For those of you whose parents divorced when you were 20+, if one of your parents started a second

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Anonymous wrote:The adult child should be thinking about how to work hard to be financially independent, instead of thinking about getting money from parents without hard work. Grow up!

It's not about money, it's about time. And about not having your family life dominated by annoying new wife and her spoiled kids.

The only spoiled kids here are the greedy older ones and their gold digging moms crying about inheritance.
Feel sorry for men

The only spoiled adult is the new wife who can’t support herself.

Again I work lol and so do many second wives ... seems more the first ones don't...crying now because they can't support themselves

Great so you don’t need the inheritance.

Also why do you keep bringing up the ex-wife? We are talking about children from the first marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:The greed and entitlement on this thread is so gross. I hope it’s the same poster over and over and not multiple crazy people.

+1. OP, did your father treat you well before you turned 18? Do you want your father to be happy? What do you expect from your father when you are an adult?

Why does their father need to pay a woman to “be happy”?

How do you know this? Even it is the case, it is the father’s life and money. He does what he wants, he does now owe his adult child anything.

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Ask yourself how you would like your children to be treated, if their father is still alive when they are adults. Ignored in favor of a new family? Would you remarry and have more kids and ignore your older children? I doubt it. But somehow it's okay for your DH to do it to his.

Why do adult children need an inheritance. Younger children I understand

It's not about inheritance, it's about getting to spend time with their father, and about their own children having a grandfather in their lives. Men in this situation simply don't have the time or energy to be a good husband to the new wife and a good father and grandfather to all their children and grandchildren. Someone's going to get the short end of the stick, and it's usually the ACOD because he doesn't want another divorce.

Oh come on. This whole thread is about money. My parents aren’t divorced and don’t spend a lot of time with my kids. Life is not full of guarantees.

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

Get over it..your money lol ? ? Greedy. If you weren't such a greedy cow you would be married.
second wife here just read this to my DH. He says if you women on this thread weren't such greedy c*ws you would probably still be married

That’s why our money always went into a family trust because money grubbing women like you. Not sure why you want my money. Your H sound like a winner, he wants his ex wife to fund his new wife, pathetic. Get a job, build your own trust.

I have a job idiot do you not read. It's your crazy as* groveling to us for money because oh no alimony and child support not taking you far. I have put all my cash earnt on my own into a trust for my kids. So your greedy as* doesn't drain me to pay for your kids weddings because your benefit check won't cover it

Great you and your h and your kids don’t need the inheritance.

Good on ya hon.

Lol my ex-h’s and my money will pay for the wedding, out of the trust he and I created for our kids and you can’t stand in the way of that, or stop it.

I’m sure you’ll keep a score card and make sure your kids get an equal wedding though… poor sap.

What trust you created....lol I have more money than the first wife which I earnt ...

Great then stop asking for the inheritance.

Are you thick I just wrote I dont want his inheritance and have told him as much.
As pp poster said I pay for our lifestyle whilst ex wife leeches of him to maintain hers

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

There was no money during the marriage. If she wanted his money, she shouldn't have cheated and stayed married to him. Simple.

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We aren’t talking about ex cheating wives.

We are talking about his kids.

Do you punish the kids because she cheated? Nice

You aren't punishing kids by not leaving them an inheritance. Maybe all the money is the new wife's. Ever consider that?

You are not entitled to an inhertance.

And, yes, cheating wives has a huge impact.

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Anonymous wrote:The greed and entitlement on this thread is so gross. I hope it’s the same poster over and over and not multiple crazy people.

+1. OP, did your father treat you well before you turned 18? Do you want your father to be happy? What do you expect from your father when you are an adult?

Why does their father need to pay a woman to “be happy”?

How do you know this? Even it is the case, it is the father’s life and money. He does what he wants, he does now owe his adult child anything.

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Ask yourself how you would like your children to be treated, if their father is still alive when they are adults. Ignored in favor of a new family? Would you remarry and have more kids and ignore your older children? I doubt it. But somehow it's okay for your DH to do it to his.

Why do adult children need an inheritance. Younger children I understand

It's not about inheritance, it's about getting to spend time with their father, and about their own children having a grandfather in their lives. Men in this situation simply don't have the time or energy to be a good husband to the new wife and a good father and grandfather to all their children and grandchildren. Someone's going to get the short end of the stick, and it's usually the ACOD because he doesn't want another divorce.

Oh come on. This whole thread is about money. My parents aren’t divorced and don’t spend a lot of time with my kids. Life is not full of guarantees.

