For those of you whose parents divorced when you were 20+, if one of your parents started a second

03/27/2023 21:28

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Anonymous wrote:The adult child should be thinking about how to work hard to be financially independent, instead of thinking about getting money from parents without hard work. Grow up!

+1! This thread is so weird.

03/27/2023 21:28

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

Get over it..your money lol ? ? Greedy. If you weren't such a greedy cow you would be married.
second wife here just read this to my DH. He says if you women on this thread weren't such greedy c*ws you would probably still be married

That’s why our money always went into a family trust because money grubbing women like you. Not sure why you want my money. Your H sound like a winner, he wants his ex wife to fund his new wife, pathetic. Get a job, build your own trust.

I have a job idiot do you not read. It's your crazy as* groveling to us for money because oh no alimony and child support not taking you far. I have put all my cash earnt on my own into a trust for my kids. So your greedy as* doesn't drain me to pay for your kids weddings because your benefit check won't cover it

Great you and your h and your kids don’t need the inheritance.

Good on ya hon.

Lol my ex-h’s and my money will pay for the wedding, out of the trust he and I created for our kids and you can’t stand in the way of that, or stop it.

I’m sure you’ll keep a score card and make sure your kids get an equal wedding though… poor sap.

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Anonymous wrote:The adult child should be thinking about how to work hard to be financially independent, instead of thinking about getting money from parents without hard work. Grow up!

It's not about money, it's about time. And about not having your family life dominated by annoying new wife and her spoiled kids.

The only spoiled kids here are the greedy older ones and their gold digging moms crying about inheritance.
Feel sorry for men

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Anonymous wrote:The adult child should be thinking about how to work hard to be financially independent, instead of thinking about getting money from parents without hard work. Grow up!

+1! This thread is so weird. [/quote

So should the adult 2nd wife.

She should work hard to be financially independent instead of marrying for money. Grow up!

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Anonymous wrote:The adult child should be thinking about how to work hard to be financially independent, instead of thinking about getting money from parents without hard work. Grow up!

+1! This thread is so weird.

So should the adult 2nd wife.

She should work hard to be financially independent instead of marrying for money. Grow up!

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Anonymous wrote:The greed and entitlement on this thread is so gross. I hope it’s the same poster over and over and not multiple crazy people.

+1. OP, did your father treat you well before you turned 18? Do you want your father to be happy? What do you expect from your father when you are an adult?

Why does their father need to pay a woman to “be happy”?

How do you know this? Even it is the case, it is the father’s life and money. He does what he wants, he does now owe his adult child anything.

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Ask yourself how you would like your children to be treated, if their father is still alive when they are adults. Ignored in favor of a new family? Would you remarry and have more kids and ignore your older children? I doubt it. But somehow it's okay for your DH to do it to his.

Why do adult children need an inheritance. Younger children I understand

It's not about inheritance, it's about getting to spend time with their father, and about their own children having a grandfather in their lives. Men in this situation simply don't have the time or energy to be a good husband to the new wife and a good father and grandfather to all their children and grandchildren. Someone's going to get the short end of the stick, and it's usually the ACOD because he doesn't want another divorce.

And because he knows who butters his bread.

03/27/2023 21:30

Subject: For those of you whose parents divorced when you were 20+, if one of your parents started a second

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Anonymous wrote:The adult child should be thinking about how to work hard to be financially independent, instead of thinking about getting money from parents without hard work. Grow up!

It's not about money, it's about time. And about not having your family life dominated by annoying new wife and her spoiled kids.

The only spoiled kids here are the greedy older ones and their gold digging moms crying about inheritance.
Feel sorry for men

The only spoiled adult is the new wife who can’t support herself.

03/27/2023 21:30

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Anonymous wrote:The greed and entitlement on this thread is so gross. I hope it’s the same poster over and over and not multiple crazy people.

+1. OP, did your father treat you well before you turned 18? Do you want your father to be happy? What do you expect from your father when you are an adult?

Why does their father need to pay a woman to “be happy”?

How do you know this? Even it is the case, it is the father’s life and money. He does what he wants, he does now owe his adult child anything.

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Ask yourself how you would like your children to be treated, if their father is still alive when they are adults. Ignored in favor of a new family? Would you remarry and have more kids and ignore your older children? I doubt it. But somehow it's okay for your DH to do it to his.

What if the adult kids ignore Dad? What if the mother wouldn't allow a relationship? You think in that situation they should 100% inherit all money? What about the fact his wife also earned a portion of the money? What about the fact that the new marriage lasted far longer than the original one? Sometimes Dads want to be a part of the kids lives but the mom's refuse and will not allow it, even when the kids are adults.

No one is entitled to an inheritance. Even if your parents are married you are not entitled for them to pay for college and inherit.

