No, Your wife isn’t cheating on you. And your child’s K teacher doesn’t want you. You’re getting older, aren’t you? And a bit insecure about whether or not you’re still sexually attractive? So you have to make up little stories to tell yourself about younger women wanting you, and you have to clamp down on your wife to ensure she doesn’t stray. She’s probably a bit younger and more attractive than you, which makes you nervous. Men like you are a dime a dozen, a cliche. Pleas keep your crisis of confidence to yourself, and don’t confront your wife, or make a pass at the teacher.

Uhhh, you OK?

You do know there are plenty of attractive men out there right?

Not OP but my kid's K teacher (about 10 years ago) was a cute early 30s single woman. My husband was 38 ten years ago. And yes, he's cute. In another universe they could have been a couple.

God, I get so tired of other women slamming normal guys as creeps or md life crisis losers just because they admit to being attractive. Do you seriously not work with any men you find cute? I'm not talking about having affairs I'm talking about recognizing that someone is attractive.

He may be attractive, but is delusional if he thinks lots of younger women are gagging for him. And his insecurity really dries up the ole vageen.

If OP is Idris Elba, your entire argument crumbles before my eyes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here.

You can't make this stuff up. She texted 10 minutes ago and asked me to hug the kids good night. I asked to face time and she said she wouldn't because hotel wall too thin and would wake people.

Yup. IC work. They’re watching you. You’ve been warned.

[Anonymous]

OP it’s no wonder your wife doesn’t tell you anything about her work, you divulge way too much info and I haven’t even read all 11 pages. At worst, she is cheating, and you’ll find out eventually. At best, she isn’t, her work is legitimate, and you and your children are being protected in ways you could never dream of.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP it’s no wonder your wife doesn’t tell you anything about her work, you divulge way too much info and I haven’t even read all 11 pages. At worst, she is cheating, and you’ll find out eventually. At best, she isn’t, her work is legitimate, and you and your children are being protected in ways you could never dream of.

What, pray tell, has he divulged? That he's a married man to a woman with a job that has overseas travel?

Well, that sure narrows it down to .........100,000 people in DC alone.

Or are you just a misogynist that can't handle the idea of a woman having an important job?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP it’s no wonder your wife doesn’t tell you anything about her work, you divulge way too much info and I haven’t even read all 11 pages. At worst, she is cheating, and you’ll find out eventually. At best, she isn’t, her work is legitimate, and you and your children are being protected in ways you could never dream of.

What, pray tell, has he divulged? That he's a married man to a woman with a job that has overseas travel?

Well, that sure narrows it down to .........100,000 people in DC alone.

Or are you just a misogynist that can't handle the idea of a woman having an important job?

Dang. Ya got me.

[Anonymous]

OP

Not okay unless she's a spook.

[Anonymous]

She's cheating This isn't some buttoned up disciplined spy Ops. The wife and her male buddies are going out and getting drunk and fuchking.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here.

You can't make this stuff up. She texted 10 minutes ago and asked me to hug the kids good night. I asked to face time and she said she wouldn't because hotel wall too thin and would wake people.

Yup. IC work. They’re watching you. You’ve been warned.

Larla, I love that you're sensitive to your hotel neighbors. Head to the lobby and we can face time there.

[Anonymous]

When I'm gone, I am usually Gchatting with me wife all day. There's no way radio silence is an option.

[Anonymous]

Hey OPs wife-

Since you’re reading, give us the scoop! Having an affair? Super secret govt work? Just need a break from your family/DH?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I'm gone, I am usually Gchatting with me wife all day. There's no way radio silence is an option.

Do pirates gchat?

[Anonymous]

I've been checking this thread two nights in a row for an UPDATE! OP...we're DYING here!

[Anonymous]

Nobody FaceTimes International. Incredibly slow. Troll. She's sexting with her boyfriend over a much faster channel. Or just enjoying the silence.