Sleeping with someone for first time when you're over 50

[Anonymous]

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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

Don't feed the misogynistic troll. Im sure you look fine.

Agreed. There is no reason to prove yourself to these losers.

Own your confidence 👍

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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

We require multiple angles. Upload here:
https://imgbb.com/

Can’t show the full face here but sure, here are some.

https://ibb.co/QnCvK0N
https://ibb.co/FxkbTv3
https://ibb.co/tqdPQBq
https://ibb.co/0qTyLkh
https://ibb.co/PZsBrXd
https://ibb.co/L6z8k1z
https://ibb.co/gvhhHMq

That’s a sweet onion. Would consider foregoing the condoms for you.

-Vasectomy Dad in his 40s

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Umm BV is not an STI and neither is a UTI. Do you know what bacterial vaginitis is caused from? It’s caused from semen throwing off the PH in your vagina and causing an infection. People trying for babies get BV all the time because anytime semen sits inside you there is a risk of BV. You are a frekan idiot. Are you also gonna blame a guy for giving you a yeast infection? These things all involve your own vaginas response. Has nothing to do with the guy “giving it to you”.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Here is what all the men’s bravado, and women’s passivity yields:

https://thehill.com/changing-america/well-being/prevention-cures/4564052-stds-have-risen-among-adults-55-and-older-cdc/

I’m 50. There was definitely sex education when I was in school. Maybe 60+ didn’t have it? But 55 years old did.

Catholic school just taught girls about their periods.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Here is what all the men’s bravado, and women’s passivity yields:

https://thehill.com/changing-america/well-being/prevention-cures/4564052-stds-have-risen-among-adults-55-and-older-cdc/

I’m 50. There was definitely sex education when I was in school. Maybe 60+ didn’t have it? But 55 years old did.

Catholic school just taught girls about their periods.

Serious question - is that different today?

[Anonymous]

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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

We require multiple angles. Upload here:
https://imgbb.com/

Can’t show the full face here but sure, here are some.

https://ibb.co/QnCvK0N
https://ibb.co/FxkbTv3
https://ibb.co/tqdPQBq
https://ibb.co/0qTyLkh
https://ibb.co/PZsBrXd
https://ibb.co/L6z8k1z
https://ibb.co/gvhhHMq

You post these photos on dating sites?

Seems like something you would see on an escort site.

You are attractive, but are you mainly trying to attract sexual partners?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Old people are among those with high STD rates

Wrong.

" In 2022, half (49.8%) of reported cases of chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis (all stages) were among adolescents and young adults aged 15–24 years."

https://www.cdc.gov/std/statistics/2022/overview.htm

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is what all the men’s bravado, and women’s passivity yields:

https://thehill.com/changing-america/well-being/prevention-cures/4564052-stds-have-risen-among-adults-55-and-older-cdc/

I’m 50. There was definitely sex education when I was in school. Maybe 60+ didn’t have it? But 55 years old did.

Catholic school just taught girls about their periods.

Every Catholic girl I knew in HS in the 90s would let you toss it in her ass. Not sure what they are teaching in Catholic girls school these days, but they were freaks back then. Can’t get pregnant in the butt!

[Anonymous]

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Umm BV is not an STI and neither is a UTI. Do you know what bacterial vaginitis is caused from? It’s caused from semen throwing off the PH in your vagina and causing an infection. People trying for babies get BV all the time because anytime semen sits inside you there is a risk of BV. You are a frekan idiot. Are you also gonna blame a guy for giving you a yeast infection? These things all involve your own vaginas response. Has nothing to do with the guy “giving it to you”.

Yes and yes.

It comes from semen like you just said. And I don’t ascribe to male dominated men can do no harm gynecological theories that haven’t been updated in decades because men are asymptomatic. Bacteria and viruses spread by sexual contact.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is what all the men’s bravado, and women’s passivity yields:

https://thehill.com/changing-america/well-being/prevention-cures/4564052-stds-have-risen-among-adults-55-and-older-cdc/

I’m 50. There was definitely sex education when I was in school. Maybe 60+ didn’t have it? But 55 years old did.

Catholic school just taught girls about their periods.

Serious question - is that different today?

Probably not in Florida—Catholic or no!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is what all the men’s bravado, and women’s passivity yields:

https://thehill.com/changing-america/well-being/prevention-cures/4564052-stds-have-risen-among-adults-55-and-older-cdc/

I’m 50. There was definitely sex education when I was in school. Maybe 60+ didn’t have it? But 55 years old did.

Catholic school just taught girls about their periods.

Every Catholic girl I knew in HS in the 90s would let you toss it in her ass. Not sure what they are teaching in Catholic girls school these days, but they were freaks back then. Can’t get pregnant in the butt!

Girls taught to be “abstinent” also think that they are still virgins if they don’t have vaginal intercourse.

Sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Umm BV is not an STI and neither is a UTI. Do you know what bacterial vaginitis is caused from? It’s caused from semen throwing off the PH in your vagina and causing an infection. People trying for babies get BV all the time because anytime semen sits inside you there is a risk of BV. You are a frekan idiot. Are you also gonna blame a guy for giving you a yeast infection? These things all involve your own vaginas response. Has nothing to do with the guy “giving it to you”.

Yes and yes.

It comes from semen like you just said. And I don’t ascribe to male dominated men can do no harm gynecological theories that haven’t been updated in decades because men are asymptomatic. Bacteria and viruses spread by sexual contact.

It’s not the semen that is infected, it’s your own ph makeup that causes the infection. They aren’t “spreading” anything. Another person will not react the same way. Literally babies get UTIs and yeast infections. I hope you are not out there being sexually actuate because you really have no idea what you are talking about.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

We require multiple angles. Upload here:
https://imgbb.com/

Can’t show the full face here but sure, here are some.

https://ibb.co/QnCvK0N
https://ibb.co/FxkbTv3
https://ibb.co/tqdPQBq
https://ibb.co/0qTyLkh
https://ibb.co/PZsBrXd
https://ibb.co/L6z8k1z
https://ibb.co/gvhhHMq

That’s a sweet onion. Would consider foregoing the condoms for you.

-Vasectomy Dad in his 40s

Sex only after marriage. I'm deeply religious

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If nothing else, posting pictures of yourself on a site like this-that you say doesn’t matter because they have already been published, makes it incredibly easy for random internet strangers to find out your name, address and everything else.

So you think you are “empowering” women when you are really just fueling the awful stereotype that beautiful women are also incredibly stupid.

Genuinely curious how.

NP

Before posting your photos do a quick google search on geolocation, VPN, and all the data a poster could gather about you from one single photo. Next time use Tor or the like.

That's with the photo itself, not after being transferred to imgur or whatever.

Jeff is the only one with ISP data here.

Agree but there are ways

Ok, so if you are so skilled with IT - please, post my initials here. I'm insanely curious, being an IT professional myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html