My parents see my kids a few hours a year and we live close by. You are right, it has little to do with it. I expect no inheritance. I don't even expect a $5 gift for my kids birthdays nor mine and my parents can afford it.

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Anonymous wrote:The greed and entitlement on this thread is so gross. I hope it’s the same poster over and over and not multiple crazy people.

+1. OP, did your father treat you well before you turned 18? Do you want your father to be happy? What do you expect from your father when you are an adult?

Why does their father need to pay a woman to “be happy”?

How do you know this? Even it is the case, it is the father’s life and money. He does what he wants, he does now owe his adult child anything.

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Ask yourself how you would like your children to be treated, if their father is still alive when they are adults. Ignored in favor of a new family? Would you remarry and have more kids and ignore your older children? I doubt it. But somehow it's okay for your DH to do it to his.

What if the adult kids ignore Dad? What if the mother wouldn't allow a relationship? You think in that situation they should 100% inherit all money? What about the fact his wife also earned a portion of the money? What about the fact that the new marriage lasted far longer than the original one? Sometimes Dads want to be a part of the kids lives but the mom's refuse and will not allow it, even when the kids are adults.

No one is entitled to an inheritance. Even if your parents are married you are not entitled for them to pay for college and inherit.

And, in all honesty, I wouldn't bother telling my husband's "kids" when he passes if I outlive him. My kids wouldn't tell them either. They can figure it out when Mom stops receiving his pension check.

You seem like a real charmer, I can't imagine why they'd avoid spending time with you.

The children are adults now and if their father wishes to rebuild a relationship with them, there is nothing their mother can do to stop him. If your DH doesn't have it in him to do that, I wonder why you chose him to be the father of your children. Remember, how he treats them is how he will treat yours some day.

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

Get over it..your money lol ? ? Greedy. If you weren't such a greedy cow you would be married.
second wife here just read this to my DH. He says if you women on this thread weren't such greedy c*ws you would probably still be married

That’s why our money always went into a family trust because money grubbing women like you. Not sure why you want my money. Your H sound like a winner, he wants his ex wife to fund his new wife, pathetic. Get a job, build your own trust.

I have a job idiot do you not read. It's your crazy as* groveling to us for money because oh no alimony and child support not taking you far. I have put all my cash earnt on my own into a trust for my kids. So your greedy as* doesn't drain me to pay for your kids weddings because your benefit check won't cover it

Great you and your h and your kids don’t need the inheritance.

Good on ya hon.

Lol my ex-h’s and my money will pay for the wedding, out of the trust he and I created for our kids and you can’t stand in the way of that, or stop it.

I’m sure you’ll keep a score card and make sure your kids get an equal wedding though… poor sap.

What trust you created....lol I have more money than the first wife which I earnt ...

Great then stop asking for the inheritance.

Are you thick I just wrote I dont want his inheritance and have told him as much.
As pp poster said I pay for our lifestyle whilst ex wife leeches of him to maintain hers

I paid for everything, and often supplemented for the kid's needs in terms of clothing and plane tickets as my husband couldn't afford it. He didn't start earning enough to support us till many years into the marriage and at that point child support was over. His ex gets life long alimony. So for 10 years of marriage in their 20's, she gets, what 50+ years of his income. A great deal for her. Sadly, she doesn't do anything for the kids with his money.

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

There was no money during the marriage. If she wanted his money, she shouldn't have cheated and stayed married to him. Simple.

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We aren’t talking about ex cheating wives.

We are talking about his kids.

Do you punish the kids because she cheated? Nice

You aren't punishing kids by not leaving them an inheritance. Maybe all the money is the new wife's. Ever consider that?

You are not entitled to an inhertance.

And, yes, cheating wives has a huge impact.

We aren’t talking about the new wife’s money we are talking about the dad’s inheritance.

2nd wives can have a more negative impact, don’t be that person.

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

Get over it..your money lol ? ? Greedy. If you weren't such a greedy cow you would be married.
second wife here just read this to my DH. He says if you women on this thread weren't such greedy c*ws you would probably still be married

That’s why our money always went into a family trust because money grubbing women like you. Not sure why you want my money. Your H sound like a winner, he wants his ex wife to fund his new wife, pathetic. Get a job, build your own trust.

I have a job idiot do you not read. It's your crazy as* groveling to us for money because oh no alimony and child support not taking you far. I have put all my cash earnt on my own into a trust for my kids. So your greedy as* doesn't drain me to pay for your kids weddings because your benefit check won't cover it

Great you and your h and your kids don’t need the inheritance.

Good on ya hon.

Lol my ex-h’s and my money will pay for the wedding, out of the trust he and I created for our kids and you can’t stand in the way of that, or stop it.

