Started seeing this new guy. Overhead him on the phone say “I don’t hate her. It’s not like that”?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ndn4b0/overheard_the_guy_im_seeing_tell_his_ex_i_dont/

According to the replies on Reddit it is Valentine’s Day poster. I hope that it is a troll and not a real person. Op if you are it a troll, please seek help and work on your self esteem.

*if you are not a troll

Why are you coming for OP’s self esteem? She confronted him (despite people saying she was crazy for it so good on her) and I have yet to hear OP say she was going to try and see it through with this guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ndn4b0/overheard_the_guy_im_seeing_tell_his_ex_i_dont/

According to the replies on Reddit it is Valentine’s Day poster. I hope that it is a troll and not a real person. Op if you are it a troll, please seek help and work on your self esteem.

*if you are not a troll

Why are you coming for OP’s self esteem? She confronted him (despite people saying she was crazy for it so good on her) and I have yet to hear OP say she was going to try and see it through with this guy.

Because someone with good self esteem would trust her instincts and not feel compelled to get opinions from another forum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ndn4b0/overheard_the_guy_im_seeing_tell_his_ex_i_dont/

According to the replies on Reddit it is Valentine’s Day poster. I hope that it is a troll and not a real person. Op if you are it a troll, please seek help and work on your self esteem.

*if you are not a troll

Why are you coming for OP’s self esteem? She confronted him (despite people saying she was crazy for it so good on her) and I have yet to hear OP say she was going to try and see it through with this guy.

Because someone with good self esteem would trust her instincts and not feel compelled to get opinions from another forum.

You sound awful. OP came here because she overheard something and wasn’t even sure if they were discussing her to begin with so because she does have self esteem she confronted him and asked what they were discussing and he confirmed that they were in fact talking about her.

Please get your facts straight before giving out “advice”. You’re loud and wrong.

[Anonymous]

No one has yet to explain why this guy didn’t tell his ex “no I don’t have feelings for her” when she asked. If he didn’t have feelings for OP he just would’ve come right and said that but he didn’t, why?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ndn4b0/overheard_the_guy_im_seeing_tell_his_ex_i_dont/

According to the replies on Reddit it is Valentine’s Day poster. I hope that it is a troll and not a real person. Op if you are it a troll, please seek help and work on your self esteem.

*if you are not a troll

Why are you coming for OP’s self esteem? She confronted him (despite people saying she was crazy for it so good on her) and I have yet to hear OP say she was going to try and see it through with this guy.

Because someone with good self esteem would trust her instincts and not feel compelled to get opinions from another forum.

You sound awful. OP came here because she overheard something and wasn’t even sure if they were discussing her to begin with so because she does have self esteem she confronted him and asked what they were discussing and he confirmed that they were in fact talking about her.

Please get your facts straight before giving out “advice”. You’re loud and wrong.

Op, you have started 1000 threads on here and Reddit asking if this guys is not over his ex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one has yet to explain why this guy didn’t tell his ex “no I don’t have feelings for her” when she asked. If he didn’t have feelings for OP he just would’ve come right and said that but he didn’t, why?

Op, he doesn’t have feeling for you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one has yet to explain why this guy didn’t tell his ex “no I don’t have feelings for her” when she asked. If he didn’t have feelings for OP he just would’ve come right and said that but he didn’t, why?

Because he knew that she es listening to the conversation. Op, how old are you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one has yet to explain why this guy didn’t tell his ex “no I don’t have feelings for her” when she asked. If he didn’t have feelings for OP he just would’ve come right and said that but he didn’t, why?

You know why. Because he does.

He was waffling to OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ndn4b0/overheard_the_guy_im_seeing_tell_his_ex_i_dont/

According to the replies on Reddit it is Valentine’s Day poster. I hope that it is a troll and not a real person. Op if you are it a troll, please seek help and work on your self esteem.

*if you are not a troll

Why are you coming for OP’s self esteem? She confronted him (despite people saying she was crazy for it so good on her) and I have yet to hear OP say she was going to try and see it through with this guy.

OK.


OP, are you going to try to see it through with this guy?

[Anonymous]

We will wait for your honest réponse, especially if you aren’t a troll. You declared earlier you weren’t the Valentine’s Day poster. Despite evidence suggesting otherwise.

We will wait.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We will wait for your honest réponse, especially if you aren’t a troll. You declared earlier you weren’t the Valentine’s Day poster. Despite evidence suggesting otherwise.

We will wait.

The vday poster is probably off making and casting love spells for the guy. OP sounds a lot less nuts than vday girl.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No one has yet to explain why this guy didn’t tell his ex “no I don’t have feelings for her” when she asked. If he didn’t have feelings for OP he just would’ve come right and said that but he didn’t, why?

Op, he doesn’t have feeling for you!

PP, I’m the one who wrote that and said earlier that you all were making it a big deal by being negative since he’s single. Still have yet to explain why he refrained from saying no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We will wait for your honest réponse, especially if you aren’t a troll. You declared earlier you weren’t the Valentine’s Day poster. Despite evidence suggesting otherwise.

We will wait.

The vday poster is probably off making and casting love spells for the guy. OP sounds a lot less nuts than vday girl.

Someone posted a link from Reddit where Op replied and it was clear that it is vday poster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No one has yet to explain why this guy didn’t tell his ex “no I don’t have feelings for her” when she asked. If he didn’t have feelings for OP he just would’ve come right and said that but he didn’t, why?

You know why. Because he does.

He was waffling to OP.

I don’t even think it’s that. If he was so worried about OPs feelings he wouldn’t have answered his ex’s call to begin with. Even OP was sitting at home if he cared he wouldn’t gotten into a discussion about OP with his ex.

He found out that his ex was on a date last month, got upset about it, and had so much of an issue he had to contact his ex. His ex, a month later in turn asks him if he has feelings for OP. He responds “I don’t hate her”. He knows his ex is looking for him to confirm or deny with a yes or no, preferably deny with a no. So he’s not giving his ex a concrete answer with “I don’t date her. It’s not like that”. Of course he doesn’t hate OP. However, he is hurt that his ex is out here dating. He doesn’t want to say yes because it’s not true but isn’t going to say no to give his ex the satisfaction that he’s still hung up on her 100% and to not appear so vulnerable.

I hope this makes sense lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No one has yet to explain why this guy didn’t tell his ex “no I don’t have feelings for her” when she asked. If he didn’t have feelings for OP he just would’ve come right and said that but he didn’t, why?

You know why. Because he does.

He was waffling to OP.

I don’t even think it’s that. If he was so worried about OPs feelings he wouldn’t have answered his ex’s call to begin with. Even OP was sitting at home if he cared he wouldn’t gotten into a discussion about OP with his ex.

He found out that his ex was on a date last month, got upset about it, and had so much of an issue he had to contact his ex. His ex, a month later in turn asks him if he has feelings for OP. He responds “I don’t hate her”. He knows his ex is looking for him to confirm or deny with a yes or no, preferably deny with a no. So he’s not giving his ex a concrete answer with “I don’t date her. It’s not like that”. Of course he doesn’t hate OP. However, he is hurt that his ex is out here dating. He doesn’t want to say yes because it’s not true but isn’t going to say no to give his ex the satisfaction that he’s still hung up on her 100% and to not appear so vulnerable.

I hope this makes sense lol.

Girl, I tried to follow but I’m old and my eyes confused. Bottom line. He still sounds like a player in the game. Ain’t. Ivory got time for that. ‘Cept rookies.