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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The greed and entitlement on this thread is so gross. I hope it’s the same poster over and over and not multiple crazy people. [/quote]

+1.  OP, did your father treat you well before you turned 18? Do you want your father to be happy?  What do you expect from your father when you are an adult? [/quote]

Why does their father need to pay a woman to “be happy”?[/quote]

How do you know this? Even it is the case, it is the father’s life and money.  He does what he wants, he does now owe his adult child anything.  [/quote]

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Ask yourself how you would like your children to be treated, if their father is still alive when they are adults. Ignored in favor of a new family? Would you remarry and have more kids and ignore your older children? I doubt it. But somehow it's okay for your DH to do it to his.[/quote]

Why do adult children need an inheritance. Younger children I understand[/quote]

It's not about inheritance, it's about getting to spend time with their father, and about their own children having a grandfather in their lives. Men in this situation simply don't have the time or energy to be a good husband to the new wife and a good father and grandfather to all their children and grandchildren. Someone's going to get the short end of the stick, and it's usually the ACOD because he doesn't want another divorce.[/quote]

Oh come on. This whole thread is about money. My parents aren’t divorced and don’t spend a lot of time with my kids. Life is not full of guarantees. [/quote]

My parents see my kids a few hours a year and we live close by.  You are right, it has little to do with it.  I expect no inheritance.  I don't even expect a $5 gift for my kids birthdays nor mine and my parents can afford it.[/quote]

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