I’m sure you’ll keep a score card and make sure your kids get an equal wedding though… poor sap.

What trust you created....lol I have more money than the first wife which I earnt ...

Great then stop asking for the inheritance.

Are you thick I just wrote I dont want his inheritance and have told him as much.
As pp poster said I pay for our lifestyle whilst ex wife leeches of him to maintain hers

Great we agree his inheritance goes to his adult children. Nobody is talking about ex-wives except for you.

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I detest my dad & his second wife. They’re raising their kids in my childhood home. His daughter’s bedroom is mine.

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Make your own money. Stop relying on daddy for your retirement.

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Anonymous wrote:The greed and entitlement on this thread is so gross. I hope it’s the same poster over and over and not multiple crazy people.

+1. OP, did your father treat you well before you turned 18? Do you want your father to be happy? What do you expect from your father when you are an adult?

Why does their father need to pay a woman to “be happy”?

How do you know this? Even it is the case, it is the father’s life and money. He does what he wants, he does now owe his adult child anything.

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Ask yourself how you would like your children to be treated, if their father is still alive when they are adults. Ignored in favor of a new family? Would you remarry and have more kids and ignore your older children? I doubt it. But somehow it's okay for your DH to do it to his.

What if the adult kids ignore Dad? What if the mother wouldn't allow a relationship? You think in that situation they should 100% inherit all money? What about the fact his wife also earned a portion of the money? What about the fact that the new marriage lasted far longer than the original one? Sometimes Dads want to be a part of the kids lives but the mom's refuse and will not allow it, even when the kids are adults.

No one is entitled to an inheritance. Even if your parents are married you are not entitled for them to pay for college and inherit.

And, in all honesty, I wouldn't bother telling my husband's "kids" when he passes if I outlive him. My kids wouldn't tell them either. They can figure it out when Mom stops receiving his pension check.

You seem like a real charmer, I can't imagine why they'd avoid spending time with you.

The children are adults now and if their father wishes to rebuild a relationship with them, there is nothing their mother can do to stop him. If your DH doesn't have it in him to do that, I wonder why you chose him to be the father of your children. Remember, how he treats them is how he will treat yours some day.

He treats me very well and treated them very well too. I have no worries. I know why I choose him to be my kids father and he's a great father.

Now, you should talk to the AP's ex-wife. She can tell you lots of stories about his ex-wife. She is far from a nice, good person.

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Anonymous wrote:I detest my dad & his second wife. They’re raising their kids in my childhood home. His daughter’s bedroom is mine.

So, what would you prefer they do, sell the house? You think your room should be a shrine?

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

Get over it..your money lol ? ? Greedy. If you weren't such a greedy cow you would be married.
second wife here just read this to my DH. He says if you women on this thread weren't such greedy c*ws you would probably still be married

That’s why our money always went into a family trust because money grubbing women like you. Not sure why you want my money. Your H sound like a winner, he wants his ex wife to fund his new wife, pathetic. Get a job, build your own trust.

I have a job idiot do you not read. It's your crazy as* groveling to us for money because oh no alimony and child support not taking you far. I have put all my cash earnt on my own into a trust for my kids. So your greedy as* doesn't drain me to pay for your kids weddings because your benefit check won't cover it

Great you and your h and your kids don’t need the inheritance.

Good on ya hon.

Lol my ex-h’s and my money will pay for the wedding, out of the trust he and I created for our kids and you can’t stand in the way of that, or stop it.

I’m sure you’ll keep a score card and make sure your kids get an equal wedding though… poor sap.

What trust you created....lol I have more money than the first wife which I earnt ...

Great then stop asking for the inheritance.

Are you thick I just wrote I dont want his inheritance and have told him as much.
As pp poster said I pay for our lifestyle whilst ex wife leeches of him to maintain hers

I paid for everything, and often supplemented for the kid's needs in terms of clothing and plane tickets as my husband couldn't afford it. He didn't start earning enough to support us till many years into the marriage and at that point child support was over. His ex gets life long alimony. So for 10 years of marriage in their 20's, she gets, what 50+ years of his income. A great deal for her. Sadly, she doesn't do anything for the kids with his money.

Same I'm paying for everything for my kids. Thankfully slug doesn't get life alimony. Just got child support and made DH pay for all extras flights, trips, clothing, tuition.
Second wives actually have it worse.

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When my SIL’s dad died…. She was power of attorney for him.

His house was in her name due to his bad credit. The new wife was a peach.

She flew in .. creamated his body, had no funeral, took his car and sold it, evicted her in 30 days and sold the house.

It was wild.