And, in all honesty, I wouldn't bother telling my husband's "kids" when he passes if I outlive him. My kids wouldn't tell them either. They can figure it out when Mom stops receiving his pension check.

03/27/2023 21:30

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

Get over it..your money lol ? ? Greedy. If you weren't such a greedy cow you would be married.
second wife here just read this to my DH. He says if you women on this thread weren't such greedy c*ws you would probably still be married

That’s why our money always went into a family trust because money grubbing women like you. Not sure why you want my money. Your H sound like a winner, he wants his ex wife to fund his new wife, pathetic. Get a job, build your own trust.

I have a job idiot do you not read. It's your crazy as* groveling to us for money because oh no alimony and child support not taking you far. I have put all my cash earnt on my own into a trust for my kids. So your greedy as* doesn't drain me to pay for your kids weddings because your benefit check won't cover it

Great you and your h and your kids don’t need the inheritance.

Good on ya hon.

Lol my ex-h’s and my money will pay for the wedding, out of the trust he and I created for our kids and you can’t stand in the way of that, or stop it.

I’m sure you’ll keep a score card and make sure your kids get an equal wedding though… poor sap.

What trust you created....lol I have more money than the first wife which I earnt ...

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

There was no money during the marriage. If she wanted his money, she shouldn't have cheated and stayed married to him. Simple.

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We aren’t talking about ex cheating wives.

We are talking about his kids.

Do you punish the kids because she cheated? Nice

Subject: For those of you whose parents divorced when you were 20+, if one of your parents started a second

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Anonymous wrote:The adult child should be thinking about how to work hard to be financially independent, instead of thinking about getting money from parents without hard work. Grow up!

It's not about money, it's about time. And about not having your family life dominated by annoying new wife and her spoiled kids.

The only spoiled kids here are the greedy older ones and their gold digging moms crying about inheritance.
Feel sorry for men

The only spoiled adult is the new wife who can’t support herself.

How about the spoiled ex-wife who cheated, left for her affair partner, and gets child support and life long alimony? Many new wives work. By the time the Dad's pay child support, alimony and all the extra's there isn't much money left so often is the new wife supporting the lifestyle.

Subject: For those of you whose parents divorced when you were 20+, if one of your parents started a second

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Anonymous wrote:The adult child should be thinking about how to work hard to be financially independent, instead of thinking about getting money from parents without hard work. Grow up!

It's not about money, it's about time. And about not having your family life dominated by annoying new wife and her spoiled kids.

The only spoiled kids here are the greedy older ones and their gold digging moms crying about inheritance.
Feel sorry for men

The only spoiled adult is the new wife who can’t support herself.

Again I work lol and so do many second wives ... seems more the first ones don't...crying now because they can't support themselves

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Anonymous wrote:Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want. And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college. Ohmygod hell no! We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up. He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks. And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way!

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.

No one is entitled to inheritance.

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.

Who says we want it?

Good we agree, you should not get it.

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE
Married to 'slugs' and now their baby slugs are crying about inheritance

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.

Get over it..your money lol ? ? Greedy. If you weren't such a greedy cow you would be married.
second wife here just read this to my DH. He says if you women on this thread weren't such greedy c*ws you would probably still be married

That’s why our money always went into a family trust because money grubbing women like you. Not sure why you want my money. Your H sound like a winner, he wants his ex wife to fund his new wife, pathetic. Get a job, build your own trust.

I have a job idiot do you not read. It's your crazy as* groveling to us for money because oh no alimony and child support not taking you far. I have put all my cash earnt on my own into a trust for my kids. So your greedy as* doesn't drain me to pay for your kids weddings because your benefit check won't cover it

Great you and your h and your kids don’t need the inheritance.

Good on ya hon.

Lol my ex-h’s and my money will pay for the wedding, out of the trust he and I created for our kids and you can’t stand in the way of that, or stop it.

I’m sure you’ll keep a score card and make sure your kids get an equal wedding though… poor sap.

What trust you created....lol I have more money than the first wife which I earnt ...

Great then stop asking for the inheritance.

Subject: For those of you whose parents divorced when you were 20+, if one of your parents started a second

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Anonymous

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The adult child should be thinking about how to work hard to be financially independent, instead of thinking about getting money from parents without hard work. Grow up!

It's not about money, it's about time. And about not having your family life dominated by annoying new wife and her spoiled kids.

The only spoiled kids here are the greedy older ones and their gold digging moms crying about inheritance.
Feel sorry for men

The only spoiled adult is the new wife who can’t support herself.

How about the spoiled ex-wife who cheated, left for her affair partner, and gets child support and life long alimony? Many new wives work. By the time the Dad's pay child support, alimony and all the extra's there isn't much money left so often is the new wife supporting the lifestyle.

Thank you this.